Libra guy, ignored me, should I be direct?

Hey there. I'm a Cancer girl, attracted to a Libra guy. I know, not a wise pairing.

I only met him one day with some mutual friends. I didn't know him before. After that day, he added me on facebook and started texting me a lot, and showering me with compliments and also getting my phone number. He was wonderful to me. He called me and told me he found me attractive that day we went out and wanted to get to know me more. He also said he liked me and hope we could be together.

I never gave him a direct answer as to his question if I find him attractive too. But my signs are all positive and I think he assume I like him as I gave him back affection, and he told me that I treat him very well.

Anyway after around less than two weeks, he started to become a little distant. He said he doesn't have his phone with him often, and he's busy. He told me that he's sorry and maybe it would be better if he's the one to initiate contact when he's free. I accepted his reasons. Should I try ignoring him too and keep the messages low?

He has a girl he liked before, but who rejected him. I saw their photos on her birthday. They were sitting together but not close, the girl was trying to edge away from him in the photos. But, even after telling me he liked me and assuming I like him back, he's still commenting on her photos on how pretty/cute she is, in every new profile photo she up on Facebook.

Is this his style or what?? I admit I'm feeling kind of jealous. Is this harmless in Librans?
Should I be direct and tell him I'm feeling uncomfortable with his actions? What will his response probably be?

And, how does Librans treat long distance relationships? Will they get bored after awhile? What's happening to us?

Thanks!

BIG red flags there for me. He fancies you but wants to have regular sex with someone and in a ldr he can't. If he's just broken up with someone he's not wanting to stay celibate so he wants to see other people. That's why he doesn't want you to call - he wants things on his terms not yours. It's got nothing to do with the ex. He is not ready for a relationship. Drop all contact and find someone else. It is good that you feel uncomfortable about his actions. It shows you recognise bad behaviour when you see it.

He likes her, libras dont ignore people they really like

Thanks everyone.

What I want to ask is, why does he actually show me so much affection before? I mean, he should know what's gonna happen in a LDR. I reminded him we're far apart and he said he knows. He actually went to so much trouble to convince me nothing is going on between the girl and him, as well as sounding really sincere about everything including wanting me as a gf.
And then he disappeared.
He does come back, text me every few days, chat to me on facebook when he can. He still does. But all the attention is low now. Isn't that normal in guys, actually? LOL.

If he lost the temporary feelings for me, won't he just disappear for real? Why is he still keeping contact, and acting like nothing happened? Like he's still into me??

Thanks

Rather than try to analyse him focus on your own needs and desires. He is failing to meet your needs and trying to understand him will not remedy that. Time to find someone who is on the same page as you. He likes you, that's why he keeps you in his inner circle. He's not in love with you though.

We talked about it over the phone, I outlined our issues that are difficult to deal with.
He agreed and being the indecisive Libra, he asked me what's my opinion on the next step. But he suggested that we become good friends first, and take things slowly.

He admitted that he had not thought of the difficulties before. And since I told him about my ex hurting me before, he said he didn't want me to be sad and hurt the second time because of all the rumours about him and the girl. He agreed that without knowing each other's friends and being together more often (we're at the very early stage)

He said that we're much too far and it's too difficult for us to communicate often. He said that he really likes me, and hope our relationship can blossom into real love one day. He insists that we're still good friends and we must keep in contact often.

Is he really sincere about hoping to slowly build our relationship? Please advise, thanks everyone.
Especially thanks LibraRose. I will keep my own needs in mind. 🙂
(P.S: I have a history of analyzing people...LOL I guess because I'm curious about what's going on in people's minds)

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