I need help with a pisces woman.

I met a pisces girl 17th March 1994 at college just over a year ago now and I am a scorpio man 11th November 1994.

She was in a relationship at the time so we just remained on good terms and didn't really develop a friendship. When the new year came around I tried becoming friends again and she accepted, I found out she had broken up and we became closer ( I also rejected her invitations to drink and hang out together because my study was more important at the time ) on the 4th time I said yes and we had a great night at the end of the semester. When the holidays came round I asked her out for lunch and she provided polite excuses that she was busy 3 times until she finally agreed to meet on the 4th time... We had a great time and I paid for her and stuff. She went off on a holiday shortly after and haven't seen her since, I've been initiating some of the conversations but it's generally quite balanced. She still talks to her disgusting virgo ex boyfriend still and I'm trying to be as supportive as possible when she's sick or needs help or anything as I really like this one but it feels like I'm smashing my head against a brick wall... Does anyone have any suggestions? Cheers. I'm not in this for pure physical gain, and I haven't had much physical contact with her, she has said that she's still building "emotionally" and that she needs time, but it has been 7 months since they broke up, I'm at a loss as whether to give up or still hang on to the hope that she's interested in more than just a generic friendship I have with many other girls that I'm not as attracted to.

Wow you was born the same day and month I was..its weird you want to date..I had a friend with our birth date and he focus on one thing his future..I ve never saw him showing any affection to any girl...so good for you that pisces girl...scorpio and pisces are amazing togethet

Yeah and about her virgo guy...dude I must say virgos have their own magic..but I know you have your magic too..and I know you can treat her like a princess..so whats holding you ?..I guess you r not sure you want to be with her...I know you r kinda young and you will try not to be committed to anything but your study..I guess shes feeling that..she is not the first thing in your life..so I guess you should stick with making friends right now and hanging out and forget about girls..you r not ready to deal with their bullsht right now

Hi, I'm a pisces woman and I'm around your age too, I was born on 1993, so my insight might help you even though I recognize that not all pisces are the same so I will talk to you about MY point of view.

Some have pointed out that for us, pisces, it is hard to move on from a relationship, and that is true, because as they said when we love, we love very deeply. So when your pisces girl says she needs time it is because she really needs it, she needs time to heal and to forget the other guy and that will happen eventually but you will need to be very patient, that is my biggest advice with pisces girls: PATIENCE! I hate it when guys are very forward and pushy, so please try to avoid that, and please take it slow because if you don't you might scare her and she'll swim away from you.

I think that she probably DOES like you, because in my case I NEVER go out on dates with guys I don't like, if someone shows interest in me but I don't feel the same way I always try to keep contact to a minimun or I cut them off completely so they don't get their hopes up. If she is accepting your invitations and keeping contact with you it means there most be some sort of attraction, I only go out on dates with guys I'm attracted to.

My recommendation is to take it slowly, keep inviting her out and build your friendship with her but flirt from time to time and send her subtle hints, show her that you are a trust worthy guy and that you are interested in her. And then whenever you feel that the time is right tell her how you feel about her and that you want to be more than friends. In my case, I'm very shy and I will never make a move or reveal my feelings if the man doesn't do it first, my fear of rejection and awkwardness is huge, maybe she is like me so you will have to take the iniciative.

My opinion is that she likes you but she is still unsure, don't give up on her and give it a try, hang in there for a while and before you give up or before you start dating other people tell her how you feel about her.

So to sum it all up ^^^^^

-Be patient
-Move slowly and gradually, don't rush.
-And have fun, enjoy the time with her, make good memories together 🙂

All of these suggestions are amazing, I asked her if she wanted to hang out and grab lunch again but she said she was really busy with college starting again and being behind one week, so I guess I have to stay patient... It's frustrating but I guess I just have to deal

I want to let go, but I'm content with waiting, our friendship/ relationship is getting better and better and if she doesn't come round then we can remain friends. Another girl will come soon anyways