trystan28
@trystan28
13 Years
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Posted by trystan28
... not sure if the standoffishness is a hint I shouldn't pursue him ....


Posted by trystan28
I guess I got my answer. He is the one who initiated contact that night, and in no way made any indication it was meant to be a one night stand. So suddenly I'm the monster?

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A few days ago, I asked a friend if he wanted to get together and do something. Now, I had no expectations of anything other than friendship with this guy, who is a Pisces. We were trying to figure out what we wanted to do when a mutual friend texted me and the three of us made plans to go bowling. We had great fun, and when I dropped my friend off he invited me to come upstairs. We sat and talked for a bit on his bed, and now he's a weird guy but he kept hitting me with a pillow and told me to stop being so serious. Then he started trying to tickle me, and before I knew it he was pulling me closer and I said "what are you doing?" And he said"doing what you are too scared to" and he kissed me. It was wonderful and soft and gentle and like a romance novel. Ultimately we ended up sleeping together, and even the next morning he was still very romantic with me. He is not the type of guy I would have guessed to be a one night stand guy. I ended up seeing him for a little while the next night and while nothing overtly sexual happened, he was very gentle and kind and cuddly. We both worked most of the weekend but we did talk on facebook. But only when I initiated the conversation. Don't get me wrong he replied right away and we talked at length, but I am not sure how to read him. I do like him and my gut says there is some chemistry between us, but I'm not sure if the standoffishness is a hint I shouldn't pursue him or if that's just how Pisces operate. I've given him a day or so of space, largely because I don't want to push too hard. I do enjoy spending time with him, and enjoy our conversations. What's a good way to approach him? I'd like to ask him if we might meet up again but I don't want to come across as pushy or needy. Any tips that might pique a Pisces interest?