The libra wiles

My libra man is such a baby. He always gives me back what I give him. Is this a libran or scorpio trait? Because his libra planets lie in the house of scorpio.
Last night I was late in meeting him, and I guess since he's sort of pissed, he doesn't come on tonight and makes me wait for him.
And his way of showing me that he isn't seeing another girl is by seeing her more often.. and without explanation, nor ruffled feathers.
Sometimes I wish he'd be a giver for once, as in, give without expecting anything in return. I mean he does, but he doesn't forgive any transgressions, yet expects me to forgive his. Well, maybe not, but if I do, he takes it for granted.

Is this an accurate picture of a typical libran man? I have a feeling it is slightly scorpio-ish as there's "revenge" in the mix.

Yip...im tit for tat all the way...its the least you deserve, a taste of your own medicine 🙂

Nice!!!!

*laffs*

Sola

He's too a lib with moon in sag.
I don't know.. are you guys marriageable?

hey, guess what I'm a libra as well, but I don't exactly enjoy the "tit for tat" thing, it leads to stormy relationships and eventually breakups.

I just wonder, how do you guys manage all these tempests? Sure, it fires up the relationship but very soon I'm going to be sick of that prima donna-ness.

You must be upsetting him in some way that leads him to this behaviour. Are you too much in control, or not as serious as you should be about plans/arrangements?? These are both punishable offences!! Sounds like he feels a bit up in the air about his feelings, so you need to hand out the TLC in large amounts. Turning up late, and being generally blase are not good at all.

Marriagable, its a scary concept for me but i like to think it will happen (soon)!!

***And his way of showing me that he isn't seeing another girl is by seeing her more often.. and without explanation, nor ruffled feathers.***

Spica, I am a little confused, are you guys exclusive the above comment doesn't seem that way. This all has to be taken into consideration to determine what his intentions are. Is he seeing someone else? If so, exactly why is marriage even a question? Please explain.

Sola, I think you're the female version of him.. I guess I can get tips from you hehehe..
Well yes, I upset him, but then again he does me.
Tit for tat, I do that too, but it's getting way out of hand because his tits are more than my tats (no that's not what I meant, what I meant is I give way more to him than vice versa) 😛

The thing is, I have always been nice to him, but then he becomes this devil who tries to push the limits everytime, so if I am not so nice he is nicer.

**Marriagable, its a scary concept for me but i like to think it will happen (soon)!✨*

That makes me relieved, because at least he would have some thought of marriage in the (far) future.

btw, I do hand out the TLC, but he does not like it in large amounts.. I know he has a thing for lateness, but i'm peeved with some things of his as well.. but overall he's still a dish (!)





Queenscorpio,
**Is he seeing someone else? If so, exactly why is marriage even a question? **

Very powerful question haha... because we don't see two people at the time, at least not what I believe of him anyway. Making things so obvious is his way of saying "we're just friends", else there'll be sneakiness, which there's none. Well marriage.. I don't believe in seeing someone without leading up to it, at least not for a serious relationship.

*Sounds like he feels a bit up in the air about his feelings***

what does this mean? sounds volatile

Well, then it sounds like you need to talk about EXACTLY what's going on, where you are headed etc together. You might not like it or enjoy the conversation but there needs to be no doubt his mind as to what you mean to each other..sometimes its better to just cut your losses.

Stop the tit-for-tat right now, especially if its a conscious effort. That goes for him too of course. I think its just a communication thing, but the sooner you find out the better. Marriage..not something he will do lightly so sort yourselfs out now 🙂

When a Libran speaks of marriage to you it is serious. When he is seeing other people and you guys are "FRIENDS" that is what he means. Don't make it something it isn't. Like Sola said, tell him exactly what you expect and want, or accept the friendship if he isn't ready for anything more serious.

We're not intending to marry yet, at least I'm not either, perhaps more than 5 yrs down the road. I'm just wondering if he's marriageable, or if he wants just a relationship.

You're right about talking thing, but we're just comfortable, and I don't want to stir things up or scare him off. I know what he means to me and feels about me. I think he needs to breach the subject. I adore him more than anything, and he knows that, but he likes to play.

The tit for tat is way irritating, because if I'm not playing it, he is. I have no control over that.

We have no doubt in our minds what we mean to each other, but we can't settle into a comfortable routine relationship. If I don't shake it up, he will.
I don't think relationships are easy for us both. Marriage doesn't even fit into the picture now, but I don't see myself with anyone else, because if I do, he will show me otherwise. He is 1/2 scorp in the houses; he likes power games.

I don't think I have to "prove" anything, Queenscorpio, whether we are friends or not. Perhaps it is a conjecture on your part, but you seem keen on me being "friends" with him. Why, I wonder?

I don't ever speak of marriage with him, not even a relationship, yet I know who I am with. Some things need not be said; sounds silly yet alot of times what's said can be easily crafted. Perhaps as a scorp you should be adept at reading beyond words.

by the way, Sola, he's born a few days after you, the next sag moon cycle .. this sounds creepy, hope you aren't scared off. I've found another of his astro twin in another forum (geez why can't I find mine?) but he's a scorp born 3 days after him. The similarity is appalling.

I know this guy inside out, we've been seeing each other for a long time.
just needed to post that he is a flighty social bird on the outside, but as a partner, i see his true self, which is far from what he portrays to everyone. that's why we get pissed with each o0ther.

Nope, not scared at all...i like helping!! Im just saying, if you're bothered by something address it before it becomes unbearable..he'll probably..no, he'll definitely be happy that you did!! Libra's hate confrontation unless it has a happy ending..🙂

Comfortable isnt always good, it needs to be honest and steady and solid. Comfortable becomes boring for us verrry quickly. Im not trying to scare you..but you really need to understand this.

Understand that his flirtations are harmless..its like a release, or a vanity thing..proof that we can still do it..not a sign that he's ready to up sticks and leave. But the games, the uncertainty, the fear of causing upset...something's not right and you know it. You need to set aside some together time..any questions you can always PM me anytime.