How much does a pisces value emotional connection?

I hate to put things this way because it sounds kind of self-indulgent, but myself and a few other male Pisces I know are just incredibly charismatic and flirting comes naturally. There's never anything behind it for me (and this has actually caused a few uncomfortable conversations afterwards), but sometimes I find myself saying things that could be flirty well after the fact.

In addition to this, the Pisces I know have absolutely no difficulty in making friends, often times with the other gender. Again, I think it comes down to the charisma and the ability to gel with anyone. This isn't a sweeping generalization, but it's just observations of myself and others I know.

I'd take your BFs words at what they mean. Emotional connection is very important, and if he says these things, I would venture to say he believes them. Try not to be jealous, but I also don't want to tell you how to be. This is just observation. Good luck 🙂!

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My people tend to say things in anger that we do not mean.

I have no idea to whom you are referring as "my people," but I certainly am not one, and I would be astonished if any other Pisces agreed to your self-declared overlordship.

Whatever.

It's called a chill pill.

Try one.

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Another thing, if I push him too hard.. He gets mad & we end up in a big fight and so nothing gets done

Posted by Sassygurl

... he is very close to two people (couple who breaks up a lot and gets back together a lot) Who don't really like me, he flirts with the girl a lot and tells me that she is his best friend's gf

I have told him multiple times that it bothers me that he is too flirty with her ...

... he asked me to talk to her and tell her not to be so friendly

... she is in an open relationship with this guy who happens to be my bf's friend.

First .... why don't they like you? How do you know they don't like you? did they tell you this, or did the flirty boyfriend tell you this to try and make you feel bad? What difference does it make whether they like you or not? It must make a difference because you mentioned it.

To tell him that something bothers you is acceptable. However, telling them to change their behavior is not okay. You can't ask, nor expect a person to change for you. You tell them that it upsets you and if they aren't willing to adapt themselves for the sake of your feelings ... then that person is a tosser, NOT a keeper.

The 3rd partial quote above is really telling. You don't seem to recognize what it means, since you mention it in passing, as if it doesn't hold importance. He's being disingenuous with you. By him saying for you to go talk to her about her friendliness is him trying to take all responsibility off of him. And don't seem to notice. He's playing you like a fiddle, but, you love him, so this reality will fly right over your head.

I notice you didn't say anything about him being flirty with others ..... just with a woman who is in an open relationship with his friend. Dudes are territorial, and don't naturally agree to have their females fuck other men. So, the logical assumption becomes = these men are discussing this woman sexually, and your bf is being allowed to disrespect her. Your bf probably already knows about her sexual prowess, and is trying to get her to slut herself with him.


You don't seem to notice any of this. The only thing you seem to be aware of is your little feels.

To answer your question: Pisces not only value emotional connection, they wrap their whole world around a person they are connected to.

It's a rare day to have an emotional connection with someone, and when Pisces encounter this, they usually morph themselves with this person for the sake of compatibility.

A Pisces with an emotional connection to another person is sought after greatly.



So, now here you are with 9 months under your belt, with no emotional connection with this Pisces guy because if there was a connection, you would know it because he would be the person you need him to be. Afterall, that is what Pisces is .. the cameleon.

when confronted, he tosses your feelings aside and tells you to go talk to her.


That ^^^^ one red flag in itself is waving so high and furiously that it should be blinding to you. But, you don't see it. Or maybe you don't care to see it. Maybe you like being deluded.

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Another thing, if I push him too hard.. He gets mad & we end up in a big fight and so nothing gets done

One day, someone's going to push you ..... let's see what song you sing then.

Thanks yellowsubmarine. We talked about everything and ended up sorting things out and getting back together. We have been through a lot together and we love each other.

Pisces are naturally playful with everyone and born to be entertainers.
We love to see people smile because it makes us happy, this is our way of being friendly not necessarily flirty, even though we usually are, BIG TIME.

I personally find being flirtatious a more exciting/funny way to communicate with women in general, there's electricity in the air when they smile, also I get pretty bored if I don't since my mind needs to be very active all the time while our humour improves.

We're constantly training ourselves, let him be playful with the other girls, even sexually, it's who we are, it's our nature, so unless he's getting physically touching it's all good.

Being flirty it's actually very healthy for us because it augments our confidence, we don't usually have much, and we become more creative and attractive in the eyes of our gf too, which I would say it's never a bad thing.

You can be sure that if he truly loves you, he'll think about you 24/7, night and day to the point of obsession, which is fine when you're with someone, excruciating when you're not, it's a double-edged sword, the biggest quality/weakness we have. So trust him and he'll give you his heart, just don't try to stop his stream of thoughts when he's in public, let his mind evade from the habitual routine of a relationship.

I've also noticed that Pisces, as myself par exemple, tend to have a witty sense of humour, so we could be sharp in our remark but very subtle, besides we add in the mix the piscean gentle touch therefore no one gets offended or takes it too personally. When I want to be very explicit I tend to include in the joke the actual bf, who is usually a friend of mine, to make her slightly jealous of him and even more possessive.

Yes, I'm an awesome right-hand man :-)

P.s. Pisces may fantasise a lot about other women but their heart stays with the same girl all the time.

Thank you @Palerio, your insight was very helpful 🙂
He used to tell me that he thinks about me all the time especially when are away from each other, exactly what you said. But he hasn't said it more recently. Recently he just says he loves me and that I make him feel "safe"

Hey there @yellowsubmarine, I will PM you for sure 🙂