Never Sleep With Someone You Wouldn't Want To Be

—Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise.

The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours. Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.??

—I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn't want to be.?? ~Lisa Chase Patterson


Penny for your thoughts?

Hmmmm...something to ponder.

YUP I'm VERY careful now. If they don't align with me spiritually with beliefs and values..Their spiritual conflictions ALSO become yours when you become ONE. Lets not forget the many partners they have slept with before you came along, you also spiritually LAY with them and THEIR partners that came before... are you really READY to open yourself to THAT kind of a ride?? I'm all set.

I've gone 2 years without...skipping another wouldn't hurt compared to the damage a messed up individual can cause.

MONEY...and MORE money baby...I took on another job, went to the gym, volunteered..STAYED BUSY.
You are STRONGER than you think. I'm still going strong.

I have just become more selective. I want to lay with HUSBAND material. Play time is over.

Example? I'm trying to understand how exactly that would feel. Is it dependent on the person, what exactly do you gain from this? What makes the person confused? I can't easily understand things unless put into context. I'm trying to imagine how I could relate that to my partners, but I didn't feel any different as a person after having sex with them, even over a period of time.

Posted by TAURUSbelle
MONEY...and MORE money baby...I took on another job, went to the gym, volunteered..STAYED BUSY.
You are STRONGER than you think. I'm still going strong.

I have just become more selective. I want to lay with HUSBAND material. Play time is over.

Posted by TAURUSbelle
YUP I'm VERY careful now. If they don't align with me spiritually with beliefs and values..Their spiritual conflictions ALSO become yours when you become ONE. Lets not forget the many partners they have slept with before you came along, you also spiritually LAY with them and THEIR partners that came before... are you really READY to open yourself to THAT kind of a ride?? I'm all set.

I've gone 2 years without...skipping another wouldn't hurt compared to the damage a messed up individual can cause.

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Taurusbelle is very smart!

Great topic, miso.

Posted by SweetLibra
Yes, soul ties are powerful and binding. Any advice on how you break the tie? How do you clear the negative energy?

Since I have Christian beliefs, PRAYER, Repentance and FASTING for a week & 1/2 (NO food, just water) worked for me. Also when you pray..ask for God to "Cut the spiritual cords, ties, spirits" out of your life. Request a "Spiritual Divorce" and "Spiritual freedom" from ANY and EVERY man that you have ever encountered sexually in this physical realm. Be it by thought (fantasy) or the actual act. Then forgive yourself for making those mistakes..and move on.

Posted by capricornmoon
So then likewise, what do you guys think it means when you can not forget someone? he stays on your mind and you think about him day and night even though you're not together, but for whatever reason this person that you were intimate with; it seems that you can never forget him. what does that mean?

@Taurusbelle, that sounds inspiring. I've waited longer than that by choice also but I don't think I would do it again because I went semi crazy on the inside from abstinence, lol.

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The reason why you can't forget them is because you are still Spiritually tied/BONDED.
"What God has joined TOGETHER...NO man can separate" ~Mark 10:9

I'm not going to get "preachy" here...but sex really IS meant for marriage. When applied CORRECTLY, it is the GLUE between Husband and Wife for both enjoyment of spouse and to fuse together after a disagreement (AFTER full 2-way communication of both talking & listening from both ends and forgiveness.).
Its a spiritual outlet that "smooths the kinks"...VERY powerful, & Nothing to mess with.
Unless you're ready for the consequential outcomes.

You're not busy ENOUGH. or you need somewhat of a "replacement."..MORE money and new Shoes brings me to "orgasmic highs" all the time. 😉 SANS the emotional/spiritual turmoil.

@Capricorn Moon.. I feel u.. I'm waiting for my king too. I refuse to settle too.

Ooh & by replacement..I meant something tactile to temporarily fill the voids from not getting physical.
Personally, I don't think another man can be "replaced". Physically yes. But the level and depth of feelings you felt for the one that came before the new guy, can never be replaced. Take your time & Enjoy what & who fate brings you.

Best Wishes..

I never wanted to be any of the men I've been intimate with but I also never wanted to be intimate with a man I didn't love. I'm not sure about all those chakras. I just know that being intimate opens up the emotional floodgates. And I wouldn't want it any other way.

It's interesting that so many are using the "sleep with" term and yet are showing pictures of sex. Well I've slept as in sleeping Zzzz's with my guy. xD But we've never had sex. By my choice, not his (I'm waiting). And I can't get him off my mind. And I care more about how he feels that about my own family and best friends. And any time something about me disgusts him, I'm crushed.

I'm having a very HARD time walking that fine line between not giving enough attention and smothering. I never knew that would be so hard.... gah!

Posted by starlover
Wow if sex really is for marriage, then am truly fecked (xcuse the pun) 😄

I dont believe this at all ~~ we can be deeply in love and connected to someone and not enter into the life time commitment of something that may not last (i did this more than once).

Actually the irony is for lots, sex isnt great during marriage..it becomes stale and predictable. The best sex i have had is outside of marriage with a guy i have been faithful to for 5 years

🙂

each to his own i guess

xxx

5 years? Basically you're married without the status symbol. 😉

Sure! Truckers and other traveling sorts hardly live with their spouses. 😉