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11 Years
Why do pisces men like to play games with women?
Why Pisces Men Play Mind Games with Women
Pisces men may play mind games to test emotional boundaries or because they feel insecure. They often seek deep connection but may also struggle with commitment. Understanding their emotional complexity can reveal their true intentions and help navigate relationships more effectively.
How long did he disappear for?
If you're not emotionally attached just ignore him, if you want him back try and sort things out.
If you think he's seeing someone else ask him to his face.
i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...
My Pisces guy friend straight up says sleeping with a woman is a game for him and once he's "scored" he loses interest and doesn't want to have to talk to her anymore. He's in his mid twenties. I also know a loyal married Pisces man.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...
I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.
My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
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Have you considered he's confused?Ask him directly why 🙂
Confused, about what?
Posted by Riflessivo
Have you considered he's confused?Ask him directly why 🙂
Confused, about what?
You know him. We sometimes can be overwhelmed by feelings/emotions.
I don't know the guy but you do. You've spent time with him. But feeling confused is a big thing. It makes you think. So maybe ask him what's on his mind.
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would that cause him to send me texts and not respond when I do and to disappear and to reappear. I havent initiated contact with him. he is the one to text me first. We went our separate ways because he didnt know what he wanted and seemed inconsistent
Or does he want to make sure I dont move on?
Posted by Riflessivo
Have you considered he's confused?Ask him directly why 🙂
Confused, about what?
You know him. We sometimes can be overwhelmed by feelings/emotions.
I don't know the guy but you do. You've spent time with him. But feeling confused is a big thing. It makes you think. So maybe ask him what's on his mind.
would that cause him to send me texts and not respond when I do and to disappear and to reappear. I havent initiated contact with him. he is the one to text me first. We went our separate ways because he didnt know what he wanted and seemed inconsistent
Or does he want to make sure I dont move on?That would be cruel to me as a Pisces. I couldn't do that. But I know Aries can. Maybe if someone could look at his chart for you they could advise further.
People disappear for numerous of reasons. Currently I know that feeling. Which leaves unanswered questions
Personally I don't like being ignored so. I would say to you don't reply. He'll either get bored and stop or he'll have to change what he's doing.
What is it you want from him?
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Its rude to ignore a persons messages i guess i dont know what he wants from me
Posted by MoonshineLeo
i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.
My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
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my ex was talking to other girls while he was talking to me in the beginning, then i said im not going to put up with that so bye and that is when he said he loved me and asked if i loved him too...they will tryyyyyyyyyyy to manipulate you into saying it....
Posted by Riflessivo
Ask yourself why do you respond when you have learned he will ignore you?It doesn't do anyones self esteem any good to be ignored. Sure, we get curious. Part of me wonders if you still have feelings for him?
I tried moving on this might have brought the feels up.
Maybe he knows this and thats why he ignores me. Maybe hes trying to hurt me
Posted by MoonshineLeo
i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.
My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
my ex was talking to other girls while he was talking to me in the beginning, then i said im not going to put up with that so bye and that is when he said he loved me and asked if i loved him too...they will tryyyyyyyyyyy to manipulate you into saying it....
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Lol that won't work with me I see that shit a mile off.
I told him I have feelings but I'm not quite there, as in falling in love just yet. Behaving like this has me going in the opposite direction. I will not chase someone that shows no signs of interest, actions speak louder than words.
I think most of them don't do it on purpose, and the women think they do.
In my experience Pisces men are flakes. I have noticed that they can only have "one love" and until they truly move on from that person (even if the person is continents away), they can't really take anyone else serious. I also know that Pisces men will put up with a lot of crap from that one love that they have. Everyone else is disposable.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I also know that Pisces men will put up with a lot of crap from that one love that they have. Everyone else is disposable.
True, and that's the reason people get hurt. Lots of people somehow find it great to take advantage of others, even those who love them. Evil. Unfortunately the ones that take a lot of shit are their victims.
Sounds to me like you enjoy playing, since you acknowledge he's not treating you right, while you continue to give him attention.
that means you are just playing him for whatever attention you can get from him
A Pisces is going to realize from jump street what your intentions are .... so, he likely realized immediately that you are shallow enough to respond to superficial sentiment ... so, as a typical Pisces, he'll entertain himself with a dumbass when he's bored.
It's all tit for tat .... so, why are you bitching? ... other than you feel like being a bitch?
Pisces likes to play mind games, I deal with same situation dating a Pisces guy, they are liar, manipulator. He ignore my text then one day disappear without any contact only to reappear back like nothing happen. I ignore and stop all contacts with him which make him mad and when he saw me with one of guy friend, He start to blasting my inbox with messages. They just want nothing but attention don't give it to them, they just play games and when they get bored they will disappear
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
but then again, i'm pro-ghosting so i'm confused why this is an issue
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
And you just suddenly out of the blue decided to dig up a specific thread from 4 months ago..?
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yes
but then again, i'm pro-ghosting so i'm confused why this is an issue
Your type of manipulation is Earthy...lmao
Everyone manipulates, we just all have different avenues of focus.
Water signs definitely have more of a tendency towards the emotional type, since that is their strength.
Your brand might be more of the guilt-tripping... Virgoean type. 🤷🏻♀️
And criticizing 😂👍🏼
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far as i'm concerned, crying wolf involves guilt-tripping too
crying wolf, hidden cthulhu
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
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i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !
Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
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yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it
and even got angry with me
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !
Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it
and even got angry with me
I remember that story. You went out of your way for him and took him seriously, and even had a door knocked down, right? He was being very manipulative. Using true feelings to screw with you, I think.
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yes and i got so hurt that i avoided him
i was recently hospitalized for an ear problem and he got worried and sent me a message and i did reply politely BUT curtly so that the convo won't be for long
just don't want that shit to happen again
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !
Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it
and even got angry with me
Too bad huh ? maybe you should not go there so he would do it for real next time.
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wow you're a fucking asshole
you must be such a better friend than me and know everything about this man
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !
Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it
and even got angry with me
I remember that story. You went out of your way for him and took him seriously, and even had a door knocked down, right? He was being very manipulative. Using true feelings to screw with you, I think.
yes and i got so hurt that i avoided him
i was recently hospitalized for an ear problem and he got worried and sent me a message and i did replied politely BUT curtly so that the convo won't be for long
just don't want that shit to happen again
Very understandable. I hope your ear is better.
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thanks it is 🙂
well i know of a pisces guy we kind of flirted in the past but we were mostly like friends , he went through some breakup because his gf cheated on him or something. we talked about it and i asked if he was okay. he messaged me and i said i'm open to talk, but he knows im in a relationship and he keeps bringing up sexual topics so i turned him down. yesterday he messaged me saying hi and i asked how he was and he was all like "the only reason i messaged you earlier was because i was horny". i deleted and blocked him, it feels good.
but now i feel guilty
they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities
like they can look like a 4 and act up like this
Hahahaha... you are so funny!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?
guilt.
boom emotional manipulation.
Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !
Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it
and even got angry with me
Too bad huh ? maybe you should not go there so he would do it for real next time.
wow you're a fucking asshole
you must be such a better friend than me and know everything about this man
I thought the one whose asshole are the one who had a bad tgought thinking a man who said he would do a suicide must be a lie and it must be manipulation.
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i didn't assume he was manipulating. in fact, i believed him and had his door broken down coz it was locked from the inside. i'm not really angry, i'm mostly hurt. doesn't matter now, that's already happened.
In my experience Pisces men are flakes. I have noticed that they can only have "one love" and until they truly move on from that person (even if the person is continents away), they can't really take anyone else serious. I also know that Pisces men will put up with a lot of crap from that one love that they have. Everyone else is disposable.
This is so true! I had a fling with a pisces sun, cancer moon man and he was completely closed off to anyone but his ex. From my experience I find that both pisces and cancers get fixated on one person, even if the relationship is dead and gone, and even if you're the better option.
There's no bigger turnoff IMO than someone who can't let go of a failed relationship. Nothing like feeling like a sloppy second.
Sometimes it's best to crush these types if they keep playing games. Just best him out and he'll come crawling back ... But at that point do you even want him anymore? Who wants someone that insecure?
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I thought he disappeared? Why did he come back to play mind games with me? is he bored?
I have a feeling he is seeing someone else