capricorn girl pisces man (child.. lol)

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I agree with haffo when telling everyone to hate pisces!!!
I dated one for 2 years and i am a capricorn girl with leo rising and he is a pisces man with gemini rising. He is saying he wants space, and if i continue to pressure him with sms that we better go separate ways.

I told him that no other girl would put up with him being so inconstant, and such a liar and i know he is a wonderful person but he has problems making up his mind. he asked me to marry him 3 times and gave up after...

We had so much fun together that it was almost impossible for anyone to be around us without laughing.
we only wanted to have fun, only the sky was the limit, but i was too jelous and posessive.

but now i really think he is gone for good...
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but if he wants to leave, fine for me... He is the one loosing someone that he could relly have a lot of fun with, but now he just wants him freedom, and i am having some hard times dealing with low self esteem, because of what i have been through with him for the past 6 months, being like a broken lamp , trning on and off all the time...

but what i told him is that i can deal with him not telling the truth, i don?t care if he is with other women, or if he is someplace and tells me he is not... As long as when we are togheter we like it... but even so, he says he doesn?t want a relationship with me.

I had a one night stand with another guy ^(cancer) and told him and he just went up the wall and told me i was a easy girl, and how did i do that to him... he was really mad but invited me to have dinner with him, and then, ups , gone again...

the thing is i don?t play games whn i love someone i just say what i feel in a very direct way (i have venus in sagitarius) but i think that knowing what i want in such a clear and transparent way really scres him off...
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I don't think he is so worthful as you put weigh on him. If he threatens you with sms pressuring (that's funny thing, how could sms pressure? probably he is not a problem solver that why, not sms shit) then he does not place enough weigh on you. I personally am very appretiative in general for people who say what they want and mean it. But it takes some time for people to learn appretiate it. Not every Pisces is in same level of development, so better not waste your time with the ones who does not fit your shoe.

Better hate Pisces if you don't feel ideally of them. Your first impression probably would be the right one...Trust your instincts...
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ok, thanks for your answer... he even says his mobile phone isn?t working anymore beause of the amount of sms i sent him! lol, yes i sent him lots of sms...

But cap girls need to be secure in order to love someone and he is making me feel very insecure, so i just loose my temper.

what about you, ever had a relationship with a capricorn girl if you don?t mind me asking? how do the 2 signs get along?
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well, i don?t know if he trusts me i know he knows i like him and i am putting othe dates with guys on hold because of him so, i think he knows he can trust me... well, i usually have a very good relationship with pisces, i think you are he most complete sign of the zodiac and you can see right through people even without them opening their mouth. only by the way they move you can tell or better, feel..
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" what about you, ever had a relationship with a capricorn girl if you don?t mind me asking? how do the 2 signs get along?"

I have a female Capricorn cousin. She's used to sms me alot too. But not anymore. The reason for that is me. I don't have stable life so I don't have anything with her to share. It pissed her off, but what can I do. Things does not change as fast as she want. And I don't live one way and behave the other. Can't handle it. I didn't hurt her, I just try to change my life, after that my communications will stabilise. Altough, she's mad at me for her own poor judgement. But that's fine (I hope) because she's only 16.
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lol, ok, she is only 16, she will understand. one thing i like about you pisces is that you do your thing, and you don?t care about what effect is going to have on other people. you had nothing to tell her then, ok, period. That is actually a wuality, you don?t fake what you don?t feel.

And i thing that is why people sometimes don?t like you in a love relationship.

But i thing that is the only way to go, being so straight forward as you pisces are.

I thing other signs refuse to see the signals you give away....

You just want everyting to be so perfect that when its not you immediatly start giving signals away.

But they are behaviour signals, very suttle, but very clear in another way.
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Yes Capricorn and Pisces seems very compatible. I had lots of fun with my Capricorn cousin. She used to piss me off with her stubborness and to counter that I literally bite her. It was good control method, because she couldn't do anything against it. Anytime when she showed her stubborness again, I just showed my teeth. It really pissed her off. And that was lots of fun. But I think she didn't accept that as "fun" very well, because she took it seriously sometimes. Oh and she had very poor judgement. Just because guys was walking goth, she belived they are right in everything. She was judging people by their apparence without looking at particular situation itself. It really pissed me off, because it was way too shallow. Perhaps you can relate to this behaviour in some way. I can see it. I think poor judgement can be a typical Capricorn trait, but it also may be something with younger ones.


I had met a little older Capricorn females (I'm 25 and she was 36). Not in sense of relationship, just like family friends. I know her thinking style . Her judgement was different from younger ones, but I think not ideal or something on Piscean level. Still, the connection of minds was as usually instant. I cannot explain that, but she was taking words right of my mouth. For example, if I need to explain to Gemini everything from A to Z with little hope that they will understand or simply admit the fact, the Capricorn female never needed an explaination because they kinda was thinking the same way.
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and when pisces start giving those signals the only way to turn the situation around is by making you laugh and never speak about the problem that came up in the first place... and never push you into something you don?t want to do.

so, my advice to the women that come to the forum, i don?t know if you agree, is showing the pisces male that you have a great sense of humor and you can look at a tough situation in a very provocative a fun way at the same time...
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I agree about Capciron being more practical sign. Even though my couisin was 16, some of what she said was amazing. I don't particularly remember what she said was, but I remember how amazing it was. She was right. Perhaps Capricorns function on different wavelenght than Pisceans do. Pisceans become practical way later than Capricorns. Lets say if typical Piscean becomes practical in 20-25, a Capricorn becomes much earlier. Perhaps even before teenies. I remember my cousin talking very sensible and clearly when she was 7. It was too much for her age. So I belive I can trust to this fact and simply say that Capricorns "grow up" earlier than Pisceans do.


" I know when a pisces is pissed off, and i just back off a bit i don?t ever go into a argument or discussion with you."

Thats with immature Pisceans. I usually solve my discontent with debates, and always happy about the outcome. Because either I win or I lose, but truth is found and that's what I need.


"it will only lead to a explosion on your side."

That's because we are very stubborn.
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"and when pisces start giving those signals the only way to turn the situation around is by making you laugh and never speak about the problem that came up in the first place... and never push you into something you don?t want to do."

Altough it may work in initially (making laugh = coating the problem with sugar) Piscean will not be fooled by it in a long run. Soon or later Piscean understands that in order to find the truth, sugar coating is bad. And does not provide solutions. Only pospondes it and that is exactly the source of being pissed off, not because people sugar coated for them. Piscean will not admit that right away and people probably will start thinking that problem is within them. However, the truth is, Piscean needs time. Can be very long time Capricorn. I don't think it's a good idea to participiate with Piscean in his/her early discoveries, because they can be very stubborn and trample you on their way. Nor you nor even me can persuade them otherwise. They have to understand that themselves.

Debatings could faster the process. But that requires some milestone to be passed first. You can try to debate with him, but at your own risk. Even though you might be perfectly right, you still can get trampled by his stubborness and be put in unfair state. Pisces will understand his mistakes, but will never admit it while the process is finished.

I'm sorry for us being such a big pain in da ass, but it's the price we pay for something that I can't fully understand yet.
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"so, my advice to the women that come to the forum, i don?t know if you agree, is showing the pisces male that you have a great sense of humor and you can look at a tough situation in a very provocative a fun way at the same time..."

That will definetly arouse animalistic instincts in Piscean. You also can add to this daredevilness. Pisceans love daredevil poeple. They can relate with it. Maybe it could be way to crack the Piscean shell...
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M Ldy my question is do you really thinks it's beneficial to be with a man who lapses into stupors of self loathing. I mean you know what they say "you gotta learn to love yourself before you can love anybody else". If he's apt to feel shit about himself how exactly can he have the energy and level headedness to be able to appreciate you?

Oh and also how do you know for sure that you're physically attracted to him if you haven't met him in person yet? Cos photos can be misleading....Soory I don't mean to put a dampner on it but it's probably my capricorn mercury and venus coming through there! I also become filled with self doubt and all that crap from time to time.
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"I?m sorry that my english isn?t that advanced! what does daredevilness mean?"

The American Heritage? Dictionary of the English Language: Fourth Edition. 2000.

daredevil

SYLLABICATION: dare?dev?il
PRONUNCIATION: d?rdvl
NOUN: One who is recklessly bold.
ADJECTIVE: Recklessly bold. See synonyms at adventurous.
OTHER FORMS: daredevil?ry, daredevil?try (-tr) ?NOUN


The American Heritage? Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Copyright ? 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Published by the Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.