I am a Sag/Cusp female. I recently met a Pisces the same age as me. He is a great guy and I definitely would say I like him. I however, am not in a place to have a serious relationship and he just recently (5mon) got out of one. I met him on vacation and all though we have only seen each other twice, we text daily. I am wondering if Friends With Benefits (F.W.B) will work or not. I feel like if I want to see him I have to make the effort, even though when I do propose we hang out he is usually down.
It's funny, these two match up quite well when it comes to friendship. Both are relaxed, non-intense/serious , have a healthy appreciation for freedom😛 but romantically it seems to fall apart. I'm thinking of a particular Sag in my class and I can't see it working. Everything I want/need they cannot fulfil, and I'm pretty certain I can't give them what they need. FWB should be alright though.
I know a Sag/Pisces ex-couple and it is/was a train wreck. Sags are always down for FWB but then want more after and this isn't going to work with a Pisces. My Sag girlfriend got pregnant with her Pisces FWB and tried several times to get him to commit. Funny, cause every time she'd talk to me about him doing this and that (i'm seeing a pisces too) I'd worn her... "don't do that, he's going to swim" Hell the girl wouldn't listen and the drama they put themselves through is crazy!
He battles with wanting to live this "dream family" with her and his son but knows in his heart that she isn't the one for him (even though she tries to convince him she is) so he comes back and tries for a week then becomes this total ass to her. So mean I can't believe it because he feels so trapped. I don't know the guy at all but he was coming one day as I was leaving. I stop, look at him and say... "I know you want the dream but she's not the one for you. Just be a good father to your son and let her go."
His face dropped and he got a bit teary. I haven't talked to her since then but I'm curious to see what's been up lately.
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Any thoughts thanks!