How to Crush

I'm crushing again!

Taurus Sun, Venus in Aries, Mars in Aries...

When I crush, I find myself focusing much of my attention on the object of my affection. Talking to him, seeing him as often as possible. I feel excited by the possibilities and marvel over our seemingly instant connection.

I struggle with whether or not to see him naked and touch his wee or play it cool. Generally the sexier, more manly and direct he is, the harder it is to say no.

I love this phase. There are limitless possibilities and it's almost like a mini-adrenaline rush.


What's your Sun, Venus and Mars and How do you crush?

I AM BEING SERIOUS!

and some of that shit you wrote is true. sounds so like you.

ok, i dont know about every waking minute. but i do go overboard. like an addict needing a fix. it's so much fun. sucks when it wears off.

whoa there chicky!

not love...what's love?

more like...mini-lust. i'm in the, "Sure would like to see you naked" phase.

oh yea, i forgot that about libra. aries is like that too in a way. freaks.

well lurve or peep show phase, i'm in it. it's probably just a figment of my imagination...or gas.

chance, how do you crush? and what the hell is your sign?

uh oh! chance stay away from toc. aqua men pull her in with their awesome friend suction. maybe the fact that he's a cappy will keep you from being a spazz toc. find a local "chance" and see how things go. maybe he'll give you his toenail clippings instead of your having to rummage through his bin.

i dont have any patterns in terms of guys. i have met more virgos than anything which actually sorta depresses the shit out of me. DAMNIT! and he other most frequent sign is pisces which is ironic given they're opposites. who'd a thunk! the pisces were short lived though. i called frenchy a prick which hurt his feelings and now he's licking wounds.

i told him that i would msg him in a few days. can't stand that moody shit. he was being a prick! he deserved to get cursed out. i didn't think he'd like almost cry and shit. we'll be cool again. i just need a break. i can only crush on one guy at a time. all others are just bench warmers.

scorp_chic, that's why i dont do social networking. i need to delete my fb account. nothing on there but every lil bit feeds the beast.

chance, i have no clue. i have a lot of fire placements so i'm attracted to fire and air signs. cant seem to get along with them mofos though. i've never met a cancer male. scorpios are off limits. pisces is debatable. caps are out too. and virgos are negotiable. chance ultimately, you men are weird. i just want one who knows how to put the toilet seat down.

lol

nah, you're pretty undateable really. i say you just stop trying.

i know, you're into dudes with clits. lil wee fetishes are just wrong!

anyway, i'm hoping this crush doesnt turn out to be a loser. that would suck beyond belief. i might turn to lesbianism if i'm unable to resolve this "mr. right" issue. i'll be a celibate lesbian but we can cuddle...bout as far as i can go.

i think it's natural to be a lil inquisitive. i try to avoid doing it at all though. i know that there will be stuff i'm bound not to like from past entries let alone new ones. i wish i could pull some of the stuff that i have out there back. nothing embarrassing just that some people...scorpios 🙂 will read every entry because you never know ya know.

now with that said, when i use my natural detective powers, i am the google champ! if the info's out there, i can find it.

dont know how aussie is but lots of info is public here. it's really just a matter of deduction. you just need basics and can find out anything. how many of you have a classmates profile?

and damn google maps with their street views. love how they show your car and dont always blur the license plate.

yep, it's addictive. may start innocent enough. like going into someone's bathroom and looking in the medicine cabinet. not really looking for anything but hey, why the hell not?

i think once you start, it's hard to stop and it can become obsessive. god forbid you find something that peaks your interest and then it goes from innocent to psycho. i have an aqua friend who is in a bit of a conundrum. her libra cheated on her early in their relationship and he sometimes does suspect stuff. he offered to get a new phone with gps tracking so that she could know where he is at all times.

i told her not to do it. i mean hell, she's gonna be on that damn thing all day. have it up like yahoo im just tracking his ass. plus, when someone knows you are snoopy and that you have access to their shit, they just become more secretive and better at whatever underhanded shit they're doing. best to resist the urge and if you can't, you probably don't need to be in that relationship anyway so leave.

gps is standard on all phones. been that way for like a decade now.

and you can get familial gps tracking plan. like if you want to keep track of your kids. novel idea but to do it for your SO is a bit much. i dont wanna be with you if i feel the need to tag ya and track ya.

and i think all people with venus in a fire sign play cat and mouse in a certain way. the women tend to have trouble though because where our natural inclination is to be aggressive and to chase, society says we're supposed to sit back and be passive. so we're more likely to send weird signals and i agree, this can be confusing as hell to guys.

^mobiles i mean.

yeah, i told my friend that he'd probably just leave the phone at work, go out, come back to work, get the phone and head home if he was up to something. and i think you can do it on your iphone but the tracking is associated with the primary account i think. this is why you never accept a phone from an SO. you think it's a harmless gift and the mofo is sitting outside your house during their lunch break trying to see who's going in and out.

ok, i gotta start werkin.

toc i was gonna say "PM me" but that soooo reminds me of someone else. i wonder when folks are going to figure out we're the same person too?

Sun Taurus/Aries
Venus Pisces
Mars Capricorn

When I crush I think happy bunny thoughts. I reach out, because the thought of them makes me happy. I tend to come on strong at times. Too strong.
I imagine making love with the object of my crush, a lot. But yes, I'll reach out and see if it's reciprocated. If I get slapped back a bit, I regroup. Keep it to myself.

Sun: Pisces
Venus: Aries
Mars: Aquarius

I get pretty excited and generally have to find out everything I can about said crush.

The thing is though when I do I'm always like "hmm, not sure I like that about you" so the excitement always fades pretty quick. I'm just very, very easily put off.

I am somewhat embarrassed to admit that the first thing I do after I meet someone is google them.

Sun: Sagittarius
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio

When I meet someone & think they're cute, or I like their energy or whatever... I spend a while watching them and feeling them out first. Got the whole Leo eye-sex thing going on. Once I have a better idea of them, I crush hard. But they probably won't realize it for a while...and if they do, they might be questioning it even then.
When I'm crushing on someone I kind of ignore them? Lol. It's bizarre. I don't know why I do it. I get all fucking awkward. I'll purposely be places I know they'll be, but I won't ask them to hang out. I will talk to everyone else...in front of them. If I'm not already friends with one of their friends, I'll make friends with them. I eventually end up becoming friendly with them at some point (but only after traipsing around them giggling, talking, and flirting with everyone else.) & when they start flirting or showing interest, I get straight-forward in true Saggi fashion.

^that's so scorpio fiery 🙂

Sun😛isces
Venus:Aries
Mars:Aries

I get lost in lots of fantasies when I'm crushing. I imagine a million random scenarios involving us, and act it all out like a play in my mind. I'm pretty flirty and playful, although underneath it all, I'm actually incredibly shy. I'm impulsive, so I'll say whatever I want, no matter how bold, and then immediately start
blushing out of embarrassment.

I love the back and fourth. The chase, if you will. I love to tease the object of my affection. My goal is to make them melt in my hands, but its more of a
turn on when they don't lol. I basically just like to have fun. I'm spontaneous, bold, shy, affectionate and warm all at once. Its too much for a lot of men,
but that's okay 🙂

haha I didn't put a space between the colon and the P when writing Sun: Pisces, so it made the tongue face. Cute 😛

that's interesting msp. our venus/mars is in aries and everything you said is pretty accurate for me but can definitely see how pisces sun and taurus sun differ. instead of the exploring the fantasies, i am more earthy. less scenarios but those i do have are me asking "is this gonna work?" practical questions n stuff.

and i agree, i have a weird cat-mouse dynamic and i play both roles simultaneously. i also make no apologies for being me so if a guy can't handle it, oh well. he wasn't man enough for me anyway 😛

^ Yeppers. If you want to bring the heat and it's met, don't go running off with your tail between your legs.

OOPS! Was my Aries moon hanging out again? 😛

lol 🙂 got one of those too. i tend to run more than i chase though. guess i'm a mouse with saber teeth

Mmm, honestly it depends on the situ. I can be deceptively soft or on fire. But when I step up and bomb blast someone I usually get an 'Ohhhh SHIT' reaction. And *shielding eyes and watching them scatter*. LOL Takes someone quite unusual to still be standing there like "OKAY!"

Hehehehe, mouse with saber teeth. I like that analogy. Very much. STEEL MAGNOLIA.

lmao! i'm gonna blame the actual emotion on your venus in pisces and the display of it on your aries moon.

i try to hold the actual emotion pretty close to the vest.

i.e. "love you? what that? i'm not even sure i like you!"

Forgot to add I only chase when signals are right. ( i.e., my impatience kicks in something fierce ) but for the most part I like a man to initiate.

LOL!!! That's pretty damned accurate anyways. Venus is saying "Oh butterflies, love, romance, le sigh" and Aries is saying "OH FFS JUST TAKE IT, TAKE IT NOW!! AND WORK YOUR TEETH IN DAMMIT!!" And Taurus is back there shaking her poor head and laughing her butt off!

lol 🙂

sounds complicated. inwardly i just have an infant (aries) and a toddler (taurus) going at it.

*smh* It's an interesting blend alright, to say the very least. Sometimes I identify with being Aries more than Tau.

Hello *shaking hand* I'm VB, the schizophrenic crusher.

LMAO! 😄

lol @ prince.

i want to be a prize too but he has to be as well. i guess that's why i like *HOT* guys. can't chase an ug-mug 😛

Mwahahahhahhahahahaa. 😄

@prince, well some people can date girls/guys who look unfortunate. i have friends who actually look for unattractive men. or if they meet a guy, they are a lot better at looking past appearances. i wish i had that skill but no...i'm pretty shallow in that regard.

hey the spazz posted this in the sag forum - http://www.solutionastrology.com/financeastrology/relationship/<BR>
my crush and i got a favorable rating 🙂

Whoohooo!!

actually, all of my ex's and i got favorable ratings. wtf!?

ironically, the past relationships failed for the exact reasons this site said they would.

i do however like what i read about the crush union. best of all...so far.

trippy!

I'm always up for well wishes on maiden voyages. Hell I'll even break the Cristal champagne right cross someones bow. 🙂

i get seasick

Oh dear. LOL Well, here's some Dramamine and some really crap looking wrist bands. But if you give a technicolor yawn, try and get it over the side of the ship. Watch for gulls.

Hair we have the same venus and mars. 😄

Not like you—

Haha trueee

sounds hawt, fwiw 😉