Libra Male/Cancer Female

I'm a cancer female and I've been with a libra male for 5 months,
we have a regular physical relationship but he told me hes in love with someone else.
He hurt me and I want him to pay, he wants to keep the relationship going but
I never know what to expect, I 'm sure I can't trust him,. Will we have problems
down the road and should I just bail out now?

Forget about him! It was at least considerate of him being honest with you by telling you that he's in love with someone else, instead of letting it happen behind your back, however, it surely sounds like it won't work. Don't end up with a broken heart. If it were me, I'd let him go.
Mea Culpa,
Sloane

I don't understand your comment about your libra not being trustworthy. Sweetie, the libra's I know are very honest. I'm a libra, and I'll tell the truth even when I know it's going to hurt someone. Reason: I'd rather not hurt them more by lying and having them find out the truth later on. Besides, I like to live my life being true to me. It sounds to me like he's done the same thing for you. You're not listening. He told you, flat out that he loves someone else. No amount of your whip appeal, is going to change that. So, you decide. Do you want to continue to have a physical relationship with him, without any real commitment. Or do you want to leave him alone and find someone whose heart is not tied to another. It's funny. We, as women, hurt ourselves when we don't listen to what the men, in our lives, are saying to us. Don't lie to yourself. He's not.

I think what the Cancer female has told us is pretty straight forward and honest. She said that the guy she is seeing has told her that he's seeing other women (or a woman) and yet, he said he still wants to see her? I mean, come on, it's either the other women or her. She said she was hurt by him--I would be too and I think most women would be also. I'm a Libra also, but signs aside, regardless of what one's sign is, I don't think it's right to tell someone you're dating and serious with that you're interested in other women. It's the grand "shove off". If he saw these other women behind her back, then it would really be a mess.

I need to make a correction: I don't think it's right for him to tell Cancer female that he's interested in other women yet he still wants to see her. Does this man have any scruples? Does he have relationship morals?

He's a man, first. You should always be greatful to find a man who tells you the truth, despite the pain. This doesn't sound like a serious relationship to me. What is sounds like to me is a man telling a woman he wants someone else, but as long as she's willing to service him and meet his needs (sexual), he'll accept the booty call. Mind you, the minute the other woman comes around, Cancer female is history. This is not suprising. It happens all of the time. Many men play this kind of game. I don't blame them for wanting to get laid. We, as women, are the feeble minded ones when we refuse to listen to what men are saying. Men and women are different. Always have been and always will be. Thank God. Many men would do the same as Libra man, only they wouldn't bother expressing their true intent. I admire a man who is honest, especially when he doesn't have to be. Cancer female is so caught up with this guy he could've dragged it on more a lengthy period, leaving her on the side lines wondering what's going on. I still say to judge this man as being a loser is wrong. He has scruples. The question of scruples should've been posed to Cancer female. This has got to be a purely sexual encounter, for him to handle her this way. I can't believe the signs weren't always there. Afterall, he didn't say he liked/had a crush on another. He said he loved another woman. That goes a long way with me. As far as him choosing between the two, he doesn't have to because he's already chosen the other woman. That was the purpose of him telling Cancer female about her. Now Cancer female has to decide whether she wants to be nothing more than Libra male's booty call. If it were me, it wouldn't take much thought. Parting thoughts: If you were passing a burning building, would you walk into the inferno? Sometimes, we have to use our God-given senses to assist us in every day decision-making. I hope I'm not sounding harsh, but I think sometimes that's exactly what is needed, when people refuse to deal with reality. You can chose not to deal with reality, but it ain't going nowhere. Good luck!

Bail out now! I haven't read the other responses to your post yet (sorry guys I will though after I type this to you), but don't wait!

You deserve somebody who can love you and give you their heart. He's a player and from what you're saying, it sounds like he can't take love seriously.

THANK -YOU!!! (For getting my point)