I'm not exactly liked on this board by some but.

I'm not exactly liked on this board by some but.

This has got to stop...the invalidation of posters because they don't see things the way you do is sickening.

Somebody had to say something (aloud not via inbox) about the situation. I don't have to be "liked" or belong and I'm definitely not a kiss ass so I feel I have the freedom to say what others would like to say but can't (for fear of being ostracized). Some of yall really need to get it together.

Hi garfield...(that used to be my favorite cartoon)

shutup mspisces!! lol

But yeah...I've just been noticing how some of the posters will call another stupid or come down on them just because they don't think the same way. You can come in here and say, "a pisces man murdered my dog". And some people will say, "well your dog shouldn't have died...you see pisces people only murder things that need to be murdered. There is no way that a pisces person would murder anything willfully. There was divine intervention from god that induced the pisces into a murderous rage. The murderous rage was still an expression of beauty. Of course you wont understand you're not pisces STUPID!"

or something like that lol

you guys..lol.. I'm serious tho' :mean face:

Imitationoflyfe I don't think I've ever even commented on any of your posts - but I have absolutely nothing against you and you are more than welcome to post whatever comment you may have.

I read some of your other posts about Pisces, and I never commented, because I know who I am and that's all that matters. But everyone is entitled to their opinion, just don't expect everyone to like it lol.

What sign are you anyway?

lol ...

hey that's life your damned if you; your damned if you don't.

"I hope you really haven't understand her point .. because it seems to me you are trying somehow to get her as supporting you... I really hope I am wrong....."

Moro I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

My point was simply that everyone has a choice over whether or not they respond to a thread/post and the manner in which they respond if they so choose to do so.

I chose in the case of that particular thread not to respond, because I didn't feel the need to do so.

As for support lol I need nor ask for any support from anyone on DXP, and everyone who knows me on here knows that.

Gangsta ain't that the truth lol. 😛

Seriously am I losing the plot here or what?

No, you're not losing it ..

This is the first time I've met you. I have to problems

Hi!!! I'm cappysweetie 🙂

People struggle, sometimes, to understand that we stand alone in our assessments/obversations/opinions .. and so cannot really grasp that what we do or say is by personal choice, and has no relevance according to any kind of support system.


lol, pp .. I guess were just doomed to be damned.

How's your grandmother doing, Gangsta?

Hope she got her meds straight and she's back to normal.

Imitation, that example was so friggin funny lol 🙂

I get exactly what you mean. Everyone has their own beliefs and experiences so no one person is correct. However we all can be more open minded to other interpretations. 😉

Please also remember that the only person who can truly explain someone's behavior is the person doing the behaving or misbehaving. Let's not shoot our astro-messengers. We don't want to lose anybody. 😢

it is ok,you are making people smile,and that is worth a lot🙂.as for h8 brigade,they make you more readable

lmao @ h8 brigade


i'll be using that, thank u 🙂

no,you need to buy the rights,i have the copyright😛

Imit--Fly You intend to unfairly be critical and judgmental of other people, yet nonetheless wear your opinions openly faced. Your scornful attitude only causes people to feel the same way towards YOU. you want to be accepted and liked by others in this group and I'm sure they would be delighted to have you and welcome you but with only one condition. That you openly find something (just one thing) to appreciate in each one of them. The ugly harshness that you apply to others is merely their response to you in mirroring your actions and in returning to you their own opinions back. They would like to like you. Give them a reason to.

Your previous posts to tear down all pisces people and then try to retract your statement by claiming it was "mis-interpreted".

It's blatantly obvious that this is your problem no matter where you go: ******I don't have to be "liked" or belong and I'm definitely not a kiss ass so I feel I have the freedom to say what others would like to say but can't (for fear of being ostracized).****

YOU OBVIOUSLY DO CARE ABOUT BEING Ostracized and don't belong !!!! It is the very reason you posted that statement. To try to convince everyone that it doesn't matter when in fact. IT DOES !!! LMAO

If it didn't matter, you wouldn't bother putting so much negative energy into your comments or "opinions" to be heard. You feel orphaned and enraged due to something that happened to you because as someone pointed out on another thread...."You got dumped by a pisces" and now.........you're waging a verbal war on the Pisces board to make yourself feel better and sooth your emotional wounds.

I suppose that's just human nature to need to vent and lash out. But seriously you're directing your anger in the wrong place. Taking your anger and resentments out in comments disguised as "opinions" that only make you look foolish and pathetic.

Why don't you come clean......and tell us what really happened so we can ALL join you in bashing this one Pisces that gave the rest of us a black eye.

I definitely agree with imitation.

You can still state your opinions without making the person feel stupid and just be respectful about it.

@ ms.pisces...its not about ME being sensitive. Or maybe it is...I am sensitive to other people's feelings (which is why I was so adamant about stating to those that were offended that I was not speaking of all pisces). I could understand the response I was getting because of the misunderstanding. That has very little to do with this post. I've noticed (and apparently so have others) the bullying that has been going on in other topics. People that are just genuinely trying to discuss things or ask questions are being talked down to. That's what this is about.

P-angel...that whole 'you just don't understand us' bit is not cool. That's the point of coming here and asking questions or making topics, to understand. Its not impossible to understand a pisces. We may not all agree but to act as if a person (regardless of sign) just doesn't have the mental capacity to understand another's point of view (regardless of sign) is very disrespectful.

Hey cappysweetie! Pleased to meet cha!

@ Thetis I'm a cancimini with a cappy moon...

@ templeofjaguar...

I explained my intentions in the vampire thread. Its just baffling to me how people could think I was speaking of ALL 3 trillion pisces. Hindsight is 20/20 and in future posts there will be a disclaimer. I will take some of the responsibility and say that I should have made it crystal clear that I was not referring to all in the beginning. I will not however take all responsibility because some people got it. Not everyone was offended.

Again I'm not pulling this topic totally out of my azz. Some people in this topic know exactly what I'm talking about. I have a knack for saying the things people want to say. There are a lot of people that are interested in learning about the pisces sign (because you guys are amongst the most interesting people IMO). How are people gonna feel comfortable if possibly the most insightful posters are on the defense or on some "holier than thou" ego trip?

You're funny, IOL. Join us.


::clears a spot at the table::

Humans apparantly fear their own weaknesses.


Perhaps, what you should be thinking about is ... why do you have so many nerves to hit? If you tended to your open nerve endings with awareness to yourself, then perhaps it wouldn't sting so bad, and you wouldn't have to worry about your feelings getting hurt.

Question:

Why is it just Gemini's who can't aim straight once they've been burnt?

Here, and on another thread .... an injury has taken place, and so instead of mending this open nerve for self-growth and awareness .. it's projected onto another person as though they are behaving within this delusional state.

I don't recall so much the "holier than thou attitude" from your previous post as much as I recall a lot of anger and hostility on your part to the response you received from your post.

It's just that there are 2 ways to make your point without making people defensive at you. For example: If you were driving a bus and stood up and said "OK, everyone off the bus! versus: "OK,YOU FUKKIN A-HOLES GET OFF THE BUS!" One will get a much more favorable response then the other one. But granted,...there's always going to be someone who just isn't going to get off the bus.

I wholeheartedly agree you should be free to state you opinions, express yourself, or make comments in general on this forum or any other but your presentation was like a lit bag of schit left on the doorstep.

🙂

Why is everyone overlooking the issue here... the issue is not about me. Do you guys not see that there are people that agree with me on this? Are we all just being too sensitive?

@mspisces. You are missing the point of the thread. I'm not asking for forgiveness for anything. That ship has sailed I had already explained my intentions in the vampire thread. Read this entire thread again and everyone's comments and see if you get the point.

P-angel, what are you talking about? Why can't you just take the thread for what it is instead of filling in extra info where there is none. You can't see the forest for the trees. You break everything down to a science but you don't seem to grasp what I and others are saying in this thread. Instead it's the blame game. Always somebody's else's fault because they're not understanding seems to be your M.O. Could it be that a pisces can be behaving disrespectfully? It's coming across to me that you think pisces are above reproach or something. I'll tell you what I told Ms.pisces, read this entire thread again and everyone's comments and see if you get the point. Because you are totally missing it. Why are you grouping all gemini's into one trait. I see you like to do that alot with signs. Well, I am not my sign. I don't subscribe to the kind of thinking that stereotypes people because of anything, be it zodiac sign, race, sex, religion, etc. I could replace the word "gemini" in your post with "black people" and you would be able to CLEARLY understand how prejudiced you sound. "Why can't black people aim straight once they've been burnt?" Your level of thinking is part of what produces prejudice and racism.

@Temple...I think you are taking this as me apologizing to this board and this is not ...I repeat..not what this thread is about. It's amazing to me how you guys look over moro, ms.aristocracy, and merge's posts and chalk it up to whining or that we are delusional because you don't understand where we are coming from. This is the type of thing that I have a problem with on this board. This is what this topic is addressing. I've noticed this with some (DISCLAIMER: SOME MEANING NOT ALL) pisces people offline as well. Some of them feel they are NEVER the problem. Like everyone else is being delusional...nothing goes off in their heads to say, "hmm maybe they do have a point"...that is very disrespectful.

Why don't you get to the truth, and cut all the shit?

P-angel...seriously what is your deal?

I just typed a whole paragraph explaining myself. Yet you are looking for more. Again..can't see the forest for the trees.

smh...wow...this is amazing...yet amusing. So if someone calls someone stupid or responds to them disrespectfully because they don't understand the person they are the one's with the problem? Gotcha! lol

and since you pointed out the first question. You should've went ahead and answered the 2nd and third questions too. I guess everyone that has been sending me messages thanking me for starting this topic is delusional as well right? Gotcha. Lol

"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. No one is here to cater to you, or your expectations of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"

Mspisces....

lol...I think you should be telling some of your fellow members of the board that as well. You want everyone else to do that but are the pisces on this board doing that? If they were there wouldn't have been such an uproar in that other thread now would there?

So everyone is supposed to watch what they say to pisces on here but others don't deserve that same respect?

I put the topic up. You don't have the right to tell me how to bring this issue up. This is the way I chose to do it. If it doesn't apply to you then why are you here ms.pisces? Follow your own advice which was


"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. No one is here to cater to you, or your expectations of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"

K,thanks,bye!

again...

"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. No one is here to cater to you, or your expectations of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"


Should I have done it the piscean way? I did it the way I wanted...

Again..
Why are you grouping all CANCERS into one trait. I am not my sign. I am an individual. I don't subscribe to the kind of thinking that stereotypes people because of anything, be it zodiac sign, race, sex, religion, etc. This level of thinking is in part responsible for prejudice, racism, sexism, etc...

I responded to the welcoming posters as well as the others so what are you talking about?

That's funny how you are taking obviously valid complaints with the situation on the board and attributing it to how I feel about the pisces sign as a whole. I have no problem with the sign...I love the sign.

lol...exactly...mirrors are lovely aren't they?

honestly, I know they're are people reading this that are lurkers (like I was for a while). Notice the invalidation techniques that were used by some in this thread when a complaint was bought up. Some said I was whining, my feelings were hurt, I was apologizing (and they accept lol), and I was delusional. Thus far the issue that was raised has not been discussed.

Bringing up those things some do not want to discuss. How many road blocks will be thrown before the issue is discussed. Lets say I am delusional, crazy, with a deep hatred for pisces and I have a .25 IQ. That still does not negate the fact that the issues brought up in this thread were valid. Whatever you think of me doesn't INVALIDATE the points that I have made.

sigh.......... AGAIN ms.pisces...

"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. No one is here to cater to you, or your expectations of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"

"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. No one is here to cater to you, or your expectations of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"

what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Follow your own advice!

"You'll be much better off here, if you lose the expectations. NO ONE IS HERE TO CATER TO YOU...of how you would like to be addressed when posting something"

delusional...I hate pisces...coward...little girl... Ok and? What next you're on a roll keep it up! (this is invalidation ie the 'road blocks' for everyone who's reading this)

Honestly do you have anything to add to the discussion or will you continue with the sophmoric name calling mspisces?

**more invalidation ensues** (ie there was never a discussion in the first place, you should've been specific...you hate pisces anyway..you are a coward...you little girl you you you!!!) lol

If anyone else wants to talk via messages or in the thread, respond. Mspisces this is the last of our exchange. It was nice knowing ya! **Smoochezz**

Remember kids!! People that have to tear down others typically lead a sad existance. Upstream guys..upstream..