Twin flame separation

Can anyone tell me how do you deal with someone who you think is your twin flame separation? I read that everyone needs to do their own thing in this 3d body --- twin flames will meet again after you have grown? learn the lessons it was there to teach you -- sometimes you hold an energetic space for someone that can never meet you on that level but you feel so much --- im not depressed at all --- just trying to understand it all

Posted by tiziani
While I'm not down with the pop culture overemphasis on love and forgiveness whenever i read these kind of articles, I thought this person still made the best point below. It's the same principle in Zarahustran methods and even astrology. That once you find something that's a part of you, you can no longer do the work thinking it is "us vs them", it's just "this is another part of me" then you move past it.

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"I had two strong clues that my relationship was a twin flame relationship: first, any session done on the two of us the session wouldn’t take us as one being, it treated us as a couple.

Secondly, from the day we met, we threw each other out of sync energetically. If he was up with business, I was down. If I was sick and got better, he got sick immediately after. And there were a million other similar examples that I’m sure you recognise from your own experience.

That led me to the following realization: if I kept throwing us out of sync by working on one of us energetically at a time, then maybe the way to fix us was to work on both of us at the same time.

That led to a series of BodyTalk sessions done on the couple where we balanced major energies (workflow, money, success, commitment, focus, vitality, luck) across the relationship and pair. We started seeing improvement after that.

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That’s led to a morning ritual where I connect to my twin flame energetically and balance the energies between us every single morning. Additionally, any forgiveness and release work I do, I do including him. So when I ask for peace and forgiveness, I ask that it is chosen for him too.

I have experimented with holding anger or trying to block him out, but how do you block out your own soul? That just causes pain and seriously messes with your focus. If I’m really battling with it, what helps is to reinforce any cords, bonds and connections to him and then flow forgiveness energy through that non-stop.

At the end of the day, this is just one lifetime in the midst of many, many lifetimes you will share. You can’t hate yourself and you can’t withhold forgiveness from yourself forever."

This seriously is what I was thinking ... how can you hate part of yourself ... before when the separation happened I thought to myself and did feel hurt and somewhat anger but as the days go by -- deep within you cant feel dislike or anger towards part of yourself...U have basically helped me to understand it even more.. and that ritual of including their peace and happiness when asking makes so much sense.... Its time to work on yourself when these things happen and hold that loving space anyway .... It did mess with my focus a bit before but now I can truly put things to rest ..thank you so much for your time and advice on t

that was beautifully written ....i dont want to label mines either and all i know is the intense emotions i felt...there was a time i would feel his emotions to the point i felt ill and had to do mental work to cut that off....which did help....u r a great person and we are all a work in progress..at least we dont have to do it alone...thanks dear one

@impulsv. ...i hear ya.....its . frustrating when u cant get why people can be just normal and do what they need to do...keep up their end so it saves so much pain and anger...i have read so many times that without these things we cant grow...we cant find ourselves...so much work etc...its frustrating but there is a chinese saying...this too shall pass...

Posted by Aalia
Can anyone tell me how do you deal with someone who you think is your twin flame separation? I read that everyone needs to do their own thing in this 3d body --- twin flames will meet again after you have grown? learn the lessons it was there to teach you -- sometimes you hold an energetic space for someone that can never meet you on that level but you feel so much --- im not depressed at all --- just trying to understand it all

@taurusinsane will shine some strength and insight on you

How long has this separation been for you guys? Does it get easier or harder? How do you stop yourself from wanting to connect to your TF ? it has become part of who you are now, seperating from the twin , you may feel lost BUT you can become * yourself * again. but somehow, u still want that intense connection. .m. yet being in each other's life you feel so intensely it becomes such an up and down relationship... How do you win with this paring?

@impulsv... I feel what you have written -- it was written with so much honesty and passion that I myself can feel the pain and confusion still existing in this union. We never have all the answers -- even when we wish we do -- or a genie in a lamp that gives us three wishes ... You feel like part of you have left and you are searching to be whole again.... You are quite right -- happiness is a state of being and does not reside in someone else's hands.... we have to find it ... we are survivors and we will survive 🙂 all the love in the world to you

@impulse thank you so much for sharing your deep insight. I understand you completely. I am sad without him but when we communicate or being involved to each other, we make each other the happiest yet when we fight we torn ourselves apart. When we fight we hurt each other like crazy... I also don't want to get bak in touch with him in a way Coz I don't wanna hurt him anymore..... yet I know he needs me in his life somehow... but he needs to learn his issues and solve them all by himself meanwhile I'm also doing that work. I am sorry he's married... that doesn't mean he's happy... same as mine, he got involved with someone after me and him had a big fight.. I noe why he's with her even if he's not admitting it... While he's with her he still wanted me... He says something is missing... That something ... is that intensity we both share... Yet it makes us the happiest and cause us the most pain.... Right now he's angry and staying out of my life... Coz I told him his issues he need to fix.... he's mad Coz it's true.... Eventhough I want him to want me again, be with me again.. a part of me don't.... I don't want us to hurt each other anymore untill we both r ready 100 percents...... to reunited... Otherwise the same cycle begins and it's just a night mare.... if it's a true twin flame I don't think there is such a thing as a final seperation... One day you will reunited again... You can't stop faith or destiny... I can only take what I learned throughout that relationship and grow as a person ok my own...as I believe it's the only way to help him is by healing myself and growing by myself stronger.... So if he's my true TF he will also share that happy energy vibe with me... I hope so 🙂...

TF separation?

It's the hardest loss with which you'll ever need to cope. It feel like the death of the person dearest to you, like the loss of a limb, as if your heart has shattered into a million pieces. There are times where your heart actually hurts inside your chest.