Please HELP ME LIBRAS!!

Ok so here it is. I have known this Libra dude for about 2 years now. Im not the average girl.. I very masculine actually. Let me start with describing myself. I play guitar, softball, pool, poker, in a hardcore band, and Im not afraid to make any first moves lol. However, I have only been with one guy* (if u know what I mean). Yet, Ive had alot of boyfriends.. just not that sexual right away unless I know you well off 1st. So now I go back to the libra guy. He is very* attractive, and we get along so well. Finally one day when we are driving back from the casino he tells me he likes me more than a friend. I have always been attracted to him, but for some reason I AM SO SHY when it comes to this libra guy? I kinda just smiled and brushed it off like a buddy joke. So anyway, I txt him the next day saying that I felt the same. Well ever since that day, butter has gone DOWN HILL!! By the way.. I am a gemini. So natrually Im attracted to him. Everytime we hang out now its with his friends except for two times where I slept over his house (in the same bed). We didnt do anything but cuddle for like 5 min and than fell asleep, BOTH times. We have kissed only 1 time.. and it was in front of his friends at a basketball game. Other than that .. things havent been really progressing! Over the weekend we got into a fight because his friend was trying to get with me at his party meanwhile all I did was push him away and wait for The Libra guy to come and spend time with me. The only reason why I went there was for the libra. So I left bcuz I was tired of trying so hard. I dont get it? Now I try and put myself out there and he doesnt even budge?? So after I left I went to go play pool.. and saw this cancer guy that I used to date. I didnt want to look at my phone bcuz I knew that the LIbra was prob texting me. But eventually I gave in to check my phone. HE BLEW UP MY PHONE! Come back blah blah .. sleep over... I miss you. And I was too drunk to drive so I didnt. I didnt text him for the whole next day, and than later that night he text me some cop out. " You left your shoes at my house".. So I txt bak "Just leave em there Ill pik them up sometime" Than the next day I didnt text him, and he txt me again " Have you talked to so & so".. anbd In reply "No, whats up?" and that was that. Than the next day he flips out and is like.. whats the deal? Where have u been? I just explained exactly what it was, I didnt want to txt him cuz I was busy. Its not like we r together*

The reason why I am posting this.. is because I want to know whats up with him? Is he gay, a virgin, bi, or just an idiot? He dated this one girl who was a hoe lol.. and he never took her out or anything.. he broke up with her because he found out she was a hoe.. she was VERY pretty but .. a hoe.. lol. Anyways.. I dont know what to do? Now he is saying I dont want to rush things that is why I havent made a move.. but I just dont know.. How can I tell him to grow up and just be my man.. Are you strong enough to be my man?? Sheryl Crow...

Libra's and Gem's go great...I feel Gem's come on too strong in the beginning and it kinda make Libra's take a few steps back! Sound like he like you, just act aloof and go with the flow.

This is me on my other name.. sorry.. I lost that password. Typical gem. Anyways.. yes I believe I was comin on too strong once I found out he liked me. I backed off.. and now he is coming along. Let me ask you this.. Do libras always make the 1st move? Or would they rather you make it? Because he saying to me.. he never stopped me from kissing him. However i NEVER tried.. should I try? We only tap kiss one time..

there is nothing masculine about you, so I wouldn't use that word.

Thats true.. I ment I hang with the dudes more.. I suppose. Yes he is crzy.. idk what to do??

He is 23 btw... should I just let it go.. ? I think Ill go with the flow..

GuitarGoddess you sound aggressive and straight forward, I'm the same way. But...in the beginning allow him to make most of the moves so you wont be disappionted. For now just be playful with him shake him up.. Libra's love that playful stuff...

He's 23 and you? Dont scare him, lol..

I am 19. This is true, I am fighthing rejection. Yesterday I asked him y he hadnt made a move. Hes like.. I never stopped you* FROM making a move. And Im like .. thats bcuz I never tried. So anyway, I went to his house and we were on his bed watching TV. I went in for the kiss bcuz he shut the TV off and we were just laying in silence.. and then half way to his lips I gave OUT! So I kissed his neck instead.. lol. And then he faced me and I turned the other way. He could have met me half way at leasttt. But no, so than we got into a little fight about something and I walked out and left. Then He txt me calling me a sap. Im like why am I a sap? And hes like.. I thought you were goin to kiss me .. I waited and then you didnt. Im like, you cant always get what you want. Sometimes you have to meet half way. Its like he wants me to take the 1st move, I could.. but its diff with this guy. Im way too shy.

Let it go for now and go with the flow. He's 23. He knows how you feel and that should be enough for a MAN his age to have enough courage to kiss you FIRST. Afterall, he's the one who told you how he felt and got this all started and that took a lot of courage. Let him make the first move! Then when he does.......melt him with a really great kiss!! He'll be coming back for more.

you guys are right. Im gonna do it.

Ok so basically.. I hung out with Mr. Libra on friday, the night when I went for the kiss and then chicken out. So anyways, the next night he was trying to take off so we could hang out. .but he couldnt get off work. That was okay though because my cancer friend wanted to go out that night. I went with him and our friends, and my sister. On the way to the highway I stopped at the gas station closest 2 my house. I was really dressed up, black high heels, lip ring, nose pierce, bebe dress, etc. So I TOLD MR LIBRA to text me when he got off and he did. I was pulling up to get a water and I looked at my phone. I text him back saying I was going to slp. I didnt want him to know I was going out bcuz I was going to hang out with Mr Cancer and he doesnt really like him. However, Mr libra and I arent together and I wouldnt do anything to jeaporadize us getting together. It was just a white lie, to keep things on an even keel. Anyways, so I txt him gnite and next thing I know I hear some1 scream "hey loser" Im like... O.. M...G! It was Libra! AHHH .. I almost pissed where I was standing ahahahah! So I walked over to him and he was like whats up what you doing? Im like.. well my sis and I were going to go out 2nite but every1 wanted to go really far away and we decided just to go back home. So hes like oh thats cool. Thank god I wasnt caught with a redbull, he would have known I was going out. lol. So anways my sis is like cracking up in the car and Im like shut up. So he was like ok well come 2 my basketball game on monday. So Im like.. okay whatever. Then he kisses me?? wait.. yea hE FREAKIN KISSED ME .. like nothing?! And Im like? Okay.. lol. So whatever that was nice. Yesterday I went to his game, and there was other girls there. The other girls were like GO " " about MR LIBRA.. like cheering him on and what not. I was like aw, he has lil fans haha. So when the game was over I didnt expect him to come over to me bcuz those girls were like LIBRA come here bla blah. I was like if he goes there Ill be so mad. But, he didnt .. he came right up to me all smiling and hugged me .. again. WHERE THE HELL DID THIS COME FROM .. i thought to myself?! It was nice, he showed me his schedule for the next week and that was that. He told me he would call me later.. but he never did. Instead he txt me?? why??!!

I mean do you ever talk on the phone with him? He might have texted becuz he's kinda shy! Just relax...LOL...That's one thing that really bug me with Gem/Libra connections, Gem is so impatient--other than that you guys will vibe fine.