Capricorn and Pisces - Lot of heartache and pain

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nyccapricorn
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I am a gloomy capricorn this week. My Fiancee, a wonderful piscean female who always professed undying love, dumped me without warning and married another guy she had been cheating on me with.

Is this a typical piscean trait?

I discovered she had been cheating on me almost since we had known each other and had started discussing our marriage plans. I flew down where she lived and we are making plans for our future together when suddenly i find out in the middle of the night about this other guy (The other guy was kind enough to take the initiative to tell me the truth) ! My piscean, on the other hand, still would not confess and claimed it was a set up, but there was too much proof, pictures, telephone bills, videos......

An early morning argument with her led to more proclamations of true love for me and high pitched denials of anything to do with the other guy.......Which was all fine, if only they both had not gotten married 30 minutes later...........

I am very confused, hurt and angry. Why could she not just tell me the truth, why could she not just say it once that there was something on the side......I understand people do crazy things and might regret them later, but isn't honesty the way to go?

If only she had been honest enough about the thing and given me time to think things over, perhaps i would have reacted differently......

All i wish to know is for any insight into why would she go about this the way she did, instead of being upfront and honest.
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Tiamat
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I agree with Qbone(see I got it right finally:didn't see the thingy sticking out of the o the last time,sorry)thats not a sign issue.Shes a lyer and isn't worth wasting your time on.I know it's rude to say it like that but if you were straight forward from day one,she should've had that same respect for you as well.Some people lie so much that they actually believe thier own lies and plots as honesty and unharmfull.
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Alana
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I am so sorry for you and your tale of woe nycap............at this moment in time all you feel is betrayal and heartache........however in time there will come the "awakening" moment when you will think to yourself - thank god, I got out of that drama just in the nick of time - I'm so dam lucky events concurred to let me find out the truth.

Anyway, let's spare a thought for her "other" guy that she got married to....he mustn't have "too much up there" to have known she was with you all along and still went along with her......sounds like she's a serial liar and cheat and he's just her lap-dog!!!!, that is till she finds someone else to cut to "pisces".

Once again.........so sorry.........humans are strange creatures........you take care of yourself for now.

A x