Posted by amethyst2002
I'm not a Libra chick, but I think generally, it's kinda meh. Just sends off the impression that you don't have the balls to do it face to face. Comes off as way too passive, but that's me.
However, if you put the message as something like, "We've both been busy and I've been meaning to ask you this- could I get your phone number?" or something to that extent.
I think it just sends across a better impression if you were to ask her face to face, though. :/
Not a Libra perspective, but more like a female perspective overall. *shrugs*
Posted by LibraSid
Libras are passive, take charge. I saw a post you made where she sounded into you, looks from across the room and stuff. If you all have been talking now ask her out somewhere. Don't just go for a phone number. Make plans and invite her.
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by LibraSid
Libras are passive, take charge. I saw a post you made where she sounded into you, looks from across the room and stuff. If you all have been talking now ask her out somewhere. Don't just go for a phone number. Make plans and invite her.click to expand
Agreed.
@ OP- I KNOW that YOU aren't trying to be all passive, just saying that you may want to rethink this approach because that's the impression it can send across.
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by size zero superheroPosted by amethyst2002
I'm not a Libra chick, but I think generally, it's kinda meh. Just sends off the impression that you don't have the balls to do it face to face. Comes off as way too passive, but that's me.
However, if you put the message as something like, "We've both been busy and I've been meaning to ask you this- could I get your phone number?" or something to that extent.
I think it just sends across a better impression if you were to ask her face to face, though. :/
Not a Libra perspective, but more like a female perspective overall. *shrugs*
Too true.
Seems as if you don't know this girl well enough to be comfortable asking for her number face-to-face. Maybe you need to get acquainted a bit better. When you KNOW you're ready and if you use good timing, it won't seem weird to her and it won't be awkward for you.
He never said he had a problem with face to face, just has been busy. That's the IMPRESSION he sends across to her if he messages her via FB, though.click to expand
Posted by FieryAries9
yea that's true I really am not under confident i'm just more cautious....
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