LibraSid
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Something in the water...
I wouldn't say I am more argumentative, more sensitive than I normally am. Taking things to heart that normally wouldn't even notice. I am more willing to cut off friends who are not giving back. I find I am drawing lines in the sand, if that makes sense.
Oddly, today I feel great. First time in almost a week.
I do think the cardinal cross is pulling at us, especially me with so many cardinal signs in my chart.
Oddly, today I feel great. First time in almost a week.
I do think the cardinal cross is pulling at us, especially me with so many cardinal signs in my chart.
Yes, my Libra has been super irritable for a few days. And we got in a HUGE and incredibly STUPID argument last night, which quickly snowballed out of control. I'm thankful most of it was via text, except for the one phone call where he told me to have his stuff packed for him by the time he got out of work - and hung up on me. (OMG I HAAAATE the Hangup Game!!!) Of course, he didn't answer my call back. But a few minutes later called me again to repeat his "request"... I told him to pack his shit himself, because I wasn't going to. He hung up again, and then began texting anew, still fighting. By this point, I seriously could not FATHOM what the hell we were fighting about anymore.. it was getting THAT crazy! It was like every little thing, every word said, was taken and twisted and thrown back at each other. The boxing gloves were OFF, and we were bare-knuckles slugging it out and getting blood everywhere! Pure insanity.
I finally regained control of my emotions (anger and hurt, mostly) and kept responding calmly and reasonably to his fury. He finally said he was worried that it was too late, that we'd gone too far, said too much. And though I agreed I was worried as well, I wondered how come he doesn't understand the Pisces Mulligan Button after this long with a Pisces? Emotionally spent, we went quiet for two hours. (Needless to say, my stomach was in knots. I mindlessly cleaned house, refusing to think.) He didn't call on his way home (he usually does) nor did he text. He just walked in, sat on our bed, petted Barakka. I was hanging clothes in the closet and too choked up to speak. He finally said, "Hello?" and I said, "Hello" without turning around. Then I pushed down, and into, and through my fears.. and I walked over to him and just wrapped my arms around him. He clutched at me, holding me tight, and eventually fell back onto the bed with me in his arms still, refusing to let go. We must have held and stroked each other for 20 minutes or more, without a word. Then he kissed me softly and said, "Baby, I don't want to lose you over something so STUPID!" ... and we were at peace once again.
I'm SO glad we had a couple hours to cool down before getting face to face! But MAN, for a few hours there.. it felt like the whole world was burning to ashes!! :o
I finally regained control of my emotions (anger and hurt, mostly) and kept responding calmly and reasonably to his fury. He finally said he was worried that it was too late, that we'd gone too far, said too much. And though I agreed I was worried as well, I wondered how come he doesn't understand the Pisces Mulligan Button after this long with a Pisces? Emotionally spent, we went quiet for two hours. (Needless to say, my stomach was in knots. I mindlessly cleaned house, refusing to think.) He didn't call on his way home (he usually does) nor did he text. He just walked in, sat on our bed, petted Barakka. I was hanging clothes in the closet and too choked up to speak. He finally said, "Hello?" and I said, "Hello" without turning around. Then I pushed down, and into, and through my fears.. and I walked over to him and just wrapped my arms around him. He clutched at me, holding me tight, and eventually fell back onto the bed with me in his arms still, refusing to let go. We must have held and stroked each other for 20 minutes or more, without a word. Then he kissed me softly and said, "Baby, I don't want to lose you over something so STUPID!" ... and we were at peace once again.
I'm SO glad we had a couple hours to cool down before getting face to face! But MAN, for a few hours there.. it felt like the whole world was burning to ashes!! :o
Nefer...I loved your story...although it is real...it felt like a paragraph from a novel!
Very intense emotions there for a Libra...I mean coming from you...it's understandable because of your water sign...but him...hummm interesting! I love it!
Very intense emotions there for a Libra...I mean coming from you...it's understandable because of your water sign...but him...hummm interesting! I love it!
Taste I hear you! Enough with all the niceness! Screw 'em!
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Awwww...Libras....so good yet so torturous!!!
LOL @ Taste!
Awww, thanks 🙂
After that, of course tears spilled down my face, which he kissed away. I asked him if he wanted to use the Mulligan, the Do-Over, and he looked baffled (lol Libras - so literal, so concrete... come SWIM with me for once!) and said, "But we can't change the past. It's already happened, and we can't undo it." Realizing that he still can't think/speak "marine" (thanks, tubby lol) I countered with, "But we CAN let it go, right?" And he nodded, relieved... probably cuz I finally said something that made sense to him 😛
As for his intense emotions.. he's a Leo Venus and Virgo Moon. Fiery love, fiercely posessive. Now, granted, his Libra Sun/Mercury makes him THINK his emotions more than FEEL them... however, it's a friggin' MYTH that Virgos are emotionless.. actually, they're VERY emotional, and can be hyper-critical and super-sensitive (as can Leos!). They (Virgos) just usually maintain iron control over showing it. He doesn't blow often, but when he does, clearly it's a doozy.
Of course he thought he was right, and I thought I was right. In the end, though we probably each felt we were more in the right than the other, we realized the other had valid points too. And so we let it go. Best part for me is that it's REALLY "let go" ...he lacks the ability to later throw anything said in anger back in my face... like he might if he had Scorp placements LOL
After that, of course tears spilled down my face, which he kissed away. I asked him if he wanted to use the Mulligan, the Do-Over, and he looked baffled (lol Libras - so literal, so concrete... come SWIM with me for once!) and said, "But we can't change the past. It's already happened, and we can't undo it." Realizing that he still can't think/speak "marine" (thanks, tubby lol) I countered with, "But we CAN let it go, right?" And he nodded, relieved... probably cuz I finally said something that made sense to him 😛
As for his intense emotions.. he's a Leo Venus and Virgo Moon. Fiery love, fiercely posessive. Now, granted, his Libra Sun/Mercury makes him THINK his emotions more than FEEL them... however, it's a friggin' MYTH that Virgos are emotionless.. actually, they're VERY emotional, and can be hyper-critical and super-sensitive (as can Leos!). They (Virgos) just usually maintain iron control over showing it. He doesn't blow often, but when he does, clearly it's a doozy.
Of course he thought he was right, and I thought I was right. In the end, though we probably each felt we were more in the right than the other, we realized the other had valid points too. And so we let it go. Best part for me is that it's REALLY "let go" ...he lacks the ability to later throw anything said in anger back in my face... like he might if he had Scorp placements LOL
Oh, and I feel I should point out... the man does not throw around words like "breaking up" lightly, and though we never name-call or take really low cheap shots (he MAY have called me a bitch when he called the first time... the connection was bad, and it wasn't clear, but it sounded like bitch... but he didn't repeat or refer to it during the second call, so I dunno. It would be a FIRST for him if he actually called me a bitch! LOL).. Since we don't play juvenile games when we argue, him saying he was packing up and moving out hit me HARD... I really felt like it was all going to end over something so incredibly stupid that we'd HATE having to try explaining it to our family and friends o.o
... And that, my dears... is apparently the inner stress Libras are feeling right now. It will make them act out of sorts, out of character, and even be almost powerless to stop a stupid fight even while they recognize they're being unreasonable.
... And that, my dears... is apparently the inner stress Libras are feeling right now. It will make them act out of sorts, out of character, and even be almost powerless to stop a stupid fight even while they recognize they're being unreasonable.
Glad things calmed down for you Nefer.
LadyLibra... embrace the darkside! haha. Seriously though, I don't know your situation but I know this feeling, "The anger that I have toward this is unresolvable, because there really is nothing else that I can do in this situation and it frustrates me to not have any justice for myself". While I know it is easier said than done, you may have to accept that you will never have an answer or get the justice you seek. I am very much a "fix it" type person, there have been very few things I have had to walk away from unsatisfied but sometimes the only other choice is to drive yourself crazy.
As for the being upset with friends and people in your life blocking you, that is something they said would happen to us all with the saturn in libra stuff. Best choice if these people are really holding you back or hindering you is to let them go.
LadyLibra... embrace the darkside! haha. Seriously though, I don't know your situation but I know this feeling, "The anger that I have toward this is unresolvable, because there really is nothing else that I can do in this situation and it frustrates me to not have any justice for myself". While I know it is easier said than done, you may have to accept that you will never have an answer or get the justice you seek. I am very much a "fix it" type person, there have been very few things I have had to walk away from unsatisfied but sometimes the only other choice is to drive yourself crazy.
As for the being upset with friends and people in your life blocking you, that is something they said would happen to us all with the saturn in libra stuff. Best choice if these people are really holding you back or hindering you is to let them go.
I've been pretty sensitive to rejection lately. I usually don't care about this kind of thing. I try to meet and mingle and socialize with as many women as possible. Sometimes I win, sometimes I don't. The occasions where I don't "win", I usually just it brush off...but lately I've been pretty stand off-ish and defensive and really looking down on the ones who reject me.
There is also this Aquarius girl who I know is into me, but I just don't feel the same and she's really getting on my nerves. I hate being the one to say I'm not interested. I'd rather they just kind of pick up on it and move along.
She's not getting it and I'm starting to be short and testy with her. What makes it even more uncomfortable for me is that she is my dental hygienist. :/
There is also this Aquarius girl who I know is into me, but I just don't feel the same and she's really getting on my nerves. I hate being the one to say I'm not interested. I'd rather they just kind of pick up on it and move along.
She's not getting it and I'm starting to be short and testy with her. What makes it even more uncomfortable for me is that she is my dental hygienist. :/
New profile pic sums it up nicely...
Awww, gemtaur :> I had to go look for that thread.. the "unrequited" one.
Yes, Libra's quite enraptured by me, I believe. I am the Sea of Feeling in which he comes to swim in daily, perchance to dream or perhaps to drown. He says no one has ever loved him as absolutely and unconditionally as I do, aside from his mother. And I do. I simply ADORE him, every fault and flaw, shining and tarnished, his beauty and his ugliness unhidden to my inner eye. I KNOW him... and still love him. I chose him, he did indeed "sort himself out" and we are still together... and I will still always love my long-lost Virgo soul mate.
That may be how a Pisces loves.. but it's certainly how *I* love.
Yes, Libra's quite enraptured by me, I believe. I am the Sea of Feeling in which he comes to swim in daily, perchance to dream or perhaps to drown. He says no one has ever loved him as absolutely and unconditionally as I do, aside from his mother. And I do. I simply ADORE him, every fault and flaw, shining and tarnished, his beauty and his ugliness unhidden to my inner eye. I KNOW him... and still love him. I chose him, he did indeed "sort himself out" and we are still together... and I will still always love my long-lost Virgo soul mate.
That may be how a Pisces loves.. but it's certainly how *I* love.
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