Why Libra WHY?

I thought your sign was supposed to be better than Sagittarius because you are more caring and loving, BUT WHY OH WHY do you have to have such high standards?

I have another Scorpio friend (yes I am a Scorpio too) who is interested in this very beautiful Libra woman. (Libras are beautiful people--yes I agree). She likes him just as much as he likes her. I think it's even fair to say that they are infatuated with each other.

**BUT** Why isn't he good enough for her? She has got this on-again off again attitude about love that completely frustrates him. She is so sweet and endearing one minute, and the next minute she is too busy for love.

Is this how Libras balance themselves? Libra experts and Libras--please help me understand a little bit more about you.

WHY, WHO KNOWS?
I AM A LIBRA FEMALE AND I AM DATING A SCORPIO. 4 YEARS LATER I AM FINDING MYSELF HAVING DOUBTS. I WOULD LOVE TO TRY TO FIGURE SCOPIO MEN OUT! AT LEAST THE ONE I AM WITH. HE WAS IN THE BEGINNING VERY LOVING AND AFFECTIONATE.NOW HE GIVES MORE LOVE TO OUR DOG ON A DAILY BASIS THAN ME. ALSO HE COULD'NT BE MORE SELFISH. WHY IS THAT? HE'S VERY CONTROLLING, AND NOT VERY TALKATIVE. SO WHATS THE DEAL IS THIS HOW ALL SCORPIO'S ARE?
AS FOR BEING A LIBRA, ALL I WANT IS SOMEONE WHO THINKS I AM THE BEST THING HE'S EVER HAD AND WOULD EVER WANT. I ALSO WANT TO LOOK UP TO MY MAN. SO MAYBE YOUR LIBRA ISN'T LOOKING UP TO YOU? WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO TURN YOUR LIBRA OFF? MAYBE YOU ARE NOT OPENING UP TO HER. ASK WHAT YOU ARE DOING WRONG BECAUSE AS ALWAYS I AM SURE ITS NOT THE LIBRA'S FAULT.

THANKS, MICHE
PS I COULD GO ON AND ON

For the first initial post, it sounds more of a typical "female" trait than a Libran trait. I could line up ten women who aren't Librans who have that fickle nature. On the other hand, I just don't believe that Librans and Scorpions should date. Friendship OK and for business matters fine too, but not in the romantic realm. It doesn't work.

hey sloan this is miche,
why don't you think scorpio's & libra's are not a good match for romance or marriage?? just wondering if you had an experience of your own or new someone who's relationship did not work. i am just curious. i would like to here your reply.
thanks,
:-]

sorry i spelled your name wrong
sloane!!!!!!!!!!!!

that's alright, I HAVE dated Scorpions before, as well as worked with them AND lived with one almost my whole life--my brother that is. Based on my experience, it seems best that Librans and Scorpions aren't right for serious, intimate relationships. Work--no problem. That's all.

I agree with Sloane on this one (Hi, Sloane!)...I think this is a personality thing...and at times women(as well as men)can be fickle in their choices! I also agree that the Scorpio/Libra thing does NOT work! I have experienced this combo personally...just in reverse (I am a Libra male who dated a Scorpio female)...the single biggest mistake I have made-in my life- so far! She was crazy and possessive-and would stop at nothing to get her way! She even FAKED a pregnancy to try to get me to marry her....lucky for me I figured it all out before it was to late!
Tell your friend....beauty isn't everyting and infatuations fade...find someone that knows her mind and wants the same things that he wants-that is key!
Good Luck!
VOR

Thank you everyone for your advice. It really has helped me a tremendous amount because now I think I know how I am going to advise both of my friends. I really appreciate your help!

To VOR,
I didn't know you were a guy...I just thought you had very masculine traits! I think it is your excellent communication skills and intuitive insight that for some reason had me thinking you were female...shows that I am still a bit biased...I shall have to work on that!
Well, my friend, you suddenly make so much more sense to me! And I apologize for my faux pas!
(No wonder you were so aggressive with the jerks!)
Way to go Guy!
Your Laughing At Herself Friend!
Star

LOL, Star....I thought you knew that I was a guy! My parents have always said that I was blessed with the ability to see both sides of the gender issue...you see...I have a twin sister. She, too, has such abilities...she has a certain edge to her that only comes from having a twin brother. I on the other hand have her "gift of gab"!-LOL!
Take Care, Star!
VOR

Hi VOR!
That must have been cool, having a twin sister...
And, yes, you are very able to see both sides of the gender issue...congratulations! That is quite a task to have mastered!
Almost didn't let on that I just discovered that you were a guy...thanks for laughing with me about it!
Star

VOR buddy, you're the shit!

Your Libran friend,
Sloane

Why is it her fault they aren't getting together? Perhaps, she might like it if he pursued her. I am a female/Libra and I like the guy to be the aggressor, not the other way around. If the man doesn't want to be the dominate force in the relationship, then I lose respect for him.

I like that. I have to agree.

Libras are shallow 🙂