Help with a pisces man

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I need help with a pisces guy that I have been seeing for about 4 months. He blows hot and cold. I''m a virgo. Today I''m convinced he likes me. Tomorrow he behaves like I''m just an acquaintance. Like the other day, he bought me flowers to say sorry for a very minor thing he did. He brought them to my place but when I invited him to come in he declined choosing to stay in the car. What''s up with that?
I think either he like me but he doesn''t want to or He doesn''t like me but he wants me.

Pisceans tell me how I can gently help him to decide, either way.
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You have probably hurt his feelings by now and he doesn't trust you. Being a Virgo, you wouldn't understand the subtleties of his feelings. He wouldn't understand your rationality and subdued emotions. Probably you are too aloof for him.

He probably loves you and wants you but doesn't like you. Or he likes you half the time.

I think that Virgos and Pisces are very attracted to each other but in the end it is the Virgo who ends up destroying the Pisces who takes things so personally. Sexually, it is a great match. But I think that you will only understand him if you think with your heart (which is very difficult for a Virgo). Perhaps you are one of the more sensitive ones.

I am a Piscean female who tried to understand and love a Virgo male. It was the most destructive love affair in my life. I barely recovered. I am still recovering and may never totally heal. The passion was great and there was even great friendship at one time. But it is a love hate type of thing between a Virgo and a Pisces. When it is good, it is great and when it is bad, it is absolutely hell.

That is why he is hot and cold. At least from my analysis which could be just one narrow minded viewpoint and a lot of crap.

In general, from my experience, Virgos are not very honest or open about their emotions and feelings and should try to be moreso. They have other good qualities though. And they do have a lot of what a Piscean needs. If they can just work together, they would be great.

I think that if you want love and passion, go for the Pisces. If you want stability and security , find someone more suitable to your own kind. Which you probably will do eventually. Your values may be too different to overcome.

Try to be kind to him. Enjoy the good moments.

Good luck.
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I am married to a pisces, and after 7 years, he still wants me and dont want me.at times hes nice and loveing and at other times he is cold and distant. save your self the heart ache,and find someone on the same wave link as you. trust me it will only cause you frustration and confusion.let go while you still can,and another thing i have found they only do things nice for you to make themselves feel better, its not about doing something nice for you, its about being able to tell someone they did something nice for you its a major self thing they have going on.they are more worried about what other people think of them, not what people they know and love think of them.
good luck from;got one myself
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Hi! I am a pisces female and fell in love with a pisces male. Needless to say I have been left out in the cold with a very broken heart. Our birthdays where but a day apart, we got along so well in every way, what happened? I have no idea, he just stopped calling..no closure, nothing. I think of him alot, having difficulties moving forwards etc. But we all survive these things and hopefully I will recover soon. I still believe he's the man for me..sorrowful isn't it...