Posted by metalaquamonkey
I'm a Monkey and 2016 started going downhill for me after March. As soon as one issue got resolved a few more would pop up.
The thing is, these were things I could not prevent or foresee. I thought as a Monkey the year of the Monkey would've been a great year. Boy was I wrong.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Like I just commented, some people need closure and some do not.. b/c even though I'm asking for advice.. I still have to type the letter... I still have to proof-read the letter, I still have to decide on what I want/ do not want in the letter.....
I'm not going to COPY & PASTE... Like are you kidding me.. I wouldn't "stretch" the truth... b/c only him and I know what we've been through... I gave a general explanation of the letter... So you don't know all I have to say.. Plus as I said in my earlier response... I'm asking for help w/ the end.. Which is the (Yes you did hurt me, but I forgave you a long time ago. And I wish you well)
Definitely not jumping around the truth... Being direct but not in a harsh way..
Harsh meaning like this ( Yea you treetrunked up and you were a piece of butter. Plus you was wrong for doing this and doing that.. But I forgave you for the treetrunked up butter you did)
B/c that's exactly how I want to write it, but that's not giving him closure.. That's going to give him space to respond and start a "back-and-forth" effect... So if I say it in a polite way.. He'll only have to accept the polite "goodbye, farewell"