Human Behavior

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Caridad
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20 YearsPisces

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It baffles me how people treat one another. Why can't people just be up front with one another. If your angry say your angry. If your in love with someone love them with all that in you. Don't play games, call when you say you will, treat them like you would like to be treated when your in love. Don't be afraid to say or do things that are corny or romantic. If your going to be their friend really be their friend. Be there when they need a ride to the airport, when their dog dies, or just when they are sick. Sorry I am ranting but I have been watching how people, just in my home town, treat one another. And I just can not figure out why they act the way they do. I treat fly's with more dignity than these people do their friends, family, lovers. I just don't get it.
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haffo
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I do not think that is your problem Caridad - unless you are the target of this situation. These things takes two people. One who acts in that way and other who takes things that way. The problem here is in one who accepts things that way. They shouldnt allow others to boss over them that way. If they do, then this is sign of lack of self respect. This is lack of "their" self respect, not yours. This is not your probelm.
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Caridad
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20 YearsPisces

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I have absolutely no fear of rejection. I am honest about my feelings with people and they know it. I don't talk about people behind their back. If your my friend and you need a ride to the airport; I'm your girl, dog died and you want to have a funeral; I will bring flowers. But these people, not only in my life but in others, are just down right cruel. I know what your thinking "Sensitive Pisces". But is it sensitive to treat people with respect and dignity? Is it sensitve to want be told the truth? I am not saying we should coddle one another and walk on egg shells with one another but come on.

I'm on vacation and may have to much time on my hands.
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Tiamat
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20 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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Nah,not sensitivity just lazy fcukers who don't want to admit thier problems are only thier own.I think the sensitivity thing is just an excuse to avoid dealing with themselves with alot of people because it's so easy to blame someone else and get pittied for it anymore.I can say I am sensitive but it's towards disrespect,cheating,talking about people behind thier backs,backstabbing,lying,etc.I've been told I was stupid on one occassion for giving back 20 dollars and saying it should be 10 to a old cashier when I paid him with only a 20 one time lol,I think i'd have felt too guilty(sensitivity) about that.