thefish
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Left A Fish
awww, so sorry thefish. I know a break up can be so hard for you swimmers. Males anyway... my bud put his hand through a wall last year.
Pisces/pisces relationships must be difficult without a lot of grounding elements in each other's chart. Highest of highs, lowest of lows so to speak.
May I ask, how long it took for you to reach this decision? Weeks, months? Was it a gradual thing or did you wake up one day and just know, then have to find away to say it out loud?
Anyway... I hope you find your closure 😢
Pisces/pisces relationships must be difficult without a lot of grounding elements in each other's chart. Highest of highs, lowest of lows so to speak.
May I ask, how long it took for you to reach this decision? Weeks, months? Was it a gradual thing or did you wake up one day and just know, then have to find away to say it out loud?
Anyway... I hope you find your closure 😢
I have been pondering it for months on and off but i found the power within today to say enough. Its super tough on me to do that. But i made it through.
hey thefish... how are things going? not spending too much time in your head, are you?
Well that sucks fish.but you've sounded less than happy for awhile now,so I'm sure it's for the best.
Oh im deep in my head. Shes talked to me recently and wants to try things. We are both a little reluctant. I would say im 98% sure shes not for me but 2% what if is not 100% . But a scorpio has been lurking around me. Prodding me with her stinger and rapping on my head. Ive told her im just not ready to move into anything with anyone and that i dont consider my business with pisces full concluded within or without.
If i was to rekindle with pisces i feel that she wants me back but doesnt believe ill stay. She thinks i will just become bored and stop putting in effort again. But yet she wants to try things. Im being manipulated but i just dont care. Ohhh how i feel the 1800 different thoughts buzzing around in my head.
If i was to rekindle with pisces i feel that she wants me back but doesnt believe ill stay. She thinks i will just become bored and stop putting in effort again. But yet she wants to try things. Im being manipulated but i just dont care. Ohhh how i feel the 1800 different thoughts buzzing around in my head.
Pesca says a truth. We talked and well im going to try something different. When a person has goals i dont care who you are if you enter a serious pairing your goals transform or even change. Beauty is acceptance. If she knows the worst of you and the darkest of you and thats ok shes gold. But i can sense doubt, i sense displeasure and tho i train vigorously within i still forget that negative always outweighs positive in retrospect. Subconscious trickery will bring the most beautiful moments to the forefront bring about the "second guess".
Im very wild looking, a very alpha male looking type however with her i seem to lack the bite. She seems so fragile its hard to just pick her up and throw her on the wall and go for gold. The funny part is i know she wants it. But i like the kinky stuff. The costumes ( stockings are my weakness ) but we dont seem to meet well on this. Communication is a huge barrier because feelings are always assumed thought.
Pisces women are undecided at all times. Not a bad thing but i struggle with choice as well. Im going to take the buss out for a spin around the block. Ive decided not to rekindle what existed but start something fresh. Because driving a whole new bus when i know what im in for might fair better in my mind.
So we are attempting this. Basically we are hanging out and trying new things. I wont have the label of boyfriend added until i see some work being put it. This has made her uncertain but its really tough to explain to her my intentions. I want a partner that pushes me and i can push back. Perhaps it is indeed that way to change it. Pisces and pisces is difficult even if theres a good bus driver. Perhaps old habits will die on this ride.
But either way she deserves happiness and the state of driving i was in before did not complete that even if she says differently. Love is the only truth. The only thing that can complete a soul. Without it we are wasted.
Im very wild looking, a very alpha male looking type however with her i seem to lack the bite. She seems so fragile its hard to just pick her up and throw her on the wall and go for gold. The funny part is i know she wants it. But i like the kinky stuff. The costumes ( stockings are my weakness ) but we dont seem to meet well on this. Communication is a huge barrier because feelings are always assumed thought.
Pisces women are undecided at all times. Not a bad thing but i struggle with choice as well. Im going to take the buss out for a spin around the block. Ive decided not to rekindle what existed but start something fresh. Because driving a whole new bus when i know what im in for might fair better in my mind.
So we are attempting this. Basically we are hanging out and trying new things. I wont have the label of boyfriend added until i see some work being put it. This has made her uncertain but its really tough to explain to her my intentions. I want a partner that pushes me and i can push back. Perhaps it is indeed that way to change it. Pisces and pisces is difficult even if theres a good bus driver. Perhaps old habits will die on this ride.
But either way she deserves happiness and the state of driving i was in before did not complete that even if she says differently. Love is the only truth. The only thing that can complete a soul. Without it we are wasted.
We are both third decan.
So its true I threw my mermaid back into the ocean. She just wouldnt swim away. So while i went deep into me for a few days and weighed the future. I found what i was missing. There was a difference between being in control and being extremely dominant. So i went back and told her that im driving the bus and the bus is mine. Took her in an angry alpha fashion. Which once i got passed my own initial shock that i was on board and she was REALLY on board it was great.
So now im back in the drivers seat with my mermaid in tow. I just realize she lives to please just as i did. So now i live to please myself and her and that is working out just fine! The scorpion was tempting but when weighting the two possible futures i feel more kindred spirit with my fish.
Cheers all.
So now im back in the drivers seat with my mermaid in tow. I just realize she lives to please just as i did. So now i live to please myself and her and that is working out just fine! The scorpion was tempting but when weighting the two possible futures i feel more kindred spirit with my fish.
Cheers all.
Posted by thefish
So its true I threw my mermaid back into the ocean. She just wouldnt swim away. So while i went deep into me for a few days and weighed the future. I found what i was missing. There was a difference between being in control and being extremely dominant. So i went back and told her that im driving the bus and the bus is mine. Took her in an angry alpha fashion. Which once i got passed my own initial shock that i was on board and she was REALLY on board it was great.
So now im back in the drivers seat with my mermaid in tow. I just realize she lives to please just as i did. So now i live to please myself and her and that is working out just fine! The scorpion was tempting but when weighting the two possible futures i feel more kindred spirit with my fish.
Cheers all.
OMG that's so great! Being in control =/= cruelly dominating. The biggest issue I've found with Pisces-Pisces combos is someone's gotta drive the frickin' bus! And you figured that out on your own. SO happy for you - and her!
i love a happy new beginning 🙂
Posted by ScorpioDreamerPosted by KingPiscesPosted by passinatescorp
Aww too bad you didnt give the scorpion a try...
Pfttt, no offense but I've been with 7 Scorpios, all 3 Decans...Mermaids are something else.
Well, Scorpios aren't for everyone.click to expand
I guess they are for cappies: they complete each other...you figure out the details
Posted by thefish
Beauty is acceptance. If she knows the worst of you and the darkest of you and thats ok shes gold
This is another reason i adore fish: they accept you the way you are and love unconditionally
Posted by thefish
She seems so fragile its hard to just pick her up and throw her on the wall and go for gold. The funny part is i know she wants it. But i like the kinky stuff.
click to expand
I am not sure if i got you right but anyway the physical part is amazing with my pisces we do lots of role playings : she is victim , i am bad guy...she is queen i am slave...tons of scenarios
Posted by passinatescorpPosted by KingPiscesPosted by passinatescorp
Aww too bad you didnt give the scorpion a try...
Pfttt, no offense but I've been with 7 Scorpios, all 3 Decans...Mermaids are something else.
You seem so young too have been with that many girls.click to expand
If I'm not mistaken, KP is pushing 30 - even though he looks 15. Good genetics lol
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