Libra man & Gemini woman

The few other Libras I know got better as they matured and learned from their mistakes. People deserve a 2nd chance if they truly want to improve. however, since you are worried- i suggest taking it slow. What's the hurry after 20 years? We do have a small segment that gives us a bad rep! And plus Libras sometimes love being in love because it's beautiful. That's different than really loving another person. As a Gem, you do share many airy traits and thats good!

Wow, a few of us have the same story. Seems almost as if it's the same guy. lol
He seems sincere, at least I want to believe he is for your sake. I'm getting the same kind of words from mine and I want to believe he is being sincere also!!!

I hope it works out for you. I'm a sucker for romance.

Mine disappears for a few days and sometimes a week, but there's always an excuse. The longest has been nearly two weeks just recently. I know his work schedule and it's very demanding and so is mine. I know of the other personal obstacles in his life as well. If he's lying about the personal obstacles, then karma should come back and take a big bite out of his ass. There are certain things you just don't lie about!!! I believe him and couldn't imagine him saying some of these things if they weren't true. That would just make him an inconsiderate monster and I've never known him to be that way. I would like to just come out and say what the personal obstacles are, but I feel it's his personal stuff and I'm betraying his trust if I do.

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First, I'm glad to have found this place. Hopefully someone can help me understand this Libra man. Just when I think I can read him, I'm confused again. Second, I'm a Gemini woman if that makes any difference.

We were friends in school and recently reconnected by way of Facebook after many years. There was an immediate, intense connection. Talking to each other about anything and everything just comes so naturally. It's progressed to where we try to see each other as time allows. I have a busy career and so does he as well as some other personal obstacles in our lives.

He is sweet, affectionate, handsome, and very grounded. He is so passionate with his words and touches that it makes me crazy. He is the type of man I could easily fall for. I feel we are VERY well connected in so many different ways it's kind of eery! The problem is that he disappears and reappears. Sometimes it's just a few days or maybe a little longer. He says things to me that make me *think* he is interested, but then little or no contact until he reappears. Then it's "I miss you" and "When can I see you?" I've never asked or demanded excuses as to why the "disappearing" act. He offers it saying that he's been busy at work (please note that I've not made any demands on him whatsoever). I really am easy to get along with and not too hard to please.

Some of the things he says...
He call me sweetie or babe or sexy.
I like you. I like being with you and spending time with you. I'm 40 years old and this seems a little odd to me. What does it mean? I don't know what to say, "Gee, I kinda like you too!" WTH?
When he reappears he asks if I miss him, if I still want him, that he needs to kiss me and touch me. When we do see each other briefly, he holds my hand, kisses me on the head, kisses me so deeply, and engulfs me with his hugs. Who wouldn't want this type of affection? He gets aroused just by me touching and kissing him. He definitely wants to have sex. He wants to hold me, make me feel good, do all of these amazingly passionate things with me. Sounds really good huh? Call me crazy, but these words make me think he would want to try to see me more and not disappear on me. I feel like I'm on an emotional roller coaster ride with nobody operating the ride. I'm not sure I want to get off either. Maybe he just wants sex and is pouring on the charm.

Any constructive advice from a Libra male perspective is appreciated.

Everthing is almost perfect with the exception of the communication. The funniest thing is that I don't think he even knows he's doing it! He just contacts me and starts up where we left off in the last conversation I had with him as if no time has passed. lol I think 3 days go by and maybe it feels to him like he just talked to me. That's how I ended up here asking these people to help me understand him. He's F-I-N-E and I don't know if I want to give up just yet.

Posted by GeminiDahl
Dang Micha our stories are very similar. My Libra just turned 41 and I get the same sweet words from him. Now I'm getting a bit paranoid ; )

There are a few others ones too. I know I don't know you, but I want everything to work out for you both!!! (:

Posted by LibraLuv

Posted by Micha
Wow, a few of us have the same story. Seems almost as if it's the same guy. lol
He seems sincere, at least I want to believe he is for your sake. I'm getting the same kind of words from mine and I want to believe he is being sincere also!!!

I hope it works out for you. I'm a sucker for romance.

@Micha... hahaha. LOL.. Whew *****wipes brow***** Well we can count mine out...I'm the Libra, he's the gem. I too am a sucka for romance... But I'm so thankful that you all shared your stories because, it definitely let me know that the feelings were real and now I'm pretty sure he felt them too. At least we still have our friendship and I'll cherish that forever. So since mine did not work out because I ran, kicking myself right now... I certainly have high hopes for both, you and GeminiDahl's relationships.

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GeminiDahl and I aren't seeing the same guy either...what a relief! lmao
I love these stories though. They warm my heart and give me hope.
What gets me the most is the WORDS these guys use. All the words are almost identical. lol
I still can't imagine getting that mental/physical with someone you don't like or aren't sure about. I couldn't do it. There has to REALLY be something there for me to get to that point. I didn't contact mine, but he's resurfaced and I'll be seeing him on Sunday.

Oh, and never say never! It might work out for you too.
I'm still on guard and will continue to be until I know for sure where he stands.

Dang, I should have specified "if he ever gets divorced."

Posted by GeminiDahl
UPDATE for anyone interested. I didn't expect this but I met with the Libra from 20 years ago and their was no longer a spark on my part. I am a bit stunned because I have thought about him for 20 years! But I didn't feel it face to face. He was nice and very handsome but he was also very possessive. He actually chided me for looking around the bar when we were out and was constantly "testing me", those were his words not mine. I don't know enough about astrology to know if these are Libra traits but he was massively possessive and treated me like I was his marked territory or property. Freaked me right out.

I was pulling for you and hoping to hear better. BUT, at least you do know he was sincere with his words and it helps me with mine knowing that yours was sincere. At least you found out now rather than later after investing alot more time.