Active or receptive

So, Pisces...in love relationships, do you come on like gangbusters or are you more the type to sit back and wait for the other person to come to you? Does it switch over time in a relationship (back and forth) or do you tend to keep that same dynamic throughout?

I'm definitely the receptive type. Only if I'm feeling really secure will I become even a little aggressive.

Ha - I have Venus in Aries, too, I think! Love...in the war sign! Makes for a really crazy love life. Yep, it does get interesting when you're both feeling the same vibes and they aren't positive ones.

I have Venus in Aries and tend not to be aggressive, though. Well, at first, with untried and untested relationships, then yes, I do pursue - sometimes too much. But within a longer thing, I'm super passive, old fashioned, want to be courted and have the guy do the pursuing. When eventually secure in the r'ship though, then things even-out and it's 50/50. That takes awhile.

Do you change or always stay in action mode?

My Venus is in Aries, too .. my aggression comes out moreso with the action of sex, rather than the "chase" thing. Once I'm with a partner and feel comfortable .. that's where I'm forward. A lot of women will just lay back submissively .. I'm very dominate in bed and want to be on top, in control.

However, I don't usually chase anyone .. I wouldn't come on to someone even if I "felt" the vibe .. normally, it's just lusting from a distance .. and most times, if someone else does make a gesture or a come-on .. I ignore and don't respond. If they are good looking though, or if there is chemistry .. I'll defo fantasy about that person.

P-Angel, have you ever gone back and forth, like with a longterm where you don't feel comfortable, you find yourself running rather than pursuing...

By the way, I'm dominant in bed, also, with the right partner. But with someone lukewarm about whom I'm not absolutely certain, those things get sublimated until I'm safe.

I don't "come on" either -- only once have I ever asked a guy out and that was in the past year. I just hang around and flirt...then see what happens from there.

You think that maybe this revolves around Pisces getting vibes on people and doing everything by feeling?

Miss,

It depends. I could go both ways.

"have you ever gone back and forth, like with a longterm where you don't feel comfortable, you find yourself running rather than pursuing"

Yeah, but not back and forth .. for instance, in my relationship now, I'm backing off. Running, becoming cold and frigid .. but, it's not going to go back to the other way.

When I was single .. I didn't pursue, unless it was for just sex. If I wanted to screw somebody, just hook up for the night, I would definitely be in hot pursuit for him/her. If it was a situation where I really liked the person, I wouldn't be forward and would wait and be more receptive to his/her moves.

So, with me, it depends on intentions as to why I want to be with this person. But, in both cases .. sexually, I'm the initiator. If I want the person, I will definitely make sexual contact first.

When I was single .. I didn't pursue, unless it was for just sex. If I wanted to screw somebody, just hook up for the night, I would definitely be in hot pursuit for him/her. If it was a situation where I really liked the person, I wouldn't be forward and would wait and be more receptive to his/her moves.

Sounds about right! When you did pursue for the just sex stuff, did the guy ever get bewildered, like "Why don't you want to date me?" That happened a lot when I was young. Hee. I always said a relationship has a beginning, middle and end while sex is just coming in at the middle and you can't build from there.