Back in November I met up with Libra and I said I don't know why we are doing this agian because you are not ready, he said it was an attraction, then a few minutes later he pulled me to him and I swear he whispered that he was in love with me and he was afraid of losing me...After this he went all cold on me so we talked a few times through email and I told him that it wasn't just an attraction to me and that I was in love with him...He ignored me at christmas when I called so I never called him again and he finally called a month later, we talked for a few weeks on the phone and decided we were going to be firends only...then he shows up at my work and asks to see me again, teeling me how scared he was and ect...anyways pulls the scared crap again and we end up fighting..He asked me if I was still in love with him and how I could possibly love him so quickly...legitimate question but the way he asked and the tone of his voice really upset me...he sounded scornful or full of contempt, almost like he was making fun of me...don't know if I describing it properly but I have a hard time telling people about my feelings and I am wondering why he would make me feel this way...Any ideas..He also said I feel sorry for him...
The tone in his voice...

I thought you were over this? He isn't ready or doesn't want a relationship with you right now. Stop doing this to yourself. Leave it alone. It really doesn't matter about his tone. You know when libra wants to be involved with you by his actions and he will verbalize it clearly to you. Don't do this to yourself. Move on sweety.
Queen Scorpio
I have moved on...More inquisitive now..Realize that it is what it is...But I guess I still have questions about his behaviour..never dated a Libra before..And if I ever meet one again, I will be screening HAHA...and i will have knowledge...
I have to question why someone says over and over that they don't want to hurt you and sorry that they did hurt you but yet they keep coming back and trying to be with you, knowing that they will only hurt you more...seem very selfish to me...He pushed me to the point of being someone that I am usually not, so I would say things to ensure that he will not contact me again, so I can protect myself...When I know that I am not interested in someone or that it will not be a lifetime relationship I want to let the person go, so they can find someone else who will love them...I don't try to hold on to them and not let them move on...
Maybe unbalanced Libras don't realize that they are doing this...As soon as I asked him if he was trying to prevent me from moving on he emailed me and told me to have a good life...then he emailed 2 days later said he relized he was in denial of his problems, he should have no contact with anyone and that he hoped I will find the happiness that I deserve...
If you don't question and understand your mistakes you will fall back into another one...Lesson learned..Don't date men that have been cheated on and are not yet divorced...
I have moved on...More inquisitive now..Realize that it is what it is...But I guess I still have questions about his behaviour..never dated a Libra before..And if I ever meet one again, I will be screening HAHA...and i will have knowledge...
I have to question why someone says over and over that they don't want to hurt you and sorry that they did hurt you but yet they keep coming back and trying to be with you, knowing that they will only hurt you more...seem very selfish to me...He pushed me to the point of being someone that I am usually not, so I would say things to ensure that he will not contact me again, so I can protect myself...When I know that I am not interested in someone or that it will not be a lifetime relationship I want to let the person go, so they can find someone else who will love them...I don't try to hold on to them and not let them move on...
Maybe unbalanced Libras don't realize that they are doing this...As soon as I asked him if he was trying to prevent me from moving on he emailed me and told me to have a good life...then he emailed 2 days later said he relized he was in denial of his problems, he should have no contact with anyone and that he hoped I will find the happiness that I deserve...
If you don't question and understand your mistakes you will fall back into another one...Lesson learned..Don't date men that have been cheated on and are not yet divorced...

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