libras help

to all the libras in this message board, i have a question. I am a taurus/gemini. I love my boyfriend with all my heart(hes a libra). But at times when i need him and to be by his side when im having a hard time or having problems..he just kinda runs off somewhere else. He asks me wuts worng and such but towards the end he needs to either go to work or wutevers. And im fine with it but damn sometimes u need the one who means the most to u by ur side u kno? He does try to kno wuts wrong with me but its hard for me to open up, i cant really express my true feelings when im going through s*** and another reason why i cant tell him how i feel and such is because his opinion matters the most to me so im afraid of wut he might say. He says he loves me and everything..and i kno it too but soetimes it just seems like he doesnt really take up the time to hear me out when im having probz. And he likes doing his own thing..having a lot of space..lolz that is a libra trait isnt it? and i let him cus i understand but sometimes i miss him so much. I dont know! im not making any sense anymore

Your covering the same ground. Weren't you up on the Aqua board asking the same question—

i need a lot of advice from variety of places i can get?

I think it's rather like turning the vacuum on. The guys will take off at a dead run every time. Love or no love, they just don't like the irritation

Mine doesn't. As a matter of fact I have to use the vacuum on him. He rarely moves for anything, and he gets quit dusty. In other words, the ones you want don't want you and the one you don't want will never leave!!! Find an ugly man with money and you'll be fine.!!! Then you can always get something on the side!!!

I have to admit I think you have something there, but personally I'd rather be single as to have somebody in my bed that I wasn't in love with. You can always make enough money to survive, then if that special one does accidently stumble onto you, you're free to be with him. Being by yourself has it's rewards, too.

What about protection?? Aren't scared being all by yourself?? And who said we sleep together. He is more or less a body guard!!

I don't want to just survive!! I've done that for love and it was nice, but now I like to be comfortable. Once wrong with that. And I bring in more money than he does. I just can't live alone; it is to frightening to be by myself. I have my dogs, but when they start to bark in the middle of the night, I get terrified. A couple of times I was so scared I slept in the car until someone came home!!! I never go out at night. I'm always on high alert and I have plenty of reason to be.

I think I have some issues as far as fear. I have always been like this, even as a child. It has saved my life more then once. When I did go to get professional help, the shrink told me I should be glad I'm like this. He told me there are too many people who don't pay attention to their surroundings and those are the ones that get raped or worse yet, killed!! My biggest nightmare is to be hurt.