Does this Pisces woman likes me ?

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I'm born in 25/5/1983 (Gemini but my ascendant is Virgo), and she Is born on 26/2/1983.

No not yet , I'm quite sentimental and sensitive when it comes to relationships and I'm thinking about her in a very serious way , I don't know how to explain it exactly , but I know for sure I can take care of her and make her much more happier and content , I want to confront and tell her sometime soon , but I want to express that in the most romantic and surprising way as possible , I'm just a bit concerned whether she is seriously interested or not ! she keeps giving me those mixed signals and I'm really confused.

Anyone ? I know its a bit too boring to read the whole thing , but I really need some input and guidance if possible..thanks.

You could maybe try asking her out on a date? Making sure you make it clear to her it is a date and not just hanging out like you two seemed to have been doing so far. So not coffee or lunch. But dinner. Someplace nice. If she says yes you will know she's at least a little bit interested in you romantically. Or that's how it should go in theory. Hopefully you would get an answer but without feeling like you're putting too much of yourself out there.

Thanks everyone , if I'm going to tell her I want to do it in a very special romantic way , thinking of getting her flowers for instance , a nice gift and write her a nice letter of how I really feel about her , as for not having something to loose , well it could be a bit sensitive since my cousin will be marrying her sister soon , I honestly don't like to give away too much if the other person is not interested , but show me some appreciation and interest and I would make you the queen of this world.

I think I will have to hold on a bit for now , I should be seeing her soon at my cousin's engagement , what confuses me is the way she reacts towards me , sometimes she's just too distant and hard to reach too busy with work , but is this normal ? I mean in my case and even if I'm deadly busy I would still take the distance to try and see someone I'm really into , I'm sort of giving her some excuse because she is pure , honest and I feel she genuinely likes me in her own way , I know Pisces are introvert and love to retreat to their own bubble and space every now and then , but she seems to be doing it in quite an extreme way.

Another question , should I text and check on her a lot or just leave her alone with her usual busy schedule and free space ?

Thanks for the advice , I'm turning 31 on May 25th (born in 1983) , I'm a Gemini but my ascendant is Virgo , she is 31 as well.

I've been super nice to her by the way , a true gentle man as you've suggested , but I wasn't faking it up or over reacting , its just me being myself really , I think she noticed that as well , but I guess you're right , I shouldn't be coming too strong her , I just feel she's being over protective at times , I was thinking of asking her the next time we meet whether she is involved with someone else or not , I know 99% she's not but I feel I need to know before taking any proper steps.

I agree with cowpuncher, don't go making it into a grand affair with over the top romantic gestures and declarations of love. I understand your heart is in the right place and you just want to show her how much you admire her but at this moment in your "relationship" something like that might scare her away. You sound like you're coming into this too hot while she might be taking her time to give it some thought.

I said you have nothing to lose inviting her to a date because she certainly seems to enjoy your company and friendship. So in the case she says no you can still remain civil and friendly for your cousin's wedding.

From personal experience I had close friend send me a love letter telling me how much he liked me and how great he thought I was. It still is the best thing I got from anyone but I just didn't feel about him that way. So I told him that I was sorry but that I just didn't feel the same for him. The first couple of weeks after that was hard for both of us to be around each other. His feelings were obviously hurt and I hated to see him hurt knowing it was me that was the reason behind it. But we got over it, we stayed civil to each other and we continued to be friends.

I am not sure if I should even been mentioning this here but just as an example of why it wouldn't be the end of the world. I suggested asking her out on a date because it is a clear message of your romantic interest towards her. But it isn't a heartfelt romantic letter where you're pouring out your deepest feelings. In case she's not interested it is easier for her to say no to a date. It's just simpler than having to juggle around with a huge bouquet, a gift and a love letter and trying find a way to say she's not interested without a fear of hurting your feelings. And it's easier for you as well because you wouldn't feel like you've put too much of yourself out there. You could accept it gracefully without beating yourself up for saying and doing too much.

I'm sure we all realize you're here asking us to interpret your Pisces' feelings from what you told us about her. You want us to tell you yes, this is a clear sign she likes you. Or no, this doesn't sound too promising. But every person is different. Every Pisces is different 🙂 We don't know your Pisces. I could tell you yes, I would act this way if I liked you. Or I would definitely message you more often if I really liked you. But nothing of that would really apply to your Pisces.

We all act the way we

We all act the way we act based on our personality and our previous experiences with people and relationships and even then we don't always act the same with every single person. Every person and every relationship is different and the only one who is able to give you a clearer answer to your questions is your Pisces 🙂

(This doesn't mean you should stop posting here just an explanation why I think people seem to be less talkative in this case.)

Thank you for your input pikeperch , that was really helpful , and yes its true that I've obviously posted here cause I was looking for some sort of interpretation for how my Pisces feels or thinks about the whole thing ( probably some sort of explanation to some of the things she said or acted towards me) , obviously you're true that not all Pisces would act or think the same way , I will take your advice and cowpuncher's (thank you as well) and take that approach and direction to tell her.

I think I have to hold on a bit and try to build our friendship a little bit further , let her feel more convenient and let her open up a bit more , then I would ask her whether she is involved or got any feelings for someone else and accordingly I can tell her what I want to.

pikeperch , and if its not too personal , when you got that nice letter from your friend did that sort of changed the way you looked to him , meaning why didn't you consider him for something more intimate if you were that close ? I know it could be for 1000 reasons , but I would love to know what went through your mind when you did get the letter , its a bit different here in my case , our friendship was sort of built on attraction in the first place , would a Pisces show some interest in someone just for the sake of friendship ?

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pikeperch , and if its not too personal , when you got that nice letter from your friend did that sort of changed the way you looked to him , meaning why didn't you consider him for something more intimate if you were that close ? I know it could be for 1000 reasons , but I would love to know what went through your mind when you did get the letter , its a bit different here in my case , our friendship was sort of built on attraction in the first place , would a Pisces show some interest in someone just for the sake of friendship ?

It didn't change the way I looked at him because I just didn't feel any attraction towards him. I wish it would have, because he was very dear to me and he had all these good qualities, but there just wasn't any chemistry on my side.

I personally wouldn't flirt with somebody I'm not attracted to, if that's what you're asking? I am flirty, or at least I try to be, when I start liking somebody but I don't flirt for the sake of friendship.

So after a very long break and several of failed attempts for my side to see my Pisces girl (been travelling and quite busy with work) we got to meet 3 days in a row , the first 2 days were sort of compulsory since her sister was getting married to my cousin , we had family gathering on the first date , didn't get to talk to her much , I wasn't mad at her but I felt maybe I was imposing myself too much on her trying to see her and I didn't get the response or attitude I was willing for , still I was decent and nice to her , the 2nd day we got to hang out with bigger group of friends , we did chat a lot that day and I guess we're both a bit more smoother than the other day at her family place , at one point I was having an intimate talk with one of my best girl friends , I noticed she was sort of roaming around and a bit tension ed , since I don't like to act like a d@#k I introduced my friend to her and pointed out throughout the conversation on purpose that she was married and have 3 kids already ! (I couldn't miss that sort of relief on her face).

I knew she was flying back the next day as myself so I asked her when she was flying exactly so we could manage to go together and maybe get a seat next to one another , she told me she's not sure and mentioned a flight which was probably the next to mine , a couple of hours later she told me that she checked that she is flying on the same plane at the same time , I took her seat reference and managed to book a seat right beside her.

The next day my cousin and his wife (her sister) picked us both and dropped at us at the airport , I managed to carry her bags and laptop so she would feel more convenient , we checked in together , had a quick coffee and then talked for almost the whole flight , it was really great , there is this great vibe and chemistry between us and she was really nice and sweet , when we arrived and although we live way apart , I dropped her with a cab at her place before heading back home (she couldn't hide a huge smile when I did so and dropped me a message later telling me it was lovely to drop her home) , she also mentioned she will see me when she's back from another working trip the next day , throughout our chat that day I felt she was genuinely sorry we didn't meet when she was extremely busy at work ,but the way I interpret it , if you really care and interested , you will always find a way or the other to meet up , but anyway I had this feeling she was sort of regretting for