confused about a pisces man

I am a sagitarius female who is completely infatuated with a pisces male. I just dont know where the whole thing is going. When I first met him I was attracted to him but I was in a relationship that was in the process of ending. He was instantly attracted to me telling me that he wanted a relationship with me and that he really liked me. Although I was quick to tell him that he didnt know me and that he might try getting to know a girl before trying to make out with them. besides I had a boyfriend and couldnt do that to him....The life style we have involves alot of travel so we see eachother every few weeks and spend 2-3 days together at a time....In the meantime I go back to my world and Im hearing rumours about our meeting. Which kind of bothered me. When I meet up with him the next time I let him know it bothered me and he kind of faded away(oh and I had broken up with boyfriend already)... a few weeks later we both happen to be in the same place at the same time all day Coincidentally lol. We proceed to talk to other people and not eachother. Then we go to a party, joke around with eachother, I end up back at his place by the end of the night. He first tells me he isnt good at communicating. we talked about the previous meeting and how I was sorry. Then we have the most incredible sex ever . afterwards he proceeds to tell me hates when girls call him and he rather it just be I see you when I see you. Since then I emailed him once and no response.It will be 4 weeks total til our next meeting. Im not sure how to proceed. I have other options for relationships but the only one I want to be with is him. Ive felt this strange connection with him from the start, despite my better judgement. Sorry its so long but I would appreciate any advice you could give me.

"afterwards he proceeds to tell me hates when girls call him and he rather it just be I see you when I see you."

ok well Im a little dumb sometimes and at the time didnt realize that he was talking about "us". So I was just like yea I hate talking on the phone too. especially when your busy doing other things and others want to have conversation with you just cuz theyre bored.


"So...let me get this straight. You had doubts. Then after not spending time with him on a day in which you were with him all day...you then proceed to have fun & then have sex with him."

To be honest the rumours didnt give me doubts about him. It just made me feel awkward that everyone knew my business. So jokingly I gave him crap about telling people and he like backed off big time..... So I didnt know how to act around him the next time I saw him. It was just interesting because he would sit right next to me and turn his back to me. and we would be apart of the same conversations but never really respond to eachothers comments. So when we sat down and talked that night (before sex) it was about how we wanted to talk to eachother but just didnt know how. It seemed to me like we had reached an understanding.


I know that sex doesnt mean anything really ,unless its with someone who means something to you. I do want it to become something more but I dont want to scare him away.

gosh i think I understand the martyr thing because I feel like its him giving me the mixed signals lol. I feel like Im just going with the flow. Except Im the one who has to make contact most of the time. It says that pisces like to play games but its hard to play when you dont know the rules. I just dont know whether I should email him again, or wait til I see him again. If I should tell him Im really into him or if I should just play it cool. I dont want to be pushy but being the impatient sag I just want to tell him hey your my dream guy, your the one for me. So lets make a go of it and be happy together.