2012 Friendlessness

I thought with Neptune coming home, 2012 was going to be good for Pisces, but since January, two friends have completely ditched me because they each found someone to date and two other friends (married to each other) treated me like complete sh*t on a trip to Vegas. They went to bed at 9 pm every night and slipped notes under my door to cancel plans we'd made, instead of knocking on my door and telling me face to face.
So far 2012 seems like one huge HURTFEST. I read somewhere that with Neptune our sensitivities will come to the surface but sheeeit I don't want to be a freaking mess. I'm bawling my eyes out missing my true friends back home and wondering if I should just move back to the city from whence I came 2.5 years ago.

Is anyone else feeling disappointments from friends in 2012? It's kind of shocking me because I used to have a super full social life.

Yeah, Im still waiting for some positive changes in my life. Tired of being on the back burner.

You have to roll with the punches. Neptune coming into its own sign ok, that's great...but the changes have to come from us, not from the planetary influence itself. It can only open up your potential and create a different consciousness but the amazing changes have to come from you.

Understand what you can do to change your situation. Maybe those friends aren't in your life for a good reason, or there is something you need to learn from this situation before you move on to a new understanding of yourself and your relationships.

Don't be downhearted. Use your intuition to help guide you and improve your friendships. No moping! Lol. Think positively and you'll attract positive things your way.

One of my close friends has been funny with me since early this month-I put it down to other people noticing a change in me and her feeling threatened by that cos I'll tell you what, I'm changing into more of myself right now. Some of my friends are lapping it up and they're like genuinely happy for me. Others haven't felt that way but for me I can only bring the people around me to a new way of thinking and anyone who rejects or resents that can stay there being unhappy; I don't want that for my life.

It's the start of a beautiful journey. Mourn your friendships, sure. Try to see what part you played in things going wrong. We no longer get the luxury of martyrdom, with Neptune up our butts forcing us to see ourselves. You were being oversensitive about the cancelling plans things. Whether they knock your door or shove notes under it, they're still cancelling on you and that's what you could have addressed. Sometimes we create our own sadness and now is a great time to change that!

Wish you well

Gotta say, my experience differs. Since the beginning of February, I've gotten more invitations to things than at any point in the past couple of years...seriously. I've been trying to keep up with my friends and their invites, in spite of my general early-to-bed inclination. It seems like the world keeps asking me to come out and play or something, lol.

*fist bumping* Atta girl.

+1 @nimbue

Well 2012 sucks so far...but Neptune will be home for 12 years, right? Correct me if I'm wrong. He's influence won't be effective immediately with all merfolk. Some it will be and some will take time. Me I feel stronger emotionally, I feel more grounded and my emotions aren't controlling me. I feel more mystic, like my third eye is starting to open and I'm seeing things more clearly. Things that would of destroyed me before I'm looking at it analytically and not curling up into the fetal position and hibernating in my dream cave. I feel more alive, more powerful.

I started to realize that I don't need anything or anyone but myself to make me feel happy and fulfilled. That's amazing. Sure it would be nice to find the one but that doesn't have to be now. Love is starting to take the backburner and I'm taking the front stage. I'll tell you it's so nice and refreshing. I feel like a harness the power of the sun within my chest at times.


@elusive: I'm sorry luv! But you're right the mayter shite has to come to an end. You must come first. Pisces as a whole keeps forgetting we are people too who have value it's not all about other people. It's your time to shine for sure. No more mudfish time it's rainbow fish time. lol

IT'S OUR TIME MERFOLK! Raise up and STOP the maryterdom!!! Be who we are!!! If the like it grand if not they can kiss our right fin!

thanks everyone - I feel better today. I came to the realization that if I met someone juicy in my life, I'd get lost in the bliss of it all, and likely forget my friends momentarily too !! I am being overly sensitive and 'poor me' and am going to put a stop to that at ONCE. And in the words of the great Bilbo Baggins ... I think I'm quite ready for another adventure lol. I can be quite lazy when it comes to building new and maintaining friendships. People usually always call me and ask me out and when that stops momentarily, I feel abandoned BUT ... the reality is I have to get off my lazy arse and initiate some social times. So in the spirit of taking responsibility, tonight I asked my rommates and a new love interest to come out to a club and we're all going. Sometimes I forget how truly lazy I am, I'm ashamed to say. But it is a Pisces trait and I'll have to work on that. tee hee

Well said Nimbue.

I'm not necessarily feeling positive change and these past couple weeks have been harsh as hell HOWEVER I feel like I'm being forced to face all my inner demons and learn once and for all to LET GO so that I can finally be at peace with myself (eh I'm my own worst enemy at times) and be ready to identify and embrace all the positive opportunities and experiences to come.

I feel confused and lost at times but I feel that's a good thing (although hard) because it's making me really stop and think about what I'm doing and whether I'm on the right path for ME.

I think (personally) because of what I've read on a lot of astrology sites that the perception has been for some Pisces that everything is just going to be shit hot fantastic from now on and that everything in our lives should just instantly become amazing and we're all going to feel great and on top of the world.

It's only the start as tbird said.

Posted by winterwrought
Opinion thus far of 2012:



That is all.

Oh no lol

Hang in there 🙂

Eeyore, good for you!!! That's so cool 🙂

Posted by winterwrought
Opinion thus far of 2012:



That is all.

bahahahahah! *ahem* I will have to say...Fuc*ing A!!

I lost one of my good friends in January. Not as in dead, but as in I have this new realationship and nothing else matters. Does it hurt, yup. BUT such is life. I feel fantastic, I'm doing all the things that I enjoy, I go out more and I keep in touch with my friends more so than I ever have. For once I'm actually "happy" and not just content. I dont expect the changes with Neptune to make my life a vase of roses but I do expect a level of fortitude I've never had before.

I read last night that 2012 will be challenging regarding frienships, we may lose some and gain some. Thats fine, but what sucks is losing a frienship due to an outside force.