How Has You Life Changed After Losing Virginity?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Dreamy-Eyez on Monday, November 28, 2005 and has 12 replies.

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@Dreamy-Eyez
21 Years

Hello Everyone,
This topic came to mind, because (believe it or not) I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it too. Besides, the percentage of AIDS and other STD's in my hometown is actually high, so the best way to protect myself from that risk at 100% is to not do it at all. Anyway, my friends all rag on me because I'm a virgin, but it's alright. So you guys, how have your livs change after you lost your virginity?
Dreamy-eyez,out.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

This question is kinda weird...Do you mean immediately following losing your virginity or just the act of having sex?

I know I am not a guy but if you are happy about being a virgin...More power to ya! Is your virginity by choice or by circumstance? Some people are virgins and claim to be proud of it, but every statement about sex is embittered and negative. Hope you don't fall into that category *ahem* Haffo

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

It wasn't no change really except after a while you do start having orgasms which yeah you can find that out yourself through masturbation.For a women,losing my virginity was pain and didn't enjoy it at all physically,the only reason I was doing it was because I cared about the guy I was with and that was it besides the fact that I was finally curious about having sex.We were together for a long time and that was what you were "supposed" to do when your in "love" was what I was told so that was the very reason I held out on it is because it was a stupid reason to me cause you can fall in love repeatedly and if you didn't want to do it at the time,I seen it as weak and being a follower because you weren't doing it because you really wanted to find out about it.Your not missing out on anything except orgasms induced by another person by sleeping with any random person just to do it.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Oh yeah,if it hasn't happened already some idiots will even start accusing you of being gay too,those people aren't too bright if you really think about it,what they are admitting is that everything revolves around sex to them.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

LOL YummyMummy I don't know about that...I start getting antsy after a while LOL

Tia..you don't strike me as the "follower" type but as long as you did it mostly for your own benefit, there's no harm in that. When I lost mine, my Scorp guy only had to put in two weeks of work and I was READY! I was like let's get it on! Then it took me 2-3 months to FINALLY have an orgasm so that was the only part that sucked.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I didn't have orgasms for 2-3 months too,NOW I know that it could've helped if the guy was a little better in bed too though lol and my having to figure out what I liked and stuff too.I don't like guys who expect me to do all the work either which was pretty much like the was,as far as personality I think I got more blunt is what happened I was always a prevert in the joke area about sex.😛

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Tia...

I always get the guys who do alot in bed but what they do doesn't do much for me! Like you said though...figuring out WHAT you like is what must happen first..