So here's the story::: Ive been great friends with this guy..theres been feelings there. A year AND a half ago he asked for a relationship but I decline concerning the fact I left for college and most importantly I was scared about losing a good friendship if it didnt work out. We talk about EVERYTHING, I trust him. Things cooled off last year, but this year feelings are getting deep again, and I feel like he is about to get the confidence to ask me out again..for example::: I was back home for the weekend, we chilled, talked and watched movies, then he said out of nowhere" I Love our friendship I think we have a great understanding that could lead else--where!"...After that the conversation went completely silent! I immediately lighten the mood by oftering a walk to get ice cream! He left and later on that night he texted me sayingthis:: "It's never about me or you, it's always about us and I respect that about you.Speak so that you may be heard, and at the end of each day, we learn from each other!
So right now Im confused because I dont wanna reject anyone I like him and care for him too, but he's the type that you date when Im older and I would love to experience that one day but NOT now. He's also said to me randomly" The one I want going to come around sooner than later but until then Im gonna wait my turn" if that was referance to me I dont feel someone should wait for anyone thats NOT fair and if he meets someone I'll just have to deal with it ...oh decisions, thoughts, decisions! GIVE ME SOME FEED-BACK...THANKS GUYS AND LADIES
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Ive been great friends with this guy..theres been feelings there. A year AND a half ago he asked for a relationship but I decline concerning the fact I left for college and most importantly I was scared about losing a good friendship if it didnt work out. We talk about EVERYTHING, I trust him. Things cooled off last year, but this year feelings are getting deep again, and I feel like he is about to get the confidence to ask me out again..for example:::
I was back home for the weekend, we chilled, talked and watched movies, then he said out of nowhere" I Love our friendship I think we have a great understanding that could lead else--where!"...After that the conversation went completely silent! I immediately lighten the mood by oftering a walk to get ice cream! He left and later on that night he texted me sayingthis::
"It's never about me or you, it's always about us and I respect that about you.Speak so that you may be heard, and at the end of each day, we learn from each other!
So right now Im confused because I dont wanna reject anyone I like him and care for him too, but he's the type that you date when Im older and I would love to experience that one day but NOT now. He's also said to me randomly" The one I want going to come around sooner than later but until then Im gonna wait my turn" if that was referance to me I dont feel someone should wait for anyone thats NOT fair and if he meets someone I'll just have to deal with it ...oh decisions, thoughts, decisions!
GIVE ME SOME FEED-BACK...THANKS GUYS AND LADIES