Aquarius male and Pisces female starting out advi

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Let me start by saying that astrology is something fun like reading a tabloid and I take the horoscopes with a grain of salt. However I have found that many of the traits of each sign seen accurate over all.

I'm a Aquarius male and I have been friends with a Pisces female for many years. She in the last 5years or so has been engaged twice and I've been very happy for her and sad when she discovered a secret family or change of heart. Over the years she has sent me subtle hints that she liked me (I've come to realize that now. But more in that later)

Recently she blatantly came out and told me she has had feelings for me for a while. However she never acted out on them due to fear that I didn't feel the same way and told me about all the hints she has dropped. Whoops !!! ( I've also felt the same way however she has been to my knowledge in relationships at the time)

Her relationship have to me seemed to me to be fixer uppers but as long as she was happy it was fine.

Currently due to attending universities across state lines we have been talking online and reconnecting. I came out and asked her if her feelings have changed or remain the same now that she is more or less over the loss of the relationship and she told me they won't change.

By now I used to semi long periods with no communication from here but we always are able to pick up where we left off they usually last about 3-4 weeks followed by a week of nonstop communications.

My question (thanks for reading this far) is how to I naturally progress from being a good friend to a boyfriend. We will be seeing each other over the holidays and summer at least until graduation 2 years from now.

Usually she is very open with me about her success and failures. But I feel like I'm not getting the whole picture. Like something is still bring left unsaid or the degree of her emotions is being toned down for me. (I'm not too good in dealing with sadness or negative emotions in general since I usually try to keep an upbeat attitude)

Any sage advice on what I should do to be the person she wants and needs me to be?
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Hi! I am a pisces girl ... I think every person is different independent of their horoscope sign. But I will tell you the things that I like in a man, hoping it will help you:

- First of all I like consistency and stability. This doesn't mean that I need my man to be there 24/7, NOT AT ALL. But, I do need to know that I can count on him and that I have a secure shoulder to lean on.

- I also need someone who understands my need to withdraw once in a while, and to be ok with it. Being around people all the time depletes my energy and once in a while a need some alone time to re-energize. So, I need a man who is willing to give me my space.

- I want someone who is interested in the things I have to say, someone who shows respect for me and I love when a guy remembers the things I have told him, even if it was a looong time ago. It shows that they are interested and that they care.

- Rather than words, I prefer actions. It is of no use if you tell me that you like me, but your actions contradict your words. So make sure to be coherent. (*This is very important for me)

- Also I hate stupid people, I have cero tolerance for them... So I need an intelligent person, someone that challenges me and makes me want to improve myself. I want a guy with ambitions, with dreams and that is working hard to accomplish them.

-Also, we pisces can be very moody and tend to get very nostalgic and sad. I usually hide this & don't really tell people about this feelings. But I do need an upbeat lover next to me, someone who is the contrary to me, someone that helps me see the good side of things.

Sorry for the long post, just show her that you are in for the long run with her & don't get over emotional with your declarations of love, just be there fo her, she will appreciate you for it. Oh, and never ever cheat on her or try to make her jealous that is big no-no. 🙂