Arguement with aries guy...

So, we haven't said anything to each other in almost 6 months. He pops up once and a while to visit, but when he does there is always some drama behind it. It's the same drama that has been going on for months. The last time he visited, was the last straw for me. I hit him up casually. He speaks to me like nothing has happened... Like there was never any months in between, but as we got further into the conversation he says I haven't spoken to you in 5 months. We talked about his kids. He told me about his future plans, he asked if I gave his nookie away(sighs) and we ended it. It was cool. Then the drama hits. We had an arguement the next day. It was bitch this and bitch that. We started yelling. You're not my woman and you're questioning me. It was a simple question that didn't have anything to do with being his woman.He blamed me for the drama that is going on between me and others. They was going back to him and telling him lies. Then he says he going to go back and tell one of them I said something and I didn't say anything about anyone. We started yelling again. He cusses and hang up. The usual exit. Then I'm saying to myself wtf just happened.

Did he have an emotional outburst or did he just lose it?

This sounds like a toxic relationship.

Yes, Aries have their tantrums, but they're over it as soon as they say what they have to say. That's why he acts like nothing has happened. He's let it go and forgotten about it until you bring it up again.

I don't think this has anything to do with him just throwing a hissy fit.

Aries don't like to be nagged and it sounds like you nag at him about the same issue over and over. You're not in a relationship. Why do you keep doing this? Be his friend. Aries like someone that supports them and doesn't question every little move they make.

My suggestion is either learn to let it go or move on.

And when he pops up every now and then to visit, do you guys hook up?

If so, he's there just for the R&R.

I've gone back and read some of your posts. It seems like you have a lot of drama with other people as well. Someone's always telling lies about you, etc.

Perhaps he is right and you're creating your own drama.

Posted by truecap
This sounds like a toxic relationship.

Yes, Aries have their tantrums, but they're over it as soon as they say what they have to say. That's why he acts like nothing has happened. He's let it go and forgotten about it until you bring it up again.

I don't think this has anything to do with him just throwing a hissy fit.

Aries don't like to be nagged and it sounds like you nag at him about the same issue over and over. You're not in a relationship. Why do you keep doing this? Be his friend. Aries like someone that supports them and doesn't question every little move they make.

My suggestion is either learn to let it go or move on.

+2

You're absolutely right. I figured it out.

Posted by truecap
I've gone back and read some of your posts. It seems like you have a lot of drama with other people as well. Someone's always telling lies about you, etc.

Perhaps he is right and you're creating your own drama.

It's not a lot of drama, it's just same issues with a few people. He said what he said about the drama because he feels like i let people get to me. All this drama involves someone that he has been intimate with. I broke it off with him because of the drama that was circled around those two. He told me not to believe the lies. He said he hasn't been communicating with anyone and that she doesn't like me. I thought about everything that he said and he is absolutely right. So, I'll handle her. Apologize to him and move on.

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
Why are you still dealing with this person? What do you gain from it?

You're his nookie and that's it...and he wants you to stay in your place and know your role.

I can't be his nookie if never really had sex.

Thanks for all the advice