Geminis : You ever dated a Libra OR an Aquarius?

So have you ever dated Libras or Aquas... or both?
How did you relationship go with them? Why did it end? ( you don't have to answer this part if it's too personal ) lol

Out of the 2 who do you think you have more chemistry with?

Tell me all about it 😄

i've never dated an aqua. there's really no reason for that. i'm with a libra now and we have been together for 3 years. it's rocky and exciting, it's loving and hectic, it has it's ups and downs. but over all, it's good. we have really good times together.. 🙂

Posted by misslissa
i've never dated an aqua. there's really no reason for that. i'm with a libra now and we have been together for 3 years. it's rocky and exciting, it's loving and hectic, it has it's ups and downs. but over all, it's good. we have really good times together.. 🙂

really?
my relationships with Libras never last because they find me too scattered and flighty lol.

are u attracted to Aquas though?
as even friends ..

yea, my libra says the same thing and it drives him nuts lol!

i've only known 3 aquas in my life... one i was attracted to but it just didn't work out. one is a past friend that i've lost contact with and the last one is a friend now.

Never dated any of them. But I do realize that aquariuses are atractive 😉

I dated a Libra for 4 years. I think it ended because I just kind of felt like he was a big kid. I got tired of being the grown-up in the relationship (I'm a GEMINI- I reserve the right to be the eternally youthful one!) I don't respect a man when it's that sort of relationship. Sex was lackluster, too (and for the same reason).

Plus, he was soooooo sloooooooow about EVERYTHING. Have you ever been running late for a plane? He was once TWO DAYS late for a flight! I think and move quickly, not glacially, and was continually frustrated. I have no ill feelings toward him, though. I still think he's a great guy and we love each other very much as friends. When it was good, it was very good. He was fair, communicative, thoughtful, intelligent, and kind.

I've dated a few Aquas. IMO we're too similar in many ways, which doesn't create enough tension. It's comfortable but not challenging. It's like sitting on a couch eating doritos and watching Maury...it's easy, it has its fun moments, but there isn't a lot of growth. In other words, we both stay to our comfort zones (our heads) and barely venture into that forbidden territory (our hearts). Too risky. Neither one will make that first move, without the other sticking its neck out first - stalemate-so what began with great potential and fanfare ends with a whimper. It's no surprise that Gems + Aqua are likely to divorce, if they even make it to the altar. On a bright note, when it's over there's no animosity, and it evolves into friendship.

A half a year after my statement above, we broke up. *shrugs* Had nothimg to do with astrology. Then I met up with the aqua ex. We've been together for 2 years now. 🙂 I couldn't be happier!!

*nothing

Well im a Gemini lady and I am currently dating a Libra man. When we first started dating he cheated on me with one person and he was friends with this other woman but after I cut up on his ass he drop them both. Now that everything has blown over we talk more, He still says he love me, I am having a hard time giving him my full heart and love again. But overall he is very loving and he gives me kisses. And tells me he loves me all the time, I really like that about him. As far as Aqua's goes I never dated one, but they are cool people as friends. My daughter is an Aqua and we get along really good.

Posted by angiedbc457
Well im a Gemini lady and I am currently dating a Libra man. When we first started dating he cheated on me with one person and he was friends with this other woman but after I cut up on his ass he drop them both. Now that everything has blown over we talk more, He still says he love me, I am having a hard time giving him my full heart and love again. But overall he is very loving and he gives me kisses. And tells me he loves me all the time, I really like that about him. As far as Aqua's goes I never dated one, but they are cool people as friends. My daughter is an Aqua and we get along really good.

You should check where his COCK when he says he loves you. Libras Aquas and Geminis are serial flirts but when it comes to infidelity Libras overtake Gemini and Aquarius. We Gemini strongly believe constancy in relationship (I think thats the reason am still single). I got Libra as friends, good company to have chats and go out but they fibs a lot, clingy and emotional when compared to Aquas. For me Aquarius are the easiest one to deal with.

@geminidude What u mean check where his chicken is when he say he loves me? Im a flirt I do admit that but flirting and sleeping with someone is totally different. I agree with constancy in the relationship, and yep they do fib a lot, clingy, and emotional I totally agree with u cuz that's how this Libra is that I am with. Now I can't seem to run into a Aqua man I would love to date one. They make the best of friends.

@angiedbc457 Seek and ye shall find.

@geminidude Give me a little bit more on what your saying.

Both. Libras come into my life frequently. One very serious (six years) and one very casual, but persistently "around" all the same.

In fact most common reoccurring signs I think have been Libra, Aries and Capricorn of men I've been attracted to, had sex with, or had a relationship with.

Been dating an Aquarius off and on for about half a year, really like him, but am not close enough to him to determine whether or not we'd drive each other insane if we had more of a day-to-day constant interaction, and overall it's casual because he's a big pile of corn flakes.

It doesn't make me like him any less, but my mother wishes she could make a pie crust this flaky.

I think he has a lot of air in his chart, I believe I looked into it. I'm always looking for things to "ground" or "lighten" or "deepen" people in the rest of their chart, because trust me things like the placement of Moon, Venus and Rising make a very big difference.

P.S. I should probably mention here that I trust Libra more than Aquarius. Libras tend to have a very romantic, passionate streak in them, and Aquarius can be way too detached in their head space, though they are overall pretty nice people.

My mother is an Aquarius. Very nice lady. Her life is a constant whirlwind of drama. My father, who my mother divorced when I was a baby after only five years of marriage, was also an Aquarius. I didn't really know him. I talked to him on the phone once when I was 17. I think my grandfather mentioned something about paying him to stay away from me.

My Aquarius sister is a trainwreck.

I really am not so sure about this Aquarius guy I'm seeing for that reason. The sex is great, and he's really smart, but I don't think he's stable enough to ground me, and I already cannot depend on him or expect a deep commitment from him in any way, though he's kind to me and willing to give when I'm around, that is.

I think he feels easily suffocated by anyone or anything, and yet he craves familiarity and safety at the same time, so he may have some Cancer in his chart or something, or some Earth signs.

His Venus and Mars are both in Pisces and his Mars and Venus are conjunct like mine are. Maybe not so bad. He has like zero earth in his chart, maybe this accounting for lack of stable feel.

Have no idea what his rising is though, never asked him his birth time.

Maybe he has Gemini or Aquarius or Libra rising, giving him this "don't depend on me I'm nice but I'm flaky" thing. His Mercury is in Aquarius. That's probably why he's so smart.

Gemini's seem happiest with Libra's but Libra is the heart breaker.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Gemini's seem happiest with Libra's but Libra is the heart breaker.

My Libra ex and I actually broke each other's hearts. Mostly because he's very emotionally unstable. He never cheated on me, was very affectionate and told me he loved me constantly, a really good boyfriend in that regard, and the sex was great too.

But he's crazier than I am, and we can't have that. I hope the person he's with now doesn't mind "managing" him or can at least push him into psychotherapy. Because I'll always care about him, you know, it's like that, we were together for six years. I thought we were going to get married.

I'm probably never going to be happy with this Aqua I'm dating, I mean look at my list of irritating Aquarius family members, and even with his gentle, romantic Venus in Pisces, he's never going to be stable enough to make my Capricorn moon feel safe, if he decided tomorrow he would commit to me, I wonder what fresh hells of instability would be in store for me then.

I need someone very stable. I've actually made the mistake of falling hard in love with a man who was incredibly stable and constantly "there for me" and as regular as a clock even though he never promised me anything in the future.

I don't want someone whining and clinging to me, and imprisoning me, but I can't have some unstable flaky bullshit either. It makes me pretty angry and I think would incline me toward being abusive to that person, even if the only thing they did wrong was being flaky and hard to depend on.

I have to have sexual passion too of course, I wouldn't marry someone I didn't love to just be "stable" (barf) but I've never once seen proof of an incredible Aquarius ever. In my entire life.

I dated one Aqua briefly now that I remember, and we broke up after him totally shutting me out, he then begged for my forgiveness, only to cheat on me. I basically threatened his life at that point (hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me...no fuck that, it's time for you to die) ...but seriously I didn't hurt him, I just yelled at him. THEN TWO YEARS LATER AFTER I MOVED TO ANOTHER STATE HE STARTED CONTACTING ME SAYING HE MISSED ME.

That would be a no. I can't believe this guy can even take himself seriously, he's in his 30s for god's sake.

LunarMaiden I agree Im a Gemini and I am happy with my Libra but agree they are the heart breakers

Dated an Cap/Aqua cusper. First real serious boyfriend and first person I actually lived together with. This was WAY back in the day though when I was barely 16. We are still friends today. Really good guy but just even now when hes in his early 30's he still can't sit still or find a serious relationship. I guess I should talk right? Im still trying to look around for the right person. Really good guy though. Dated him for like 5 years, maybe 6. We were just too young. He was 15 and I was 16. Moved out when legal and both moved into together.

Another Aqua once I dated for like 3 months. Couldn't make a commitment to save his life. He's now in his late 30's? Id say 38 or 39 still never married. This was a few years ago. This was the guy that broke up with me over a text message. I think he strategically placed where he was once just to see how I would react I didn't take it well at all. He didn't answer his phone for almost 5 days. I freaked out (no reason why a man shouldn't contact you in a few days like that), and then proceeded to dump me because I wasn't cool with him staying over night with a lady friend of his. Which he claims "is just a friend".

Ill be honest. I don't prefer anyone that has air in venus/mars/jupiter. Mine is Taurus/Taurus/Leo. I dont put up with flighty BS esp in love or relationships. I might be air sun/rising/moon/mercury but I do make a decent commitment.

Never dated a Libra. I had a crush on one for many years and he and I were just really good friends. Never took it any farther than that. He was very like detached and just well never dated anyone. Wouldn't make a serious solid commitment to any girl. I think in the 3 years I've known him he hasnt had one gf. Mostly cause he just doesnt like attachment at all.

Im not sure how or why but Libra and Aqua don't seem very good for me. Maybe in the sun sign? But NEVER in venus/mars/jupiter and coupled with an air sun = never going to be more than just dating.

Posted by geminicandle
"I dated one Aqua briefly now that I remember, and we broke up after him totally shutting me out, he then begged for my forgiveness, only to cheat on me. I basically threatened his life at that point (hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me...no fuck that, it's time for you to die) ...but seriously I didn't hurt him, I just yelled at him. THEN TWO YEARS LATER AFTER I MOVED TO ANOTHER STATE HE STARTED CONTACTING ME SAYING HE MISSED ME."

LMFAO @ "no, fuck that, it's time for you to die", I can imagine you yelling at him, telling him this. His wittle feelings were probably hurt. Aw.

But seriously Marmotini, your stories are entertaining. They remind me why geminis should not date other air signs. Of course, we should not date water signs either.

OMG story of my life. Why does that always happen to me too? Like oh gee years later its like OH NOES I MADE A MISTAKE! I tell them to fuck off too. I get soooooo mad about that! Im glad you told him to get bent!

misslissa Tell me how do u get along with your Libra and what's your sign if your a Gemini tell me How do u deal with him

MissPechTwoPointZero I wish I knew what level he is on cuz I don't understand why he got to have multiple women in his life. And not just settle for one, but if he doesn't want just one let me go and move on. Im a Gem and he is a Libra.

Posted by misslissa
i've never dated an aqua. there's really no reason for that. i'm with a libra now and we have been together for 3 years. it's rocky and exciting, it's loving and hectic, it has it's ups and downs. but over all, it's good. we have really good times together.. 🙂

What the HELL... I was with a Libra for three years on and off. The above described or relationship to the t! But I can be one cold yet ICY gem so I began to push him away. And there was a GREEDY cancer just waiting in the wings. Now, he's in the CANCER grip and he's still calling.

I'm at the brink of breaking up with my aqua because he is MIA again for a good couple of days now. Just kept liking my fb posts. Oh well. I need stability. Gawd. But too stable like virgo also irks me. I guess, it's best for me to be alone than be bothered.

Aqua's cheat more than we do apparently..

Well, just for updating-sake:

The libra and I didn't work out... Too many issues, too many lies, too many manipulations....

Now, I'm with an aqua. I wouldn't say everything is easy-breezy, but he and I are much more compatible, than the libra and I. Best friends and lovers.... We talk, not yell. We compromise, jot demand. We give to each other more than we take. We respect each other! 🙂

*not

I can relate to you Whale09 I am currently into a Libra and that is exactly how our relationship has panned out he is hot and cold but i have found ways on how to deal with his behaviour and leave him wanting more but also making sure he knows that I care and I am still interested.

Dated a 2 Libras; involved with 5 Aquarius-- married the last one. Both Libra's were selfish. All the Aqua's just loved me to death it was almost at first sight with each one! Funny, it always took awhile for each of them (except for 1) to grow on me...loll!

So far All I've dated were Aries men. I've had a crush on a Libra man before and it was obvious he felt the same way. He tried to make me jealous and it was a huge turn off so I had to drop him.