Virgo Moon Vent

I think too much, or so I've been told. I'll get a headache, I'm told. You know what? Not thinking = sleep. REM sleep. Wanna invite me to an event and then have me fall asleep in mid-conversation? Pack my jammies and a snuggly chair.

I've recently discovered that in trying to get someone to laugh, I'll keep digging into a potentially humorous subject, because they're not reacting and so I think they're not getting it. When in reality I'm hurting them. And coming off as an ass. And not realizing it until about 10 minutes later when they're suddenly more withdrawn and I'm sitting there wondering... aw shoot... what did I do now... So please, be blunt with me from the get-go. I'm dense. I'll adapt. Good?

I am a health nut and rather pleased with the results so far. You are invited to copy me and welcome to ignore me, but not to change me.

People who can make my mind sit still and focus on one thing at a time are a rare gem to find. Without this I feel no inspiration, no purpose.

Y'alls on this board think it's all about control... curiosity kills cats. Sure. But cats haz nine livez.

Posted by Draumstafir
I think too much, or so I've been told. I'll get a headache, I'm told. You know what? Not thinking = sleep. REM sleep. Wanna invite me to an event and then have me fall asleep in mid-conversation? Pack my jammies and a snuggly chair.

I've recently discovered that in trying to get someone to laugh, I'll keep digging into a potentially humorous subject, because they're not reacting and so I think they're not getting it. When in reality I'm hurting them. And coming off as an ass. And not realizing it until about 10 minutes later when they're suddenly more withdrawn and I'm sitting there wondering... aw shoot... what did I do now... So please, be blunt with me from the get-go. I'm dense. I'll adapt. Good?

I am a health nut and rather pleased with the results so far. You are invited to copy me and welcome to ignore me, but not to change me.

People who can make my mind sit still and focus on one thing at a time are a rare gem to find. Without this I feel no inspiration, no purpose.

Y'alls on this board think it's all about control... curiosity kills cats. Sure. But cats haz nine livez.

I can kind of relate to that. I'm really sarcastic and joke around with people I want to be friends with and they end up taking me seriously and thinking I'm a jerk. They don't know that I'm doing it in a teasing way.. My brother (he's a virgo moon too) and I make fun of eachother all the time and we know it's just jokes.. I certainly need to be more sensitive to others' feelings.

I have to agree with all of the above. I am forever finding that I am alienating people around me as a general rule. There is very once in a while that I find someone who I can actually "banter" with. It seems there simply aren't that many people out there with the mental agility to keep up.

And yes, I do tend to dwell on all sorts of things that probably don't need to be dwelt upon. An awful lot of that is I really do want to understand. Once again, there doesn't seem to be a lot of people out there who what that depth in their lives.

Posted by Draumstafir
I think too much, or so I've been told. I'll get a headache, I'm told. You know what? Not thinking = sleep. REM sleep. Wanna invite me to an event and then have me fall asleep in mid-conversation? Pack my jammies and a snuggly chair.

Yeah, same here. Except for the fact that I'm a Gemini Mooner and I just can't stop talking, lol! I always have to take my cell phone with me or to stop some people, strangers or not, just to have some conversation! I feel really nurtured when I read, write or talk about something. Or engaging in tech activities like electronics.

My girlfriend has this Moon and I've always been thinking that Virgo is the introverted version of Gemini, lol! Our Moons form a square, but it's not a big deal - we share many similar intellectual pursuits. The problem is when she takes her "Hermit Stance" mode when I want to talk to her the most, but I can understand that since I also have Mercury in Virgo.

Sometimes it's too funny actually, because she criticizes me with the typical "You talk too much!" and I can't help myself but laughing a lot and then responding with "But, my dear, you need to have mental activity in order to enhance your intellectual capacity!", but I guess I can be one annoying walkie-talkie with waving his hands in the air energetically when we are having a conversation, lol.

Anyway, I like her and I think we share many things in common. I can say the same for you, guys. Well, except for me being a social butterfly, but I'm not picky.

I was once told I think too much also! I replied with something like "we'll at least I'm thinking instead of being a idiot with no brain!"

And the reply to my comment was "yeah but you think about things way too much, then you start to think about what you are thinking about but in more detail"

Hahaha and i just shrugged it off thinking this guy was stupid but (a few years later) I realise Virgo moons sure do use our minds.... A lot!!


Like... I need to meditate and try to think of blue oceans just to calm my over worked brain..

But I wouldn't change it for any moon.. I like being healthy and I appreciate my little obsessions I have that motivate me to constantly be improving my daily tasks and routines. I also go through stages of obsessive compulsive acts of having painted nails, clean teeth, and ohhhhh do I have a million to do lists!!!!!! Then I start to write lists to organise my to do lists and then I start to be overwhelmed with shit and .... Well I'll stop ranting !!

I don't know if this is Virgo moon with cancer sun, but I loveeeeee making people smile. I love doing nice things for people, just because it could make their day that much brighter. Self satisfaction from random acts of kindness and helping people improve themselves. I probably get a bit carried away though 🙂


Go the Virgo moons!!!!

I am a Libra with a Virgo moon and I'm not the biggest fan..I feel constantly misunderstood and I never read a description of a Virgo moon that I like, I mean have y'all? Even with my sun description, its like the writer puts in subtle jabs. I do over think things but what I hate most is when I try to share I have no one that gets it..to me, it feels I'm isolating people by being myself and I have to be someone I'm not (iow. Dumb myself down or be someone I'm not to relate to others). That is what feels isolating.

Awww can I give all of you a hug? 🙂

I wonder if it's hard to talk for any of you? It's certainly a struggle to articulate my thoughts on this board, even.

I wonder if when you meet someone you really clique with, and they start telling you all their problems and talk about themselves, do you suddenly freeze up? Do you find yourself begining to respond with shorter answers because you really don't know what else to say? Like you made a new friend but now you're feeling overwhelmed and need to take a step back and process things? I do.

And I wonder if when you let yourself plan things out in such detail, envisioning it over and over in your head, if when it finally happens- you freeze up and the stress affects your stomach like you're going to puke?

I did extensive research (go figure) on why my stomach would be affected when I'm stressed and I can't digest food. I found that it's called Psychosomatic Stress Disorder (the disorder part isn't necessarilly clinical).

And you know, after having said all this, I'd rather have just been mute about this whole post.

Posted by lualibra
Got cut off.


Wow. This is all me. To a T.
People just don't get that when I like you I am playfully mean and sarcastic and it's my way of relating to you. If you can keep up with me on that mental and banter with me and shut me up, then you've won me as a friend. But I guess that's not the norm? I end up isolating myself and people think i'm a really negative bitch.

I've pondered changing that and either not cracking any jokes and just being strictly professional from now on, or settling for only the type of "nice" humor like corny dad jokes or showing my friends sloth memes. *sigh*


I'm a libra moon though. I guess the libra moon wants to banter, but the sun conjunct mars wants the banter to be mean and acidic

Lol at corny dad jokes.

It's funny, I'm a Virgo moon and I'm talking to a guy who also has a Virgo moon and you would think I'd know when he was joking...but I take him seriously too! Lol, and I do think too much as well..waaay too much. My brain never shuts off, I wonder sometimes if my friend is the same way. We both have earth suns as well, he's a Capricorn and I'm a Taurus, so we're both slow, health fanatic over thinkers haha..Well he'll never let on that he over analyzes things, but I know he does too lol