Sensitive passive sun sign with an 'insensitive aggressive' moon Sign

Help me!! I'm suppose to be a cute caring sweet sugar coating kind Pisces but I'm blunt and harsh sometimes to a fault like if someone smells I'll be like "what's that smell" to them. I tell people flaws in their characters all the time too. Also supposedly I'm bossy and controlling but that's not the description in my sun sign =[ I read somewhere that a sag moon's bluntness can hurt other people's feelings with out us noticing and I didn't even know until I read that, that it was possible for people to be hurt by that 😢 I don't mean any harm. It's literally just an impulse but I'd never say anything I know that were offensive like if someone were to gain weight it would bother me, I'd just have to mention it but maybe in a playful way lol (getting bigger isn't a bad thing but it's just something I want to bring up idk why) so
What's the deal here? why can't I be cute and feminine like my sun sign? Am I more Sag than Pisces? By the way my sag moon is 00 degrees whereas my sun sign degree is like around 8-16 or something like that =[ like today I was looking at my mom and I'm trying to figure out if she gained a little weight because I can't tell. I want to ask her but I love her I wouldn't want her to feel bad so I might word it differently like. "have you lost any weight from the last time you weighed yourself?" Is this bad? 😢 do I need therapy?

Everyone can benefit from a year of weekly therapy. You have posted this which means you have the two most important things needed to start this process: acknowledging that this problem exists and then willing yourself to change it or at least work on it.

I totally understand unintentionally bulldozing over others and then finding out their reaction and being hurt because it is never my intention to make someone feel badly. I'm a Leo Sun Pisces moon and a sag asc and I think sometimes when you mix fire and water you can get steam so I totally understand. But Einstein had your combo - and there's room for everyone regardless of their sign for growth and improvements.

I think the first thing to do is take inquiry of why you feel the need to tell others about their flaws. Does it make you feel better? Do you feel that you are lacking something that causes others to be easy targets? How is your self-concept? Is there something spiritual or intellectual you are withholding from your sag moon?

Next, you should ask yourself if telling them will have a benefit for them and all sensitivity levels will be okay with what you're saying. Some people are really sensitive to criticism and you should take them into account as well. Implementing a counting or deep breathing exercise is a good way to make your speech more purposeful and deliberate and less hurtful. 🙂