To Venusian Bull, Jade and Co.

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I was gonna make a whole thread here asking for help like the rant I made over on the aqua board. But then I remembered this post made by Venusian Bull in a similar thread I'd made on sympathy and depressive peeps:

"Some people just enjoy wallowing. If I may interject my own experience. My little sister has traveled a hard road, by HER own choice. She only surfaces long enough to cry that she's no place to live, bail me out, SAVE ME. I had to just stop. And I urged my parents to do the same. Time to grow up. Even though I love my sister dearly I had to come to grips with the fact that she enjoyed being miserable. All mouth and no trousers. Poor her. Life is awful, no one loves her, no one is helping her. She expected everyone to drop everything and bail her out.
You have to step outside of the emotional box and reflect on what it's doing to you. Just say 'enough now'."

The above quote is my experience at the mo, and with this aquarius knowing where the line is between stepping back from someone and cutting them off completely is pretty hard for me.

Thanks for sharing, VB.

And thank you Jade, Feisty and co. who also posted in the "..." thread I made some weeks ago.