dalaryius
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Libra man/Cancer woman(bestfriend situation)
nah. cancer chicks are usually pretty slutty. usually i'd suspect she was trying to get you into a relationship by sleeping with you, but the way she's acting maybe not. or maybe it's a game. they're pretty insane.
the thing you need to know about cancer females is that they all go through some kind of "rebellious" phase. usually it involves being really slutty (especially in ways that are very demeaning to them) and doing a lot of drugs/booze. it's worse in some than others.
if she's going through that phase now, you def need to cut your losses, unless you want her to make you totally miserable.
also, this is almost always an awful match. it can feel good at first though, because cancer women's displays tend to make libra guys feel like they matter to cancer. you need to know they're just crazy. lock them in an empty room for a day, and they'll probably show all the same emotions to the fucking walls.
look up borderline personality disorder. they seem to all fucking have it.
the thing you need to know about cancer females is that they all go through some kind of "rebellious" phase. usually it involves being really slutty (especially in ways that are very demeaning to them) and doing a lot of drugs/booze. it's worse in some than others.
if she's going through that phase now, you def need to cut your losses, unless you want her to make you totally miserable.
also, this is almost always an awful match. it can feel good at first though, because cancer women's displays tend to make libra guys feel like they matter to cancer. you need to know they're just crazy. lock them in an empty room for a day, and they'll probably show all the same emotions to the fucking walls.
look up borderline personality disorder. they seem to all fucking have it.
curious visitor...You couldn't be more wrong!
Posted by curious visitor
nah. cancer chicks are usually pretty slutty. usually i'd suspect she was trying to get you into a relationship by sleeping with you, but the way she's acting maybe not. or maybe it's a game. they're pretty insane.
the thing you need to know about cancer females is that they all go through some kind of "rebellious" phase. usually it involves being really slutty (especially in ways that are very demeaning to them) and doing a lot of drugs/booze. it's worse in some than others.
if she's going through that phase now, you def need to cut your losses, unless you want her to make you totally miserable.
also, this is almost always an awful match. it can feel good at first though, because cancer women's displays tend to make libra guys feel like they matter to cancer. you need to know they're just crazy. lock them in an empty room for a day, and they'll probably show all the same emotions to the fucking walls.
look up borderline personality disorder. they seem to all fucking have it.
^^Agreed.
Mocha
Posted by Theultra79
Did you try asking her to be exclusive? Are you waiting on her to ask you? That probably won't happen. Maybe she's becoming frustrated waiting on you to ask her to be with you. From the way you explained things, you should have done that already.
If you did not ask her to be exclusive or at least talk about what happens now, she may have disappeared because she feels used. Might seem to her that you are not wanting to take it to the next level.
Um yeah, sex is a very big deal for us. It brings out extremely sincere emotions towards the other person so in order to go further, she needs to know you are emotionally invested too bc whether we meant to or not, due to the repeated sexing, she is now attached (post-coital attachment is our forte) and that's scary to her bc you guys didn't even talk about things. We hate grey areas, we need to know the bottom line ASAP. If feelings are/can become mutual, you need to let her know...And by "know" I mean, BOTH- words and actions.
When it comes to having our emotions on the line, we are so cautious and insecure that our partner isn't on the same level emotionally or worse, that he may never get there, so we would rather distance ourselves now before we get hurt. We need reassurance...like constantly....in the beginning...middle...heck, throughout is your safest bet lol.
So like I said, sex isn't just sex to us so if you only see that from her then you need to spare her the heartbreak bc she's distancing now probably bc she perceives the possibility of that happening. We are very intuitive. We sense things before you even realize it yourself. If you want her around, start being sincere, genuine, open, honest, communicative, and use that romantic nature that is present in all Libras. But make sure you do want her, bc Cancer loyalty and devotion is legit. Don't just misuse and abuse it.
When it comes to having our emotions on the line, we are so cautious and insecure that our partner isn't on the same level emotionally or worse, that he may never get there, so we would rather distance ourselves now before we get hurt. We need reassurance...like constantly....in the beginning...middle...heck, throughout is your safest bet lol.
So like I said, sex isn't just sex to us so if you only see that from her then you need to spare her the heartbreak bc she's distancing now probably bc she perceives the possibility of that happening. We are very intuitive. We sense things before you even realize it yourself. If you want her around, start being sincere, genuine, open, honest, communicative, and use that romantic nature that is present in all Libras. But make sure you do want her, bc Cancer loyalty and devotion is legit. Don't just misuse and abuse it.
Posted by curious visitor
nah. cancer chicks are usually pretty slutty. usually i'd suspect she was trying to get you into a relationship by sleeping with you, but the way she's acting maybe not. or maybe it's a game. they're pretty insane.
the thing you need to know about cancer females is that they all go through some kind of "rebellious" phase. usually it involves being really slutty (especially in ways that are very demeaning to them) and doing a lot of drugs/booze. it's worse in some than others.
if she's going through that phase now, you def need to cut your losses, unless you want her to make you totally miserable.
also, this is almost always an awful match. it can feel good at first though, because cancer women's displays tend to make libra guys feel like they matter to cancer. you need to know they're just crazy. lock them in an empty room for a day, and they'll probably show all the same emotions to the fucking walls.
look up borderline personality disorder. they seem to all fucking have it.
^^ Agreed. 🙂
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