I'm a Virgo female and I like a Pisces Man but...

I am a female Virgo and I am soooo into this Pisces guy. but someone told me who his ex girlfriend was and she was beautiful model looking and I got sooo discouraged. But he was really nice to me and we laughed and joked when I had to interview him for something work related. My former boss kept telling me that he and I would be good for one another and she told me to call him. After 4 1/2 weeks of not seeing him and talking to him I did. He was busy at the time but he was very polite and said he would call me back. He called me the next day but Iwasnt home so he left a message on my machine. I called him the day after that and I got his machine. So I left a message and I havent heard from him since
Dont know what to do, I also had a dream about him 3 weeks after the phone tag incident. In my dream he told me that he was interested in me too, but that we would talk again at the screening (of this movie) that we both worked on

How long until the screening? lol.

Seriously though, I would just wait it out for a while. If a lot of time goes by and you still haven't heard from him, you could call him one more time and leave a message--a short but sweet one saying that you weren't sure if he received your last message and you were just checking in to see how he's doing. Something like that. If after that, you still don't hear from him, there are lots of fish in the sea. (sorry, had to use the cliche since we're discussing a Pisces)

Hi phoenix the screening is not until fall of this year. I think i may pretty much let go of the idea of him because I just dont think it would work. I am kinda like a love sick puppy right now. I would like to try and date someone new and start fresh, But I kep getting drawn back to my ex who is a Capricorn. Gosh, I am so confused. I think what I want more than anything now though is to meet someone who wants me for me. Who can respect me and who wants to be in a relationship with me. I have been single for a very very long time now and I am ready to be in a relationship again. I really want that more than ever now. It seems like just so much time has passed now that I am actually quite scared of what a relationship can bring

Perfectly understandable. It's a good thing that you at least recognize that you are scared, this means that you know what you need to work through: the fear. Whatever you decide to do, make sure that you make the decision from a place of bravery in the face of the unknown, rather than fear in the face of the unknown. I've found that when decisions are made this way, you end up much happier because you don't feel trapped down the line when you realize that you made your decision based on what would feel comfortable over what would be new and exciting and different and fated and necessary.

I wish you much luck, and keep posting with updates as time goes by! 🙂

whatever you do, be blunt with a pisces. You know, like a hammar or a cinderblock or, even better, a roque mallet like in The Shining. You got to hit 'em hard, knock out all their teeth and break a few bones. If you don't, he'll never realize how you feel about him and his own insecurities (i've never met a pisces without lots of 'em) will stop him if he likes you but doesn't know you too well.

but ah I'm an odd one. So maybe hitting that hard would hurt his feelings and then he'd break down and cry... Try a papercut- it's sharp and to the point and too little to bother him for long. I don't remember what I was saying except that I had some clever little metaphor in my mind about this but a strong wind went and blew it out of my mind. Damn the wind tunnel through my ears.


ps I really don't hate pisces. Just people who are too like me.

pss If i were you I wouldn't listen to me.