NEED HELP WITH LIBRA MAN!!!

So we've known each other for a while but only recently (1 month) started talking. We've exchanged phone numbers and talked/ texted a lot and gone on one date. But aside from that and work we don't really talk, how do I know if he likes me?

Lol. A month is in no way long enough to tell. However if you want to know if he likes you then you can try texting and calling outside of work and see how he responds. Try reaching out just to see how his day is going, or what he likes and stuff; spark up a conversation. Watch for his reaction towards you. If he gives you a nonchalant, cool demeanor or blows you off saying he's busy then I would take that as he only wants a friendship not a courtship. Because when you??re looking to court someone, you make time for them, I don't care you just do. I know doctors and nurses that make times for the ones they truly want to, it's just a natural instinct. You want them, you go for them.

He may enjoy your company but that may be as far as it goes. I feel Libra??s are not this hard to figure out when they are really into you, unless they are unsure of how you feel about them or where they stand with you. If you are stand-offish he will be too. If you are nonchalant and act like you don't care, he will give you the same in return. If you don't text him, he won't text you. That's just how we operate. You get what you put out. That goes double when we really like you because we really, and I mean REALLY HATE to feel like we like someone more than they like us. That balance that we strive for is killer.

Posted by pinklibra
Lol. A month is in no way long enough to tell. However if you want to know if he likes you then you can try texting and calling outside of work and see how he responds. Try reaching out just to see how his day is going, or what he likes and stuff; spark up a conversation. Watch for his reaction towards you. If he gives you a nonchalant, cool demeanor or blows you off saying he's busy then I would take that as he only wants a friendship not a courtship. Because when you??re looking to court someone, you make time for them, I don't care you just do. I know doctors and nurses that make times for the ones they truly want to, it's just a natural instinct. You want them, you go for them.

He may enjoy your company but that may be as far as it goes. I feel Libra??s are not this hard to figure out when they are really into you, unless they are unsure of how you feel about them or where they stand with you. If you are stand-offish he will be too. If you are nonchalant and act like you don't care, he will give you the same in return. If you don't text him, he won't text you. That's just how we operate. You get what you put out. That goes double when we really like you because we really, and I mean REALLY HATE to feel like we like someone more than they like us. That balance that we strive for is killer.

Dead On + 200

Throw him a cheesy pick up line. His response will tell you every thing you want to know. Something silly and fun, suggestive but not overly vulgar.

"If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me"?

"I'll be Burger King, you be McDonald's... I'll have it my way, and you'll be loving it"

"If a fat man puts you in a bag tonight don't worry, I told Santa I wanted you for Christmas."

Posted by pinklibra
Lol. A month is in no way long enough to tell. However if you want to know if he likes you then you can try texting and calling outside of work and see how he responds. Try reaching out just to see how his day is going, or what he likes and stuff; spark up a conversation. Watch for his reaction towards you. If he gives you a nonchalant, cool demeanor or blows you off saying he's busy then I would take that as he only wants a friendship not a courtship. Because when you??re looking to court someone, you make time for them, I don't care you just do. I know doctors and nurses that make times for the ones they truly want to, it's just a natural instinct. You want them, you go for them.

He may enjoy your company but that may be as far as it goes. I feel Libra??s are not this hard to figure out when they are really into you, unless they are unsure of how you feel about them or where they stand with you. If you are stand-offish he will be too. If you are nonchalant and act like you don't care, he will give you the same in return. If you don't text him, he won't text you. That's just how we operate. You get what you put out. That goes double when we really like you because we really, and I mean REALLY HATE to feel like we like someone more than they like us. That balance that we strive for is killer.

Thank you for this in depth insight. From the sounds of it he IS into me. If I don't message him he will say good morning and ask about my day. When I talk to him he looks me in the eyes and he jokes around. I just wasn't sure because we only went on one date and I thought it was very light flirting.

Have you talked since the date? Does he know you are interested? If I went out with someone and wanted to see them again I would contact them...unless I wasn't sure about them. Libra's are known to be shy or afraid to pursue.

Posted by LibraSid
Have you talked since the date? Does he know you are interested? If I went out with someone and wanted to see them again I would contact them...unless I wasn't sure about them. Libra's are known to be shy or afraid to pursue.

We have talked every day since, but it is general talk and very little almost non existent flirting but it has been every day even just to say good morning. When I don't say anything on purpose, he will send me a text to say good morning. So I thought there may be some interest, and he said he definitely wanted to do it again after the date but hasn't asked me. And when we went out, I asked him, so I didn't want to ask again and seem desperate, but I really want to without it being a turn off to him if he is interested. He is very shy, but when we are face to face he smiles and talks up a storm which I really like. Also, when he sees me at work his face does light up, so I think he is interested, but then I wonder if it is a smile because he sees me as a friend. And our conversations are very friend-zone-ish. I guess I am used to others who will go full force and I need to adjust to the Libra way of things and be patient.

No, don't be patient ask him again. I know it's against all those rules people have but fuck it. He sounds interested but maybe awkward or shy. If you aren't gonna begrudge him for that than you should ask again. If his shyness is a deal breaker for you (and it is for some, that's fine) then let it go. While it will improve once he's positive about you, he'll always be what he is.

If this is me, the talking everyday is a sure sign of interest. I will talk to anyone but I don't seek out and say "hey you didn't text me this morning" to just anyone. It sounds like the rejection thing libra's are famous for. sure it's normally the guys job to 'risk it' and ask, but he very well may not for a long time.

Posted by LibraSid
Throw him a cheesy pick up line. His response will tell you every thing you want to know. Something silly and fun, suggestive but not overly vulgar.

"If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me"?

"I'll be Burger King, you be McDonald's... I'll have it my way, and you'll be loving it"

"If a fat man puts you in a bag tonight don't worry, I told Santa I wanted you for Christmas."

I stand by my original post.

Posted by LibraSid
No, don't be patient ask him again. I know it's against all those rules people have but fuck it. He sounds interested but maybe awkward or shy. If you aren't gonna begrudge him for that than you should ask again. If his shyness is a deal breaker for you (and it is for some, that's fine) then let it go. While it will improve once he's positive about you, he'll always be what he is.

If this is me, the talking everyday is a sure sign of interest. I will talk to anyone but I don't seek out and say "hey you didn't text me this morning" to just anyone. It sounds like the rejection thing libra's are famous for. sure it's normally the guys job to 'risk it' and ask, but he very well may not for a long time.

In that case, I will ask again and see how it goes. I may even use that Burger King/McDonalds line, that was my favorite :-)
Thank you for the advice, hopefully it will work.