Pisceans tend to enter into the "master and slave" relationship, and they themselves very often act as "servant". Their desire is to be under the power of a strong-willed personality which would dominate them in a manner of almost a military strictness in all spheres of life.
Here is one especially interesting example: a smart woman with a strong inclination for social activities writes novels. And she confesses that she simply cannot write unless she is dating a tough and wicked man who is her social and intellectual inferior, and this man is to control every single steps she makes. The Piesces-born woman says that only this sort of an abnormal relationship makes her collect her thoughts, calm down, and start typing to prove her skills. This type of a tough man must be beside her all the time in case she feels lonely (which is her greatest fear). It seems like this manly superiority makes her think that she is desired. She confesses that her friends have been always criticizing her, but she has never tried to change this image of hers saying that this weird kind of love allows her to work better, and it means so much to her. But once the woman said with a smile: "It's strange but we often have a shift of parts when I become the master and he - the slave, because my rather successful career allows me to control the budget. In fact, he is weak in all respects but once I feel that he starts to realize it, I buy him lots of expensive things or take him to a long vacation to Europe - but only in case I'm not writing anything at the time".
1. Their desire is to be under the power of a strong-willed personality which would dominate them in a manner of almost a military strictness in all spheres of life.
- half is true .. a man with a strong-willed personality is desirable, but, NOT being dominated by him. The desire is for this strongness to come out with him being determined and confident enough in his own life where he isn't a burden to have to direct his life for him. I would call this strong-will = self assurance.
2. her social and intellectual inferior, and this man is to control every single steps she makes.
- no way .. again, as stated above .. I would desire a man who is strong-willed, determined, self-assured .. not an inferiour. Besides, in this theory, I can't imagine why a woman would want a person to control her who she thought was her inferiour .. that makes no sense. If a person would step-down and let another person takes the riegns, then that person would HAVE to show qualities of being able to handle superiourity .. in theory, of course .. not my cup of tea.
3. she feels lonely (which is her greatest fear).
- don't know about greatest fear .. but, it certainly is a big one.
4. she has never tried to change this image of hers
- in absolute agreement .. most Pisces people I know, male or female, are fully aware of who they are, what they want and this is by choice. Just as myself .. I am fully aware that I am hardened, shoot straight for my mark with no sugar-coating, or stroking of ego .. and my interest in changing this image is zero.
5. he is weak in all respects but once I feel that he starts to realize it, I buy him lots of expensive things or take him to a long vacation to Europe
- though I wouldn't be attracted to a man weak in all respects, men are human afterall and will have periods of feeling small or defeated or depressed .. and I would buy him things to make him happy or take him on holiday to lift his spirits.
Here is one especially interesting example: a smart woman with a strong inclination for social activities writes novels. And she confesses that she simply cannot write unless she is dating a tough and wicked man who is her social and intellectual inferior, and this man is to control every single steps she makes. The Piesces-born woman says that only this sort of an abnormal relationship makes her collect her thoughts, calm down, and start typing to prove her skills.
This type of a tough man must be beside her all the time in case she feels lonely (which is her greatest fear). It seems like this manly superiority makes her think that she is desired. She confesses that her friends have been always criticizing her, but she has never tried to change this image of hers saying that this weird kind of love allows her to work better, and it means so much to her. But once the woman said with a smile: "It's strange but we often have a shift of parts when I become the master and he - the slave, because my rather successful career allows me to control the budget. In fact, he is weak in all respects but once I feel that he starts to realize it, I buy him lots of expensive things or take him to a long vacation to Europe - but only in case I'm not writing anything at the time".