Scorpio moon...

I only know one person with Scorpio moon and he is crazily obsessive, it's scary. He has sag/cap sun and venus in aquarius so I feel like he is somewhat aloof but that Scorpio moon overshadows it all... He is the type of person to make fake Facebook accounts to stalk someone that's blocked him, to destroy someone's car in the middle of the night, to just snap, lol. And he's so secretive. He has this vibe about him that is really heavy and like he's hiding something and is really "dark" inside. He has a lot of sag placements so I'm confused. Does anyone else have experience with a Scorpio moon/have a Scorpio moon? Also how does it affect your chart, is it prominent?

I know a scorpio moon guy who says things like "I will destroy so & so!!" & it's very interesting to watch.

I myself have a scorpio but I'm not overly obsessed with getting even. I let a lot of things slide but I make sure to remove anyone that has wronged me from my life. As for the dark aura, IDK but I always sense that other scorpio moons are very troubled individuals. There's an element of being "sick" & twisted with most of these people. Myself included lol.

Yeah I definitely feel that it's uncomfortable lol and he is verrrrrrry mistrusting and irritating and on top of that a safety/self defense nut.

And yes the sick and twisted thing is what I was trying to say. It's really funny how his old friends describe him, they say he is a "lurker" lmao but in general he is really alienated. Also, what is really weird for me is that all of his personal planets are on cusps (besides venus in aquarius 8 deg) they're all like 26-29 ?? so I'm not sure what that does/how it affects the chart but he is described as a double personality by at least one person (he doesn't have DIssociative identity disorder or anything but he appears to be a "multiple personality" or something)

I've been described that way before, Jekyll & Hyde. I'm starting to see it now because how often my mood shifts from one emotion to the next like clockwork. It's like having bipolar lol.

What's irritating to you about his behaviour? I'm trying to understand how others see it. I get the behaviour & I often don't understand why other people get annoyed.

Yeah it's exactly like that, and I understand that bipolar aspect of it myself (moon square sun and gemini ascendant) but mostly what's irritating is his secrecy, and don't get me wrong, I love a little mystery and challenge but in his case it's just ridiculous. Like yesterday we were in a store and he bought these 2 things and he was carrying around the bag and wouldn't tell me what he bought. And it was a semi transparent grocery bag & it was just some mundane item that I could care less about and could plainly see but you have to fight him tooth and nail to get him to tell you anything. That bothers me just because ,WHY, ya know?

He's not as much irritating to me because I think it's funny and I take literally nothing seriously. But he is off/on involved w my mom (cancer sun libra moon) and what really gets me is that he is sooo emotionally manipulative towards her and she just won't accept the fact that he is. If she asks him if he's seeing anyone else he won't answer, he's really sneaky and he wants her to think he is seeing someone else but in reality I know he isn't. He's aloof like this and emotionally distant in person but he's obsessive secretly... Like he calls her literally 25 times a day, he's jealous and possessive but god forbid he ever call her his girlfriend or see her regularly or give a little. He acts like a freak but will be the first one to call my mom crazy and get up & leave at the slightest conflict or talk about something of meaning (that's probably his sag placements though.)
Also frustrating is his fixed negative nature. He can't see any other aspect of anything besides his own opinion of it. Constantly mistrusting of the world and the way that it manifests itself is he collects guns, flashlights, hoards safety gear etc and stocks up obsessively on everything. Trained in self defense (like he'd ever use it) and I feel like he uses that to cover up his watery insecurities and intense feelings. I think his vibe is so negative and dark because he feels guilty about his obsessiveness about a person or his complicated feelings.

And another thing with the scorp moon is that I feel like it overpowers his other placements and makes them kinda negative, especially the sag ones. He is mostly a 'lower-order' saggitarius. But that's just him and it's pretty extreme so I don't know if any of that long thing will apply to you lmao. 🙂

WOW you just hit the nail on the head with about 99% . Aloof yet obsessed, etc. Good observation. What do you mean by "negative"? Is it what he says/does or the energy around him? Scorp mooners are almost always misunderstood imo.

And the reason he acts like he is seeing other people is to either mask his obsessive feelings towards her or to get info out of her. By getting info I mean he hopes she'll say something like "Oh I'm seeing other people, as well" or that she'll act jealous. See, some of us like when people feel as obsessively about us as we do about them. It's sexy. Scorp moon secretly wants to be someone's obsession. It's hot. Especially when it's mutual.

By his fixed negative nature I meant the way that he obsesses over negative things and won't see them any other way. By the moon placement making his other placements more negative I meant that his moon in scorpio is more of a lower order thing, like he mainly shows the negative traits of Scorpio and that inherently casts a negative shadow over everything else being as (I mean just in my opinion ) Scorpio is more strong sign, it's intense and also fixed.

In what way are lunar scorpions misunderstood? And scorp suns too, I feel like they're pretty misunderstood in general

Misunderstood like when somebody expects you to forget something they have done to you, they do it again & when you bring up other similar incidents from the past then you're being petty or this person that can't move past issues. How can I when you keep doing the same shit over & over again? The past is a great teacher & forgiving doesn't mean forgetting so don't be surprised when I remind you of other things you've done. It's impossible to start on a clean slate as if nothing ever happened when you keep repeating the past mistakes. Plus *I* was at the receiving end of your BS so don't expect what you think is a non-issue to mean the same to me. I WAS THE RECEIVER. Meaning, whatever happened probably is STILL memorable to me. So don't expect the same memory loss from me. That's where the difference lies. People assume you've forgotten & label you all kinds of things when they realise you haven't. It doesnt mean I havent moved on, I have, it just means I havent forgotten.

@virgoflirt...that's the best reply I've ever gotten on here! I think I'll ask you to sign it before I frame it. J/K but the kindness is appreciated. Thank you. Are you also a scorpio moon?

As much as I like not forgetting, there are some things which I would like not to remember because of the tendency of liking to torture myself. I swear I can taunt myself worse than a bully. I keep going to the traumatic stuff over & over again. I think it's part of healing though because with so much mental replay, all those painful memories tend to become less painful.

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And the reason he acts like he is seeing other people is to either mask his obsessive feelings towards her or to get info out of her. By getting info I mean he hopes she'll say something like "Oh I'm seeing other people, as well" or that she'll act jealous. See, some of us like when people feel as obsessively about us as we do about them. It's sexy. Scorp moon secretly wants to be someone's obsession. It's hot. Especially when it's mutual.

it must be mutual!