Hi i'm new on here and you're all going to think i'm mental i had this text friend who happened to be Libra. It all started back in January of this year i had a serious accident several months before and was away sick from work. One day i had this phone call it was a wrong # within a few seconds of this call ending i had a text message saying i had a gorgeous voice of course i ignored it about a minute after that i had another message saying the same thing. What did i do? stupid me replied, to cut a long story short we had been texting everyday for nearly 3 months. He promised to come down and meet me once i was better,never happened he then asked me to visit him i couldn't things then turned nasty i said some hurtful things he told me never to text again the thing is even though i never met him i can't get him out my head. This man made me feel so wonderful he even said he had fallen in love with me, i took it all in. I know it's mad but i miss him so much. I haven't heard from him now for 2 weeks i shan't contact him again but part me is hoping he will text again. Does this sound like a typical Libra man? Do you think once he has calmed down he will contact me again?
Libra male text friend

Sadly texting is addictive...it makes us feel wanted or know that we are being thought of throughout the day. Look around and you'll see everyone always checking there phones to see if someone is thinking about them. I've been out at clubs and will see almost every person in the room checking these little devices and not just once but several times throughout the night.
But in reality...you've never met this person, have you seen a pic of each other? This is so random he could be anyone...it might as well be an 0800 sex number from someone that will boost your self esteem or tell you all you want to hear. You are at this stage addicted to "the texting attention" but this person could be married with kids or a psychopathic killer or ANYBODY! I would think move on, you feel like you have been in a love affair so it's not easy but probably best for yourself.
But in reality...you've never met this person, have you seen a pic of each other? This is so random he could be anyone...it might as well be an 0800 sex number from someone that will boost your self esteem or tell you all you want to hear. You are at this stage addicted to "the texting attention" but this person could be married with kids or a psychopathic killer or ANYBODY! I would think move on, you feel like you have been in a love affair so it's not easy but probably best for yourself.
yeah i know you are right sweethearts but i am finding it difficult at the moment. We did exchange photos that's if it was his pic. He said he wanted to settle down but thinking about it i find it strange that he had only had 1 serious relationship and that was for two years and he has told me lies i have caught him out a few times. I think maybe he knew i was vulnerable and took advantage.
you are so right starsapphire but as i said i had a serious accident neary died. This so called text friend came into my life when i was at my lowest ebb i didn't think i would be able to walk again. That's where the vulnerability comes in. Believe you me if this had happened middle of last year i would have told him where to go.
Thanks starssaphire i feel better already, i will heed your advice, if he should contact me again i will ignore him.
sorry put too many s's in.
and not enough p's!!!
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