Libra guy...i need help :/

It started off when he was switched to my department and after 2 weeks...he treated me like a princess with no strings attached for no reason just because of his feels for me, both of us single. Stared at me, got all protective over me around guys and wanted to talk to me all the time. Also, his harem dried up in a few days too.

Hes respectable, confident and a level-headed gentleman but around me he'd become my attention-seeking pup it was cute. I liked it except i made it clear to him that i dont feel the same way, i told him that to his face after 2 weeks (harsh, i kno). He was hurt, disappeared for 3 days. I did it because i had no interest in him and i felt like by keeping him around, i'd be abusing his kindness since hes not going to get anything in return. I'd rather be told the cold-harsh truth than live in an illusion of false hope. if i dont have any interest in you im going to let you know no matter what, no need to waste mine/your precious time on me. He came back after 3 days, chased me persistantly for a year.

Then for about ten months i was away from him, i had to move back to my hometown. During the 10 months gap, i realized i had feelings for him....i missed him every single day. But i couldnt contact him....i was a little ashamed. When i came back he was still pursuing me, i felt guilty i couldnt look him in the eye. What do i do?

snap into a slim jim

what is this harem that dried up?

I understand absence makes the heart grow fonder, but that's only true if you liked someone. it seems like you didn't see him in a romantic way until he was out of your life. why is that?

did you truly miss him or did you miss the attention from him?

WOW...you said he's respectable, confident and a level-headed gentleman, but obviously that's not what you were seeking in a man? Well, you probably won't ever get the attention you got before, so just be aware of that. Even if he's still fond of you, trust me, he won't forget your harshness, as you stated. Plus, all men love a challenge, but you may have went too far with your Libra dude, which seems a little odd for a Libra. Usually when they show that MUCH interest and it's not reciprocated, they kinda move on, but then again, I've heard that Libra men are totally different from Libra women. I think Tiz is a Libra, and he always gives great advice, so listen to him🙂. As "Acrimsonxsoleil" said...Are you sure it's not the attention that you miss? Anyway, I've seen stranger things, so if you really like and miss HIM and not the attention, then go for it...maybe there's still a chance. Good Luck

Stay single as you are too immature and ignorant of your own feelings to be dating.

You didn't "realize" shit. You just missed the ego stroking attention. Leave dude alone. You need to figure yourself out first before screwing someone else up. kthx.

fucking air signs.

if it was for attention i wouldnt've rejected him to his face and just played him along -_- I rejected him BECAUSE it felt wrong since he treated me like royalty yet he wouldnt be getting anything back...I was also a bit wary of him since it took TWO weeks to fall for me, we weren't even friends for godsake! Also he has taurus moon...and libra venus.

Basically, hes a flirt (harmless tho) and gentleman-like thus he has women falling for him (his harem).

not to mention good-looking lol

I just didnt feel the sparks back then thats all. Just becuz a goodlooking, smart and gentleman-like guy falls for you doesnt mean you're going to feel the spark with him and fall for him...