I felt like this last year when I lost my job... I was a shut in and slept during the day hell I slept the whole time or just dreamed.
I know it will be uncomfortable at first but you must get out the house it will fuel your loneliness and then you will become more reclusive. Even if it's in your front yard or back yard for 5 mins a day... the increase it from there. In a while you will crave being out in the world and everything will seem brighter and the world will smell sweeter and you will crave human interaction.
You must go out or you will just stay stuck in that perpetual motion of feeling lonely but your making yourself feel lonely but being a shut in... a fish is their own worst enemy... your punishing your own self dear. Break the cycle step outside.
Gasp! Go out on your date hun!!! Enjoy yourself... funny thing is you described me! lol
I'm 31 but attract really young guys and my style is of a younger person but that's my leo coming out. I'm outgoing and accepting to all but I'm pretty much a traditionalist I don't have friends with benefits I only will lay down with a guy who has my heart. Nothing wrong with that.
There are men and women out there who think like us... it may take a while to find them but they are there hun. Don't loose faith! Enjoy the sunshine!!!
By the way your English is amazing!
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I felt like this last year when I lost my job... I was a shut in and slept during the day hell I slept the whole time or just dreamed.
I know it will be uncomfortable at first but you must get out the house it will fuel your loneliness and then you will become more reclusive. Even if it's in your front yard or back yard for 5 mins a day... the increase it from there. In a while you will crave being out in the world and everything will seem brighter and the world will smell sweeter and you will crave human interaction.
You must go out or you will just stay stuck in that perpetual motion of feeling lonely but your making yourself feel lonely but being a shut in... a fish is their own worst enemy... your punishing your own self dear. Break the cycle step outside.