Posted this on Virgo board...any Libra opinions?

Hi everyone. I've been actively reading the virgo and libra boards to get some possible insights into what I need to do about to this particular libra guy.

We met on Facebook almost two months and we talk almost everyday. As "luck" would have it, we have similar business interest and a possible contract soon between our companies.

However, on a personal level I'm very confused. He's not the typical libra. He's not sweet. Very tempermental. Sometimes rude. He's always adding new girls as his friends on FB. I just just get the feeling he's not up front and honest. We have not met face to face and next week will be our first time. Based on what I'm reading it's doomed before it has started.

My birthday is 8/25/80 and his 9/30/76. My rising is in Leo and my moon in aquarius. My mars is in libra and Venus in cancer. His venus is in scorpio and mars in libra.

Any advice on the best way of approaching this relationship as we are talking about dating?

Heart and expectation as in...nothing will come out of it? What would you consider a normal conversation between a libra and virgo? Thanks for your help.

Well, we met for the first time on Sunday after communicating with each other through telephone, emails and texts for over two months. There was a sense of familiarity even though it was our first time meeting. The conversation flowed and we laughed and joked with each other. From the first time I got in his car, he touched my leg and my shoulder which I found odd at the time. We ended up spending a few hours together. He rubbed his leg against mine and touched my hair at the restaurant....within the first 30 minutes of meeting me.

However, he walked me back to my room and then he made a move. He tried to have sex with me and became very persistent. I told him no because we just officially met and we're not in a relationship. He told me that he's attracted to me and he likes me, so upon meeting me, it was hard for him to fight the urge. So, he left. No sex or anything but we did make out a bit. If things got too hot, I would move away. He was busy on Monday, but he did text in between asking how my day was. He also called last night and we spoke for a bit. He also text me "night" but he normally puts "night babe" so I'm not sure if he's upset.

Is there a connection? Definitely. We had the connection before meeting each other. We've also had a few "fights" and he ends up coming back in the short while we've known each other. But, right now, I'm really confused.

Part of me just feels like having sex with him, get it over and out of my system with the intent of never seeing or speaking to him again...

Any help? Advice? How should I proceed?

Posted by confused2010
Based on what I'm reading it's doomed before it has started.

Hi deary, please read back what you have written. You have the answer in your head but you still insist that you can still make a difference. Aw c'mon Virgo, we tends to analyze too much sometimes... just go with flow... 😉

hades

Leo rising? Aww... You're dying of the way he's flirting and loves the chase... but you gotta admit and remind youself you're horribly jealous when you notice he's adding new girls in FB... constantly think of this should able to help you get rid of him...

hades

Thanks everyone for your comments and opinions. I've decided to keep my dignity and focus on a relationship that is actually worth it. I met this guy again for dinner and wow, I'm glad I didn't do anything with him. He is really trouble. I told him it's best to remain as chatting buddies but there will be no future for a hook-up or a relationship. Thanks again for taking the time to read this. I appreciate it.

m glad you made the right choice confused2010... wish you plenty of luck in yer new relationship 🙂

hades

Since then, he has decided to block me from Facebook because I told him there's no future between us. After I found out about this, I told him not to contact me. However, he's still texting me and has called to which I have not responded. If he went through that to block me, then he can forget about my other contact info. I told him there's no future between us....friendship or otherwise.

Wow.. sounds pretty desperate... enjoy yer victory and dont'cha giv in... do trust me yer leo rising is a very sexy stuff... go get a better one!! 🙂

hades

totally agree with you... there's no bad signs, only bad people... LOL

hades