Is this typical Pisces Male Behavior

I'll try and make this short..

I met up with a friend from high school over the weekend and he is really trying to make something happen between us. Here is the whole thing that i don't get.. My boyfriend of 2 years in high school.. this is his best friend. (the one i met up with) In high school... we didn't speak much at all, even though he was my boyfriends best friend. I mean, not even "what's up" in the hall way. He had his girlfriend of all 4 years of school, he was very to him self.. Although he had a BIG head cuz he was the all star running back.. i didn't think twice about him. When i wasn't with his best friend, i hung out with the football players in the grades above us. So he was nothing special as far as i was concerned. okay anyway.. ALL these years..16... out of the blue 6 months ago, he sees me on classmates.com and emails me asking me to call him. i do... and it's all nice and hey how's it going. I called him out about why he would have ANY desire to talk to me, when he didn't think twice about me in school. He said he always like me, but he wasn't very social in school.. which is true. And some conversations later..he admits that he liked me more than he should of so he kept his distance from me out of respect for his best friend and also his girlfriend. I don't know if i buy that.. but anyway. So i go on a trip for work in his area.. and we meet. He is nothing like he was in school.. great... BUT he is just totally working at me and him hooking up. He took me to his mom's and i met his gramma and cousins and aunties and nieces and nephews.. I don't get this out of the blue desire of his.... any hints clues or anything into a Pisces male would be MUCH appreciated...

Hi...HHmmm Pisces male..now there's a very complex creature! I had the fortune (or misfortune depending on your outlook)of meeting one 4 years ago and was struck by him, he was georgous but I never said anything to him. Took a brave pill last April and contacted him, things went from there. I asked him why he had never taken a step further and his comment was "was content to chat and watch from a distance" and that was that...had I not been forward, shall we say, nothing would have happend. My Pisces male would admire from afar and day dream about what would happen rather than actually doing something about it. Now he has retreated back into his shell, so make the most of your fish man whilst you have his attention. good luck and watch your heart, as mine got broken by a fish and I am still suffering..even now.

Sounds like it's just HUMAN behaviour of someone who wants to hook up with another.

People change all the time. Just because he wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship in the past, but, is trying to see if one could develop now, has zilch to do with his sun sign.

If you approach a relationship with him now being suspicious of his motives, then it's doomed to fail before it ever gets started . . . because he will SENSE that you are distrusting of him.

Second, I'm not sure I get this "out of the blue" thing you were talking about. You said it was a community where school people were chatting with each other. So, if you talk to ANYBODY in that community online that you've not talked to in a while . . it could mean "out of the blue". You make this sound like this is something to be leary about.

What's wrong with connecting with a person from the past? Why be suspicious of that? Sounds to me like this issue is more of something YOU need to think about, then, one he might have.

He's not leary of you . . . YOU ARE OF HIM. That's your problem, baby, not his.

"If you approach a relationship with him now being suspicious of his motives, then it's doomed to fail before it ever gets started . . . because he will SENSE that you are distrusting of him."

Thanks for pointing that out.. i need to NOT do that..

"Second, I'm not sure I get this "out of the blue" thing you were talking about. You said it was a community where school people were chatting with each other. So, if you talk to ANYBODY in that community online that you've not talked to in a while . . it could mean "out of the blue". You make this sound like this is something to be leary about. "

It is out of the blue, because he hasn't kept in touch with anyone from back then. I have.. and gave him numbers and what not to reach the few he was friends with. I do feel there are other motives there... It could be just me, hell it probably is, i just find it really odd. There was nothing from our past that would make me feel he would ever want to reconnect with me much less take things further.

"What's wrong with connecting with a person from the past? Why be suspicious of that? Sounds to me like this issue is more of something YOU need to think about, then, one he might have. "

Oppse forgot my comment..lol i encourage reconnecting with people in my past.. I'm very open to it, and i was looking forward to meeting him again.. but he just completely threw me with the wanting to hook up.

I think if it were me, I'd look at it differently than being worried about it.

If he did have an interest, before, but wanted to remain respectful to you, your boyfriend (his best friend) and his girlfriend at the time . . damn, that's an admirable quality. I would focus on the fact that he tries to do right by people and respect them, then worry about the "what if's".

Nothing is for certain in any relationship, but, if it's started with decentcy and honesty, then it has all the earmarks for sucess.

Then there's the other thing . . .

You know what I mean . . .

He was your boyfriends best friend. You've no idea what these two boys shared. It's possible that your boyfriend told him about your sexuality, and this man now just wants a piece.

You know men . . .

I appreciate you P-Angel.. don't know if you know that or not.. lol you can be harsh.. but i adore your straight forwardness... that's why i wanted to post it in your boards.. lol

I'm going to have to relax with him because he does interest me enough to investigate him more..lol And yeah he was a loyal and all that good shit kinda guy back then.

See P-Angel, that's why it's hard for me to let go of my reservations and not wonder the "WHY" about it all. But I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and see what he does with it. He had me meet his gramma and aunties and cousins and all that.. that.. and theywere shocked he brought me over. they said they haven't meet any of his "girls" in a long time. lol ugh who knows..

Holy crap! I should try to find some of those crushes I had in high school and see if any of them are still good looking! 🙂 FOr the record, I think he is being sincere. A guy who wasn't probably wouldn't take you to meet the whole fam so early on.