Am i doomed because i'm a pisces male — —

I'm new to this site.
But i'm not new to astrology.

I'm a Pisces (feb. 26) Cancer rising sign.

My take on astrology is that about 40% of it is accurate.

Most of the things i read about being a pisces male says that :
#1. I'm likely to be broke for the rest of my life unless i inherit some loot.
#2. I'm never satisfied with my life
#3. No matter how much i struggle, the dreams i have for my future won't happen.


and shit like that.


Of course, that really hurts.

I don't feel like I'm a lazy dreamer.

I'm one of the only people in my entire family to earn a bachelor's degree.
I've managed a poetry night for five years, i'm currently managing a record label and writing for newspaper etc etc.
I feel i've accomplished some things...but i want sooo much more.

But unfortunately, some of the bad stuff does appply to me:

I'm 28 and i've been trying to make in the music industry for what feels like an eternity.... it hurts that i'm growing older and it's not happening.
It's my only passion.

I do have a poor credit rating, stacks of unpaid bills, and i've never been able to keep a job more than a year or so.

I do feel like i don't fit in most of the time.
My intuition is usually correct, but most folks would rather make fun of
me than actually listen to me. Yet, i find myself listening to everyones drama.


In love ---- yo, honestly i was hurt so bad by my last relationship...
i just don't trust females.

She was a Cancer.

I thought about wanting to marry my perfect Cancer woman... two weeks later i met my perfect Cancer woman...but, it didn't work out.

I think i'm gonna marry a Cancer girl or Scorpio (naturally, right?)
but I also am starting to notice the intelligence and loyalty of
Aquarius females.

But, can't marry anyone if i don't have any loot, i'm unfulfilled and i can't find it in me to trust women.



Is it all in my head —?

I'd appreciate as much dialogue and insight as possible.


peace.

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Thats all you need! You are motivated so go for it. Now that u know there will be some ugly sides to your nature - you can avoid them

There are plenty of successful Pisces out there!! Don't believe allot of what you read about pisces.

Pisces Leo or any other sign..it doesnt matter which one. Your sign does not dictate your life. You do. But it all starts with your belief and faith. I wonder do you think more about what your missing than what you have? You need to start changing your thought patterns. Visualize what you want. Your into music ..why not write a song about finding the woman of your dreams or about how you made it in the music industry. I know what its like to be hurt in love. Have you forgiven this woman? In order to move on you need to forgive her and only maintain loving thoughts about her. Then you will be able to trust your next partner.

Oh my goodness!

No you will not be doomed ... just learn some self control and you should be fine 😉

LOL, I'm controling my materialistic side -- most caps love money but I don't. I need it, but i wish I didn't 😢 ... but that's because of my Aqua influence 😛

Are you doomed?

1) You're Pisces

2) You're male

one more strike and you're out.

Okay, YOU ALL HELPED me alot (except for that last one...im one strike away??)


Word is bond, astrology really does mean to me what it says in the pisces part of this website...it helps me understand myself.

I appreciate your words of wisdom.... ya'll are right.

It's about faith, forgiveness and i have to let her go in order to trust my next partner.


I feel that.

When it comes to being a pisces tho... i love my good traits.

I am living proof that alot of the good things about pisces ARE TRUE.

I AM a hopeless romantic.
I AM the constant shoulder for everyone near me to cry on.
I AM very hard to fool.
Yet, i'm sometimes too susceptible to suggestion and external validation.
and so on and so on...

So my mind reasons, if all that shit is accurate....

what about the part of Pisces profile that talks about the financial hardship —

Like you Cappy, i've NEVER met a non-materialistic Cap girl.

But you've turned the tide.

With me.... i wanna be wealthy.

Business and venture capitalist ideals are as much a part of me as music.

But if the thing says pisces are usually broke, i guess it just hurts me when i constantly read that. You know ??

the family, the wife, the life i want deep down inside wont mean much if i can't support myself.

I'm a pisces too, and I'm a writer. The thing I've noticed about other pisces is that they NEVER have a day job while they pursue their creative dreams. This is a big mistake. Yes, I know it sucks (I've had a full-time day job for 13 years and I write in my spare time), but it's reality. We hate reality. We don't want to face it. But if you want to pay those bills and be able to have the life that you want, you're going to have to suck it up and work for the man, while pursuing your dream in your off time. Try to find one at a firm that does something creative so it won't suck the life right out of you, (for instance, I edit catalogs at my day job. Hardly exciting, but it's still writing none-the-less). The arts are competitive, difficult to break into and only a handful actually make it. I'm not saying you won't be one of them, but it's silly to starve yourself and not be able to have the life you want in the meantime. You don't want to look back and see this as wasted time.

Welcome Merc Ris,

I agree with Sea Siren. Sometimes you have to take a steady paying gig, and get down the real business of the day and do your art on the side. Being a musician and being creative is a worthwhile endeavor, but artists all have a bottom line. Many artists get taken advantage of because they've overlooked the financial essentials.

Do you have a mentor? Someone who can guide and offer their business and musical expertise? Write yourself out a plan; make a list what you want to do, achieve etc. I promise you, once you starting checking things off your list, you'll start to feel a sense of accomplishment. You can do it!

Oh, the largest number of self-made millions are Pisces.

I think this is, by far one of the best topics us Pisces girls ang guys have had.We're identifying,acknowledging and accepting our good and bad traits.Its like we have a support group going here lol.

What Sea Siren was talking about, is DEAD on, what I'm going through now.

I'm a male pisces, been visiting reality morea nd more often of lately, and its not getting to me, as long as I take it in small doses,Online banking has helped me deal with the mundane and day to day activities of "reality"

P.S, I would appreciate, if only PISCES comment, cause no other sign, will be able to understand, how we view and feel life.

"been visiting reality more and more often of lately, and its not getting to me, as long as I take it in small doses" - I'm with you.

Your sign plays a big role in who you are. what you do with the information about your sign is learn from it - If it says you have problems with drink, depression and are always broke and you can see that it is true of your nature then try & change those aspects of yourself if you don't like them.

Don't know where Honeycoe, came from, but I'm loving this girl, more and more with each comment she leaves =) lol - So diplomatic =)

As for "Onefineaquarius"....clearly, everybody born duner the same sign, not going to exude the same traits.I you were such an avid student of satrology you would clearly know, how important the other planets affect the individuals.THATS why 1 million pisces, can appraoch life completely different, from everybody else.

Souly because, of their Venus (how they appraoch love), Mercury (their mentality), and of course Moon (their feelings)

"OneFineAquarius",If your going to argue with me about astrology, and life, and whats your purpose, you need to bring your "A" game.

This topic has strayed too much from what its original post.Anybody, who reads my message from here on, needs to just comment on "MercuryRising"'s feelings, and continue to provide POSITIVE feedback, encourage him, or whatever PISCES related experiences

WOW !!!!!!!!!!!

i MEAN FRIGGIN WOW !!!!!!!!!

I am VERY VERY grateful that ya'll have embraced me like this and wanna help me.

Ya'll don't understand.... my friends, they don't down astrology...but they
aren't the type i can go to and talk to like this.

I've been embraced more in one day on this message board more than...yo -
PLEASE everyone...accept my heartfelt gratitude. Seriously speaking, thank you all.

Honeycoe and evo fish --- the two of you have brought me a great deal of peace with your comments. words can't express.

One fine aquarius..... I have 2 aunts that are aquarius. And one of the singers i produce/manage is an aquarius... I MUST say that of all the signs i have not seen anyone so UNwilling to admit a mistake. But it's okay, i know you mean well.


OKAY.... I did mope around a little after reading what this and other sites had to say about Pisces. And ESPECIALLY when i read how Pisces MEN will likely ruin a marriage because we are too dreamy to pay bills, and we're too altruistic to be the kind of MACHO man that women these days demand.

All in all --- there's a lot of inadequate feelings i've always had.

About myself as a man, as a provider, and so on.

GETTING INTO ASTROLOGY .... at first, JUST MADE IT WORSE.


I had my chart done at a very trusted site: astro.com

That's how i know my rising is in Cancer, my moon is in Libra.
((((((my dad's sun sign is my sun sign, and my mom's sun sign is my moon))))


Saturn is in my 2nd house, and they say that's the worse aspect in terms of money.

Why was i cursed with this intense desire to be WEALTHY (responsibly wealthy)
if it was damn near impossible for me at birth ??


I KNOW that being a pisces means i have certain things i need to concentrate on.

I just dont wanna struggle in vain and still not get where i wanna be.

That WILL make me feel lazy like "why try?"

But even when i get down, something in my rises up and tries again but still i don't get where i wanna be.



AYO -- THAT LITTLE fact about how most self made millionaires are PISCES !!

That really, REALLY boosted my spirits.




I just want my Pisces nature to WORK FOR ME, and not against me.

"No you will not be doomed ... just learn some self control and you should be fine "

Agreed. We all face adveristy, sometimes, you just have to dig your heels in when thigns get tough - the thing is a lot of Pisceans lack the inate ability to do that.

But it can be developed.

Mercury Rising,
You want to know something? You're not doomed because you're a Pisces. Pisceans are known to have the most magnetic personalities that magnetize people when they aren't even trying. You said that you're in the music industry or trying to be. You know something? You're just not meeting the right people. Be careful though, because Pisceans can draw in the good with the bad. Some people can do you good and some people are just toxic for your well being. You just need to learn how to channel that sensitivity. You're not doomed, you just haven't mastered you Piscean ways yet.

Message posted by: Mercury Rising on 8/11/2006 3:47:36 PM

Okay, YOU ALL HELPED me alot (except for that last one...im one strike away??)


That was a joke, MR. Pisces tend to see the gloom and negative aspects . . woe is me, kind of stuff. We pity ourselves and think, "what's the point in continuing". If you listen, you'll hear that self-pity stuff in here a lot.

It was satirically slanted humor. I don't expect you to get me, most Pisces don't because they are too emotional and their feelings get hurt way toooooo easy.

I know, humor is something that is beyond the fish, most of the time.

Meaning, this for example:

Am I doomed because I'm a Pisces, you ask. Just that question in itself, suggests that a typical Pisces would only see fire and brimestone.

Am I doomed? lol

Then you say, "Of course, that really hurts."

Hurts ——?? See, that's my point. A Pisces would get hurt over things that they read (knowing it's only about 40% accurate, like you stated) about themselves, when the only person who knows about yourself is YOU . . . lol. Not some astrologers perdiction who probably isn't even a Pisces.

But, what will the fish do? Take it to heart and be hurt by it . . so, my first post was just me laughing because, as usual, here's another Pisces being over-sensitive to stupid stuff that doesn't even matter.

I see your point.

Yeah, i do take things too seriously at times.

You're a pisces too....how did you overcome that ??

I have a great sense of humor.

But i just.... i dunno......

I REALLY WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL.

It's like everything is under scrutiny cuz i need to weed out all that may stop that.

Mercury rising.. im not all that wise *Blushes* but thanx for the compliment.. ur sweet 🙂

OFCOURSE, ur not doomed coz ur a pisces... i know tons of successful pisces who even put the most accomplished men to shame coz of their success and mind blowing accompliments 🙂... so dont just believe what astrology says... You are the master of your own destiny and nothing can stop you from reaching your goals EXCEPT YOU YOURSELF.... theres nothing like 'I CANT' and hey your a mutual sign which makes you adaptable, flexible and versatile.... thats cool coz u can adapt to new of different situations...U have the power within you to accomplish ANYTHING regardless of what sign you are....

What can just one man do— CHANGE the HISTORY of the world....theres a peom that keeps me going coz it contains a powerful message and i'd like to share it with ya...

Stick to your task , till it sticks to you
for beginers are many but enders are few
power, honor, place and praise
will come in time to the one that stays
Stick to your task till it sticks to you
bend at it, sweat at it and smile at it too
for out of the bend and the sweat and the smile
will come life's victories after a while...




People think pisces are weak.... soooooo not true... im amazed how STONG they can be... stronger than any other sign.... All the best in all that you do... dont ever listen to what others or astroloy says... I love that awesome Nike LINE:

All your life you are told the things YOU CANNOT do. All your life they will say you're not good enough or strong enough or talented enough, they'll say you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or be this or achieve this. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no until all the no's become meaningless. All your life they will tell you no, quite firmly and very quickly. They will tell you no. And YOU WILL TELL THEM YES.

"You're a pisces too....how did you overcome that ??"

Applying awareness to my everyday life. People will say, "Yeah, I know, I know . . you don't have to tell me." Then, turn around and do the exact same thing. So, knowing something doesn't mean anything, if you do it again, and again, does it?

I'm aware that because I am Pisces, that it's in my nature to be over-senitive. So, if something happens, someone says something to me . . I might respond, or react . . but, the first thing I do is say to myself, "This isn't personal." So, for the most part, I can stay objective and not let things bother me.

Also, I've learned to seperate my personal feelings from my logical mind. Just because you know something, doesn't mean you have to feel it. YOu know what I mean? That helps. ONce you know that you can think and function, without becoming emotional everytime someone looks in your direction . . life becomes amazing. Pisces have a hightened intuition, as you know, so once you master seperating your feelings from your brain . . you can conquer anything because you have an edge on everyone else. You have your wisdom and your psyche . . without damaging your feelings.

i'm unfulfilled and i can't find it in me to trust women.

thats normal... It hard to trust people and its wisdom NOT to trust any and everyone 🙂



Is it all in my head —?

YA 🙂

NO... i mean trust WOMEN.

That pisces emotional state.. you know... most girls prey on that.


Why were men this day and age raised to think that women were these emotional, sensitive creatures who would nurture us and all that shyt—?

SUCH IS NOT the case.

I guess that was part of my "doom and gloom" fear too.

I've been single for two years.

No dates, no nothing.

My last ex was so cold and unfeeling, i just ... i just don't know if there are any women who won't make fun of a sensitive man.

TRUST ME -- i'm no wimpering simpleton or some shyt.

I don't cry on command.

I am just open with females.

If i love you -- i say " I love you".

If you hurt my feelings, i say "hey, you hurt my feelings"

I PREFER to talk things out...

but EVERY SINGLE FEMALE I'VE EVER BEEN INVOLVED WITH.... prefers to yell and fuss.

My talking and need for closure just angers them

and they say i'm too sensitive or not man enough.



So...it's like, it would be cool if a girl appreciated that pisces side of me
that embraces what i feel.

But females want guys to be ... i dunno, 50 Cent or some shyt.

They want us to be robocop.

I shouldn't be made out to be less of a man.

But females miss the fact that it TAKES a strong person to deal with emotions.

yeah baby all pisceans are doomed

See what I mean about a sense of humor lacking in most Pisces?

lol

Just let things roll off. Taking everything to heart is the damnation of the Pisces, for through the tormented emotions we create within ourselves because we believe that everything every person says is directed straight toward us . . . will lead you to doom.

That is what is meant by all the stuff you read. We are doomed within our own tortured souls . . . if we allow ourselves to be sensitive to things that does not belong to our own personal world. Just as it's said about energy . . . we create our own doomed energy with this inner struggle.

Are you doomed? Are you Pisces? Do you take on the feelings of people who aren't you?

Then, yes, you are doomed.

Pardon me honeycoe . . did I speak your name? What would make a person think that another was talking to them, eventhough they weren't looking in that direction?

Curious . . . .

. . . now that I think about it, though, that does kind of reiterate my whole point, doesn't it?

If we allow ourselves to be sensitive to things that does not belong to our own personal world, then, yes we are doomed.

Look at the energy that is type of over-sensitizing evokes in the above post of someone who took something on personally that didn't belong to them.

Doomed? MR, that's up to you.

... um, ok.


Well..... nice weather we're having huh ?

Actually, if you go back and read the posts, you'll see I was talking to MR, who wasn't getting upset, by the way. Honey came in and started being confrontational. For the most part, people where blinders and can only see what they want to see. Once an opinion is made, it's hard for the Pisces to see past that.

If you'll notice, the person I was talking to wasn't offended . . so, who the hell is Honey? Wasn't even talking to her . . so, think twice before you say something like,
"I think P-Angel strives to be confrontational many times. Doncha P?"


Pisces create their own doomed energy by taking things personally.

If that seems confrontational because another Pisces who has absolutely nothing to do with the personal conversation between MR and me wants to get upset, then so be it, call it whatever you want. It only reinforces what I was trying to tell him.

Funny how a Pisces will generate negative energy, such as the hatefulness pouring out of honey's mouth, then call it positive.
Yet, for me, I speak the truth from a logical standpoint and it's called negative. Does that not seem backwards?

Pisces are doomed most of the time, and, I was explaining to MR why that is. If you don't like it, that's too bad . .

Anybody and all people in here who know my character . . knows that if I have something to say to you . . I'm direct.

I speak your name in my post . . . point it directly at you, starting the post with your name on the top, so you'll know who I'm talking to . . .

Funny, I can talk to anybody in here, for the most part: Aqua's, Gems, Cancer's, Virgo's, Scorps, most everybody. There are a few, like ALV, but, I have a row with most of the time. But, in majority . . all of the other signs understand that I'm just logical and have to find a reason why everything happens, and so I question the motives and intentions, to find the answer as to why.

. . . only the Pisces gets upset . . ONLY the Pisces, every one of you . . well, Haffo knows not to take things personally, and now MR. So, every one, except two.

What does that mean? Why is it that everyone else can realize my intentions, but, the Pisces can't . . they can only comprehend that their feelings get hurt. Does that not confirm what I've been saying on this thread?

Pisces let their feelings get in the way, that's why they struggle in relationships, career, within their families . . . because they CHOOSE to feel everything, and not use their logical and rational brain. Then, when someone hurts them, which will definitely happen because they take offense to EVERYTHING . . they come back and cry because their little feelings were hurt. Thats' my whole point.

Pisces create their own torment, their own doom . . by taking everything personally and being hurt by it.

lol, see what I mean?

To find a sense of belonging to this world . . the fish has to learn to toss aside what doesn't belong to them and only carry what is theirs.

It's a Piscean curse. Don't feel bad, honey . . all Pisces have to learn to grow from this position . . it takes time.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnddddd on THAT note... i'd like to welcome our next guest:



MEL GIBSON, everybody !!!!!

(((( applause )))))

then everyone starts laughing.


then all the pisces get over it.

then all the honeycoes get hugs from all the mecurys in the hopes of soothing nerves and showing appreciation for all the support.


WHY AM I TALKING LIKE THIS ??/

Okay , being funny - but HELL...i've been speechless about this thread for days.


P- Angel's POINT : Entertaining the thought of being doomed, is dooming in itself.

Honeycoe's POINT : P-Angel's comments sometime seem to trivialize the issue
at hand.

MERCURY'S MOTHA EFFIN POINT 😉 : --- P-Angel's OWN piscean traits
and her age have taught her to
detach herself from the emotional
roller coaster that Pisces lives on.
But .... at a cost.
Because it alienates her from her Pisces people
who are very emotional, yet grounded enough to
notice her subliminal distaste for the weakness
Pisceans sometimes demonstrate, which in essence
is the SAME weakness that has created her brashness.




WOW ---- i'm good.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:

I could say F the astrology shit but then again what am I doing here so I must believe some aspects of it. My man believe in yourself,trust God and self and no one else. If you're born under this astrological sign you usually don't give a shit what anyone else thinks about you anyway you're going to do what you want, your way. Therein lies the strength of Pisceans just do it F the dark cloud that may or may not be perpetually over your head.

Well there is a lot more to your chart than just your sun sign....also don't get too caught up in this sign business anyway. There is definitely something to be said about astrology...but if anything, use it to look for things about you (and take and HONEST look) that may be working against you, then work to try to CHANGE those things and balance them out. You'll never not be you, but you can definitely be aware of your shortcomings and not settle for them lock, stock and key.

I see so many people who are actually proud of their signs shortcomings.....OR use the fact that they are a (fill in the blank) as some lame excuse as to why they (fill in the blank). That's bull. Use what you know about your personality as road map....game plan AROUND those things that aren't working for you and try to surround yourself with people from the other signs who have good traits in those areas that you can learn from.

As a cancer, I think pisces are the GREATEST by the way (along with Scorpio, of course)

Thank you last few peeps for posting some POSITIVE energy on here.

Offering your wisdom, that's what i needed when i started this.

But it turned very ugly for a moment yo.

Thanks again.

yeah sometimes these threads can be like a runaway train off a mountain....you start off talking about the beach and before you know it Bosnia is the main subject...its like that game we all played in junior high when you start and story and pass it around the room....everybody adding their 2 cents has a way of taking things waaaay off topic...and it can be irritated when you're the one who STARTED the discussion and some clown comes in and changes the subject and like 50 other people run with it! lol...