Head in the Past?

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Placidd
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Hello my fellow Pisces! How are yall?

This past week I've been going through a rough patch. I didnt want to reach out at the time because I didnt want to come off as someone fishing (😛) for attention and comfort.

I dont want to get into what had happened very much, but Ive been wondering: Is there something in my placements that keeps me thinking of the past when it comes to relationships, is it natural, or is it just me? It seems like no matter how long I have moved on from a relationship, every once in a while I think a lot about her and feel down. Sometimes Running into them bugs me afterwards, but I handle the situation well face-to-face. I am fortunate to be set straight by some good friends of mine (Aquarian, Arian, and Sagittarian)

here is most of my chart, without the rest of my houses:


Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun - Pisces 18.55
Moon - Taurus 13.18
Mercury - Aries 7.06
Venus - Aquarius 24.08
Mars - Aquarius 15.25
Jupiter - Virgo 8.29
Saturn - Aquarius 13.45
Uranus - Capricorn 17.13
Neptune - Capricorn 18.29
Pluto - Scorpio 22.55 (R)
Lilith - Capricorn 7.07

Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant - Scorpio

if you want to see the rest just ask me.

Here's some music for y'all; It helped me relax a little bit through this past week. thanks for reading/ commenting 🙂



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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Perhaps Scorpio Ascendant. Or moon exalted in Taurus makes you more attached. Some people are just more sentimental by nature. Aquarius Venus, friendship probably also a big part of your relationships. Sometimes when a relationship ends it hurts, because it's like you're also losing a Friend. Thinking about the one who "got away" is completely normal no matter what your sign. And this is the Pisces forum...we're all emo as heck. I think the concern with "bothering others" is very Piscean like. We are so use to giving help, that sometimes it is hard for us to ask for help when we ourselves need it. No one should judge you for reaching out, so go ahead, reach away. 🙂



i think so too.it could be coming from the scorpio part.

i remember when u posted on "how u doing today trend" earlier like 2 weeks ago.hope u getting better though
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Placidd
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Thanks everyone for your replies. I would have gotten back a little bit sooner, but I have been studying for finals all day...I am getting tired of seeing the word "Thermocouple" because the book Ive been studying has a page in which it is repeated literally 40 times xD

PVAF & Elusive -

Thanks for the insight..I have always felt pretty sentimental, and my most recent ex (Cappie - I talked about her here in march) also has an Aqua venus. I can agree with you with the loss of a friend bit...it was uncanny how well we got along and how happy we felt around one another while things lasted; a while ago I was also reading on mars-venus stuff because I have a conjunction there. I read that in synastry it pretty much makes me care even more about her since her venus conjuncts both my mars and venus. I still care about her now, whenever I see her around campus I get anxious. I have a feeling Ill never stop caring 😛

maybe one day we'll be able to be in each others lives again. I've thought about reconnecting with her but I dont know how I will handle that. That Emo part you mentioned is so trueeeee.

I found the song on the Youtube channel belonging to the user "Mr. Suicide Sheep". You should check out the channel! there are a lot of good songs there. they mainly fall along this style , but there are some amaaazing songs waiting to be discovered. there's at least 300 on there, so itll be a while before it gets repetitive 🙂
Thank you for the music taste compliment! ***high five***


BaitedFish -
Aha! so you know exaaactly what Im referring to! nice catch hahaha. I am feeling a little better, just taking it day by day and keeping my mind off of it by studying hardcore. I appreciate the concern!


Deezie -
I was on that website last november and I completely forgot about it :O
I just read the Scorpio ASC and Pluto - I think they both fought for control when it came to posting here haha. I didnt want to show much emotion, but I knew that I had to bring my distress to light..As a matter of fact, I was going to post this last wednesday, but I kept having second thoughts AND my internet wouldnt upload the thread. It gave me some time to revise what I wanted to say so I wasnt talking in circles until all my ideas were on the table.

Awwh, thanks! I blushed a little. JUST A LITTLE 😛
LOLOLOL yeah... I picked "Placid" because I liked its meaning of peacefulness, but I added another "d" at the end so it'd be different. blame my Aqua parts!
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Placidd
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Posted by 88PisceScorp
It happens to me too, and after a while I'll still remember and feel less bothered about it. If it is an experience that caused me some trauma, I would probably not mention it to anyone till many months go by or years go by and I am comfortable in opening up, and sharing what has happened to me and I am emotionally strong enough to hear people's criticism or annoying opinions.




That last part hits home. Both you and I were on the "how was your day" thread!



I concur: If I dont feel emotionally ready to hear something, I wont speak my mind till I am. We need to find all the march 8 people and just have a hang out...on march 8th! haha. You wouldnt happen to have any Aqua in you, would you?
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Placidd
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Posted by ninalove

I think this would apply to almost anyone reflecting on something that was once special. However, my fish has been doing something similar lately (reflecting on the past). He is unaware that I know this but I can sense it and it does not worry me but I hope he is able to look back, learn from the past apply it to his future and appreciate his present.

Ironically, my close third Decan fish friend is also reminiscing on long lost loves as of late. (Say that 3x's.) wink

In my experience, when a relationship ends it ends for a solid reason even if we don't understand it at the time.

On the flip side of this topic (can't you see the scales kicking in)my third decan fish friend is the only person I know to have returned to a lost love. They are now married almost 15 years. Something in her heart never let go of him. She found him after two years apart.

In short...it's possible but don't miss future possibilities by giving the past too much of your attention. If it is meant to be, it will.

Wishing you peace in the process.



I see. I guess it could be a thing thats been going on for most fish. Im a 2nd decan -- apparently the emotional type 😛

I agree. Usually with my luck and patience, all the questions I've had about why a relationship ended gets answered, and the naked truth is exposed. sometimes its for the better, sometimes there are things that once you hear or see I can never get out of your head. But I agree with your statement. things from the past can return. As comforting as that may sound at the moment, Its probably healthier for me to give less attention to the past like you said. Props to your pisces friend; Honestly thats something I've always wanted to do -- reunite with a lost love. Im jealous. We'll see if life has me and cappie cross paths again! In the meantime, I gotta focus on other things.

Thanks so much for that -- I've literally been wanting that since last week. How uncanny. Its the very reason why I chose "Placidd [Placid]" 🙂



Posted by 88PisceScorp
& I have mars in Aquarius --- do I still qualify—
and I am a Double Ocho too. LOL
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Yes, you still qualify!!! 😄

Im glad you understand and can relate to my describing loving someone,
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If you're pining for your ex and you broke up in March, what you described feeling seems like the normal grieving process to me. When you really love someone and it doesn't work out, it takes time to heal from it. We say, "get over it" "move on" but those are just empty words until you're ready. The more you care, the longer it takes to heal but heal you will. You'll know that you're finally over this when you stop thinking about her and feeling sad. And it will happen. Time heals all wounds. Be patient with yourself. Sorry it did not work out.

If this is just a general once in a blue moon pine, I saw pine away! It's good to remember the love. I'm a Cancer & we're terribly nostalgic so this isn't a problem to me. It becomes a problem when you live in the past and use it as an excuse to not move forward. Fishes gotta swim!
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Placidd
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Posted by juke
alright everyone, we can start the party now. i'm here.




Juke! I feel humbled by your post in my thread 😄
Good song entrance, btw!


Posted by Este8
If you're pining for your ex and you broke up in March, what you described feeling seems like the normal grieving process to me. When you really love someone and it doesn't work out, it takes time to heal from it. We say, "get over it" "move on" but those are just empty words until you're ready. The more you care, the longer it takes to heal but heal you will. You'll know that you're finally over this when you stop thinking about her and feeling sad. And it will happen. Time heals all wounds. Be patient with yourself. Sorry it did not work out.

If this is just a general once in a blue moon pine, I saw pine away! It's good to remember the love. I'm a Cancer & we're terribly nostalgic so this isn't a problem to me. It becomes a problem when you live in the past and use it as an excuse to not move forward. Fishes gotta swim!
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Thank you for your thoughts...yeah It sucks being this nostalgic. To put it simply, I miss my friend :/
but I understand what you mean. I am feeling TONS better than before. today I met someone at work who is going to the same school I am, so I am hoping she and I can become good friends and see what happens from there. I felt pretty comfortable being myself around her when we worked together! I had fun with working with her. It was refreshing to be myself around someone after so long 😛