Does this confusing pisces man like me or not?

I met this pisces man that I'm afraid I have fallen completely in love with. Seriously. I bought a new notebook after meeting him and every page is dedicated to him. I feel insane.
When we met, we immediatly started sharing very Deep personal stuff. Like out deepest traumas, shame, fears. Things both of us never told anyone before. Both of us cried together. He looked me in the eyes wich i noticed he didn't do with anyone else earlier when we were around people. There was this shyness about him. Yet to me, he is very brave.
(We spent 21 hours in total together, constantly talking. His friend went to bed but he stayed up with me) After talking and sharing for hours he started tickling my arm gently. just touching it. He let his hands run through my hair (I LOVE THAT. no idea how he just knew what i liked. but he did) We ended up laying together. as soon as we did i felt completely calm. He did to, he even commented on it the second I went over in his arms.
He also said "I have wanted this for the last two hours".
So thats good. then a lot of intimate stuff happened (not sex) but omg, never have i felt this way. and he was a stranger, yet we knew so much about each other and i felt so safe, and completely accepted. Also, I completely adored him. the way he was. how sensitive he is. his story.
Anyway. Our time came to an end. and we had to part.
We live 7 hours from each other.
I found him on facebook and he said he was glad that I did. But now im discovering this side of him. his incredibly moody side. Wich for me, is totally okay. honestly I just want to be there for him. But his signals are so hard to understand. One minute i feel like he feels the same way, another minute I feel like a nothing.
Mostly I have to contact him first. He contacts me sometimes though. rarely.
He likes everything I post. I mean everything. He comments too. so that could be good. or just mean that we have similair taste (wich we do). He has told me i am the most interessting person he has ever met, and that he found it hard to read me wich is rare for him.
He has also wrote that he respects me a lot,
the other day we talked all night. I jokingly wrote "I write to you like its a fucking diary"
And he told me that he likes that a lot. He also says that I make him laugh wich rarely happens. I do try to be funny alot. I like that he is happy. But fuck man. I dont know. It sometimes feel like I do all the Work. that I have to initiate everything. Wich would be fine if i knew he liked me. I dont want to Waste all my energy on someone who doesnt give a shit. I'm afraid i will come off as some crazy stalker who layed to much into a meeting that might have meant nothing to him. He fucks me up. I cry alot because it meant so much to me. I felt heartbroken the minute we parted. so yea. I dont know what to say. Anyone here, who knows the mind of a pisces man, and perhaps can help me figure it out. Because i really want him. more than i have ever wanted an

Lord, this is gonna take foreva to read 😐

Posted by crabRiot
Lord, this is gonna take foreva to read 😐

You don't have to do anything you don't feel like doing.

Neptunism you are moving way way too fast and this can overwhelm a man.

You're sharing way too much vulnerable information about yourself too fast and that can create a superficial bond. Meaning you can be deeply bonding with him but it's not mutual which is bad for you. You're already noticing he's not doing much of the initiating/relationship work which means he's not as invested in you as you being invested in him.

These instant relationship bonds/instant emotional bonds can be confusing because it feels real but it's not real to the person receiving this private intimate information.

Women find themselves sharing so many intimate private details which means she's ESTABLISHING a false superficial bond with a man b/c all too often things end up being one sided where she is doing most if not all of the work to keep things going which can make her feel confused and paranoid and sometimes make her act out in crazy unattractive ways.

You're behavior can open the door for you to be taken advantage of and taken for granted because you're going at 100 full on with no sense of boundaries to stop you and that kind of behavior can invite in men that may be bad for you in every possible way.

I would suggest you slow down. Like slow all the way down now before this guy heads for the hills. I also suggest you ease up on trying to make things work. Let him show you he's into you and if he's not doing that then chalk it up to you making a poor choice in sharing yourself with the wrong guy and let it go before you end up stuck on a man that does not need nor desire you the way you need and desire him.

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Posted by crabRiot
Lord, this is gonna take foreva to read 😐

You don't have to do anything you don't feel like doing.

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You right about that, dueces and good luck with that.

Posted by tiki33
Neptunism you are moving way way too fast and this can overwhelm a man.

You're sharing way too much vulnerable information about yourself too fast and that can create a superficial bond. Meaning you can be deeply bonding with him but it's not mutual which is bad for you. You're already noticing he's not doing much of the initiating/relationship work which means he's not as invested in you as you being invested in him.

These instant relationship bonds/instant emotional bonds can be confusing because it feels real but it's not real to the person receiving this private intimate information.

Women find themselves sharing so many intimate private details which means she's ESTABLISHING a false superficial bond with a man b/c all too often things end up being one sided where she is doing most if not all of the work to keep things going which can make her feel confused and paranoid and sometimes make her act out in crazy unattractive ways.

You're behavior can open the door for you to be taken advantage of and taken for granted because you're going at 100 full on with no sense of boundaries to stop you and that kind of behavior can invite in men that may be bad for you in every possible way.

I would suggest you slow down. Like slow all the way down now before this guy heads for the hills. I also suggest you ease up on trying to make things work. Let him show you he's into you and if he's not doing that then chalk it up to you making a poor choice in sharing yourself with the wrong guy and let it go before you end up stuck on a man that does not need nor desire you the way you need and desire him.

Maybe I do. I have never done it with anyone else. usually I'm very protective of my feelings.
But he shares too. When we talk, we do it equally. So its not just me. Plus, mostly he askes me about the Deep stuff.
He says he is sick of people not being able to handle emotions. (honestly, I am too.) thats why i get scared of this being a game when he is distant.
And I dont write him all the time constantly. I give him ALOT of breathing Space.
I don't know. You might be right.
But its hard not to share when he askes me, and does it himself.

But the downside is...He's not sharing himself anymore with you in the way he used to which means that you have to use a bit of common sense by knowing when to slow down.

It seems you're still pulse rating at 100 when he's clearly tempered down his sharing with you which can be very confusing for a woman like yourself.

You're setting yourself self up to be toyed with because you're giving a very intimate vulnerable side of yourself to a man that is NOT your man. At some point you're going to be out there mentally and emotionally dangling by yourself. Then what will you do?

You're treading on a very slippery slope that will emotionally damage you. Sharing is beautiful, it really is but too much intimacy can push a man to bolt only to return when it's convenient for him which leaves you even more confused.

Be fully open and vulnerable with a man you have not established a real relationship with (yet) can be damaging to you. I just urge you to think about how his behavior may be damaging to you mentally and emotionally if he suddenly up and disappears completely after you've given so much of yourself to him only for it to end as if it never began.

All I'm saying is tread carefully...Good luck and I wish nothing but the best for you.